A: Generally, children who have just entered the park are more prone to this situation. Because children eat at the specified time after entering the park, there are no extra snacks to eat. Children who have just come to the garden may not adapt to the diet in the garden, so it is normal to find food as soon as they get home, and it will be fine after a long time. In addition, the kindergarten exercises a lot and consumes a lot of energy. After school, it is close to dinner time, so it is natural to feel hungry.
A: Because the adults in the family are facing a treasure of their own family, and the teachers in the garden are facing a group of children, children are prone to cross-infection, which also requires parents' understanding. But it is normal for children to get sick, especially children under three years old, whose resistance is weak, so special attention should be paid.
A: For unsafe items such as scissors and disinfectant, kindergartens usually put them out of children's reach. However, parents should improve their children's safety awareness and don't wear jewelry to the park.
A: Every child has a different foundation. Generally, the garden will do its best to make every child grow up healthily. For example, in life, teachers will take different measures according to the actual situation of children; In learning, we will try our best to take care of children with poor foundation, encourage them and urge them to keep up with everyone's learning progress in time.
A: There are two ways to change teachers: one is to change teachers, and now the mobility of employed people is also great. The resignation of former teachers for their own reasons or other reasons is more common in private kindergartens; The second is to change teachers in other classes. Because children are promoted from one grade to another, or from one semester to another, it turns out that teachers can't follow them, because the garden considers the teaching level of teachers and chooses teachers who are more suitable for this class to teach.
A: Actually, put yourself in others' shoes. Were both parents the same at school? Children live a collective life in the garden, and there are many children in the class, so teachers can't always pay attention to him; At home, he is an only child and everyone revolves around him. Therefore, affected by different environments, there are different results.
A: Kindergarten teachers are all trained before their posts. Corporal punishment and disguised corporal punishment are absolutely not allowed. But as a teacher, sometimes disciplining children is a bit serious, and the tone will be focused. Parents are also requested to understand each other.
9. Why can't my children perform on stage every time?
A: If an activity is held in the park, the teacher will take the initiative to let each child go on stage. However, when performing outside, it is natural to choose good programs and play garden cards, so the most suitable children will be chosen. Sometimes, the children themselves are unwilling to go on stage.
A: It is normal to have occasional small frictions between peers. First of all, educate them to be modest. Secondly, teachers usually pay attention to children's communication behavior and level in life, and give some guidance and help in communication skills, attitudes and behaviors. For example, let children learn to ask questions, learn to negotiate, and learn to express their opinions; Let children know tolerance, restraint and care about the interests and demands between children. Finally, parents should set an example by themselves.
A: Kindergarten has a strict pick-up and drop-off system. Parents must have a pick-up card or signature to pick up their children before taking them away. If there are parents who don't know the teacher, you must call them to confirm. So if one day parents can't pick it up in person, they must tell the teacher who will pick it up and support the teacher's work.
A: The content is divided into five categories: health, art, science, society and language. The daily courses are arranged reasonably according to these fields. Stories, small animations and small things around us can all be introduced into our daily activities. Teachers usually write textbooks, make teaching AIDS, attend classes, and so on. There are many things.
What children learn in kindergarten is a small part of knowledge, and more is to learn to adapt, get along and have a sense of rules, that is, to let them know that the elders at home will rely on you, but in kindergarten, you should learn to help others, even if you can't help others, at least have this awareness, and you can't feel that everything is your own. You will also grow up and have a bigger society for you to adapt to, instead of your parents protecting you for life.
A: Basically, according to the difference of each child, the children who just went to kindergarten will cry for 65,438+0 ~ 2 months, and some will cry for a semester. Some children still cry when they get to the big class. We adults sometimes cry when we are wronged, so parents should not be too anxious. Before going to kindergarten, adjust the children's work and rest according to the work and rest of the kindergarten. After children come home from kindergarten, they can talk about happy things in kindergarten and do more positive things. Don't go home and ask every day: Did the teacher hit you? Did Xiao Peng bully you? You can ask your child: What do you think is the happiest thing in kindergarten today? Made some good friends. Do you still want to go tomorrow? Did the teacher play with you? Wait a minute.
A: Eating and drinking water in kindergarten will be the "first pass" for children. First of all, under the premise of ensuring balanced nutrition, kindergartens will try their best to narrow the differences between families from the production of diet, and at the same time attract children from color, fragrance, taste and shape to stimulate their appetite. For example, many snacks, buns and jiaozi with animal images are made for children; Fresh egg custard, minced meat egg custard and vegetable egg custard with three different ingredients; Soft and delicious egg cakes, sun rice and fruit rice ... When eating, the teacher will use vivid language to guide the children to take the initiative to eat and encourage them to eat. In terms of drinking water, kindergartens mainly use boiled water, and sour plum soup, autumn pear cream water, crystal sugar chrysanthemum water and assorted fruit soup are also added. For children, it aims at removing fire, moistening lung, relieving cough and preventing diseases.
15. What should I do if my child is crying and unwilling to go to kindergarten?
A: Before entering the park, parents should tell their children more interesting things about collective life. They can also show their children around kindergartens to see how children interact, study and live, and stimulate their desire to participate in collective life. Secondly, in the early stage of entering the park, parents should treat their children's "crying" with a normal heart, and I believe that teachers will take effective measures to make their children stop crying slowly. In addition, parents should actively cooperate with kindergartens to help their children get through the adaptation period smoothly. For example, leave immediately after sending your child to kindergarten, and don't quietly hide outside the door or window to observe him, because once the child finds out, it will easily cause his mood to fluctuate and make the child whose mood has just stabilized cry again.
16. Children don't like to eat, so they should be coaxed to eat at home. Will they have enough to eat in kindergarten?
A: It is a problem for many parents to catch up with breastfeeding. In fact, it is a very bad eating habit. In order to let children eat well in kindergarten, parents should let their children develop good eating habits, such as sitting at the table, eating on time, not playing with toys and watching TV. We should control the amount of snacks at ordinary times. Many children eat badly because they eat too many snacks, which often leads to poor appetite. Over time, there will be eating procrastination and anorexia. In addition, proper exercise can help children to improve their appetite, or try to discuss recipes with children to stimulate their understanding and curiosity about food.
17. Why do friends take a lunch break in kindergarten and children don't want to sleep? Today I'll tell you why.
A: Napping in the kindergarten work and rest system is one of the measures to ensure children's adequate sleep and is conducive to their healthy growth. The younger a child is, the longer he needs to sleep. The sleep time of different age groups is: 3-4 years old 12 hours, 4-5 years old1hour, 5-6 years old1hour. Children's daily sleep generally refers to two hours: one is at night and the other is a nap. Evening is very important, so is taking a nap. The child's body is developing. From morning to noon, they must be very tired because of participating in collective education activities and various game activities, especially taking a nap, which is beneficial to children's body and mind.
18. It is said that children are particularly prone to illness after attending kindergarten. Is that so?
A: After leaving the familiar environment, children need an adaptation process both physically and psychologically. According to individual differences and different constitutions, children need to adapt to different lengths of time, so parents should treat them correctly. But if the child is often ill, he should go to the hospital for examination in time.
Our kindergarten:
(1) Make home visits before entering school to learn about children's lifestyle and habits and help them adapt to kindergarten life as soon as possible.
(2) Some children can't adapt. Teachers will pay full attention to them, encourage them to drink more water after exercise, put on a sweat towel or put on dry clothes in time after sweating, so as to reduce their chances of getting sick.
19. What if the baby doesn't have the habit of taking a nap?
A: A scientific and timely nap is beneficial to children's physical development, and at the same time, children can spend the afternoon in kindergarten with full energy. For a baby who doesn't sleep or can't sleep, the teacher will usually pat his or her body first to calm his or her mood, and then create an adequate sleeping environment for the baby by telling stories or singing softly. If the baby really has difficulty falling asleep, he will do some quiet activities with other teachers.
20. What should I do if my baby can't get used to kindergarten meals?
A: Kindergarten meals fully take into account the age characteristics of children, and pay attention to lean and lean collocation, vegetarian collocation and sweet and salty collocation. So parents don't need to worry that their baby's nutrition in kindergarten can't keep up. When eating, the teacher will encourage the children to help themselves to ensure that every child has enough food. For children who haven't adapted to the kindergarten diet, we also provide various snacks, and increase the amount of snacks to supplement their abilities.
2 1. What should I do if my child has friction with other children in kindergarten?
A: In this case, teachers usually lead by example, let children know what they can and can't do, and help them learn to get along with their peers step by step.
22. What if the baby won't take the initiative to make new friends and can't integrate into the kindergarten environment?
A: Every child's personality is different, so the way to make friends is different. For children who are not good at expressing themselves, games are the best way to establish friendship. Usually on the first day of school, the teacher will lead the children to "meet new friends" and encourage them to introduce themselves to the whole class and show themselves so that everyone can get to know each other. At the same time, a series of interactive games will be carried out to help children build friendship in play.
23. How is the child eating?
A: First of all, please rest assured that the meals in kindergarten are prepared by health care doctors, and the ingredients are absolutely safe and fresh. But the children's diet, because of long-term habits, does have some problems. Some children are picky eaters, some children wolf down, and some children play while eating.
How to cultivate good eating habits? This is indeed a long-term process. Kindergartens and families need to work together to encourage children not to be picky about food, chew slowly, play while eating, and cultivate children's good eating habits.
24. How did the child sleep?
A: When entering the park, parents and teachers also reported that many children were sleeping at home. Some children have no habit of taking a nap at all, and some children have to drink bottles to fall asleep.
After entering the park, the children's naps are also varied. Some children are asleep, and some children don't sleep at noon. This has a lot to do with children's habits.
What parents should do is to help their children develop good living habits, go to bed early and get up early, and cultivate the habit of taking a nap at home on weekends or holidays. Children can take a nap regularly according to the nap time in kindergarten. Parents can tell their children a few short bedtime stories or play some soft music to help them fall asleep as soon as possible.
25. What problems should parents pay attention to if they are picked up by teachers or nannies?
A: First of all, if parents can't pick up and drop off their children, then parents must attend every parent-teacher meeting of the kindergarten in person to understand the arrangement of the kindergarten and the adaptability of the children. Usually, you should always ask the teacher and nanny about the child's situation, so that the child can feel the concern of his parents. In addition, there are at least 1-2 transfers every week. On the one hand, it makes children feel the attention of their parents, on the other hand, it is also an opportunity to communicate with teachers. It is much more effective for children to communicate directly with their parents than with the elderly and nannies.
26. What if the child is not liked by the teacher?
A: Teachers have received professional training and have come into contact with many children. They are fully prepared for naughty, naughty and special children. So, if the teacher tells you that your child is really a headache, please answer "You are bored" sincerely. The more difficult it is to educate children, the more sense of accomplishment teachers have when their parents affirm their progress. Therefore, please use this kind of psychology to evaluate teachers and your children, and the situation will definitely get better and better.
27. What if children fight in kindergarten?
A: Such worries are really not unnecessary. There are many children in the kindergarten, so there will inevitably be collisions. However, please believe that every child will not deliberately attack others, nor will he be hostile to others. Because the language development is not perfect, children have no time to talk when they encounter disputes, and they are anxious to push or bite others. This kind of thing happens in almost every young class. So what should we do? Better tell the teacher. The teacher wants the injured
Children in other families know that people who are bitten are in pain. After education, children understand the results of their actions and know that they have difficulties to tell their teachers, so they will not fight.
28. Children always play by themselves and are unwilling to participate in group activities, which makes them seem very unsociable. How can I help him?
A: Children who have just entered the park are usually 2 to 3 years old. Children of this age are in the stage of parallel games, and they like to play their own games. Therefore, when children just went to kindergarten, they didn't have the experience of peers in Otawa, so some children always played by themselves. At the same time, some children are always watching the group activities organized by teachers. In fact, this is also because the children have not established a safe relationship with the people here. When he recognizes and accepts the environment, he will take the initiative to participate. Parents can only wait at this time and don't ask their children to participate in group activities. Children in kindergarten really need to learn to communicate with their peers. Teachers will guide and help children, create opportunities for them to communicate and teach them the rules of the game.
29. What if grandparents don't want their children to go to kindergarten?
A: If grandparents' anxiety is transmitted to children through words and deeds, it will make children feel that going to kindergarten is a terrible thing, which will cause emotional distress and increase the difficulty for children to adapt to kindergarten. Therefore, in order to make children adapt to kindergarten collective life smoothly, parents should not only overcome their children's anxiety, but also learn to communicate with their elders to help them dispel their children's doubts about entering the kindergarten.
30. Will a child cry for a long time leave a psychological shadow?
A: It won't be that serious. The crying of children when they first entered the park is regular and staged. Generally, I cry when I leave my parents, and I may cry before eating or going to bed. At this time, the teacher will divert the children's attention through some methods, and most children will be quiet after crying for a while. Parents are worried when they see their children crying, which is understandable, but in fact, for children, crying is just an emotional release, and adults give their children the emotional color of crying, so parents should first relax their mentality.
3 1. Why do children always get sick when they just go to kindergarten?
A: Emotional fluctuations, seasonal changes, small amount of drinking water in kindergartens (children refuse to drink water) and cross-infection will make children easy to get sick in the early stage of entering the park, so the solutions are also corresponding: ensuring adequate sleep time, drinking more water, changing clothes in time and developing good hygiene habits. Finally, parents should face their children's illness easily, and don't always leave their children at home because of minor illnesses, which is not conducive to improving their resistance and giving back.
32. What did he say when he said he didn't like kindergarten?
A: If a child tells you "I don't like going to kindergarten", laugh it off, or simply respond with "Oh". Don't talk too much, and don't ask him, "Why don't you like it? Did someone bully you? " Or keep lobbying "Kindergarten is very good, so many children and teachers like you". He's just testing you to see how you react.
33. How to solve the problem of young children going to the toilet?
A: When I first entered kindergarten, what parents were most concerned about was the problem of children going to the toilet in the park. Some children often hold back their stools. In this regard, we will take the following measures to help children solve the problem of stool. Understand the time when children defecate at home, so that teachers can remind children to defecate at the corresponding time after they enter the park. We will prepare a urinal in the class, let the children sit on it first, and then slowly transition to squatting defecation with the help of the teacher. Every child will have some different habits when defecating at home. For example, some children will hold toys, and some children will need companionship. We will let the child keep some small habits first, and our teacher will accompany him. We will also encourage young children and reward them with small stickers. When parents pick up their children, they can ask the teacher about their defecation in the park. Teachers and parents work together to help children solve this problem.
34. What if the baby is always running around?
A: Mom and Dad don't have to worry too much. Even if there are differences in age and adaptability, most babies can adapt within a month or two. This is almost every baby's performance after entering the park. There are many reasons: the baby has just entered the park and is in a period of separation anxiety. He is inattentive, unable to understand the teacher's "instructions" and is used to "doing whatever he wants" at home.
The language used by parents and teachers is very different. From "Ming Ming goes to drink water" to "all children go to drink water" now, Ming Ming will feel that he didn't call his name and didn't understand. "We", "everyone" and "together" can make such words often appear in family conversations. Parents should spend more time with their babies in kindergarten activities. Help the baby and the teacher to establish a sense of security, and at the same time pay more attention to guiding the baby to "listen and see" during the activities. Parents arrange some kindergarten activities for their babies at home. For example, listen to stories and play with toys regularly, so that the baby has a preliminary concept of time.
35. Teacher, our baby just entered the garden and cried badly. The old man is very distressed. Can children stay at home for one day instead of going to kindergarten for two days?
A: From single family care to collective life, especially leaving the relatives who have been with them, it is normal for children to feel insecure and cry. Let the children understand:
(1) Mom and Dad send you to kindergarten every day because the baby will go to kindergarten to learn more knowledge when he grows up. Mom and dad will definitely come to the kindergarten to pick you up on time instead of abandoning the baby;
(2) Kindergarten teachers and children like babies very much and like to play with them;
(3) There are many toys in the kindergarten that we don't have at home, so we can make many new friends.
Mom and dad should encourage their babies to go to kindergarten, believe in their adaptability, and send them to kindergarten on time every day decisively, and they will soon get used to it. If you send them to kindergarten the next day, it will only make children have a longer adaptation period to kindergarten life.
36. My child is timid at home. Can they raise their hands to answer the teacher's questions in class? How will teachers treat inactive children?
A: Of course, because there are active children in the kindergarten to answer questions, and then all the children have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses and will be driven. For those children who don't raise their hands to answer questions, the teacher encourages him and tells him that it doesn't matter if you answer questions directly and get wrong answers, and then we will encourage and praise him.
37. Why is my child prone to conflict and injury?
A: I will try my best to take good care of the baby in the future and won't get hurt again. Don't worry! I will pay more attention to him in the future. The children live a collective life and play together in the garden. Sometimes it is inevitable to bicker and quarrel over some trivial matters. This is why they need to practice how to interact and get along with others after entering a small group. I will teach more children in the future.
38. What are the safety measures for kindergartens?
A: Safety work is the top priority of kindergartens, so kindergartens have also taken various safety measures, such as wiping out all corners, setting fire exits, and putting the responsibility on people. It is stipulated that all places where children are active should be regularly inspected for safety, and teachers are required to always have children in sight.
Is it true that the kindergarten teacher hit him?
A: First of all, I'm glad that you can communicate with us in time after the child said these things. (Welcome and understanding)
Secondly, after verification, this event does not exist. Describe what happened, such as the child didn't go to bed at noon, and the teacher patted him on the shoulder to coax her to sleep. The child is not interested in taking a nap and resists, so in the eyes of the child, it becomes a teacher to beat him. (make an objective explanation)
Finally, we also promise you that it is impossible to physically punish children under any circumstances. Now that the children have been sent to our kindergarten and given to our teachers, I hope we can trust each other, cooperate with each other and work together for the healthy growth of the children. I also hope that you will pay more attention to our work in the future and communicate with us in time if you have any questions. (Give a promise)
40. What should I do if I eat in kindergarten and don't eat at home?
A: Parents, please don't worry. This situation is not limited to our baby, many parents have reflected it to me (indicating that it is very common). It may be because the baby eats in a fixed place every day in kindergarten, and the baby will be hungry at this time.
In addition, the food prepared for children in our kindergarten is vegetables and rice, and children will not be allowed to eat junk food such as snacks. There is also the psychology of eating with children. If several children eat together, there will be a competition who will finish eating first. (Analyze the reasons)
Therefore, children should also be allowed to eat at home within the specified time, three meals a day, and parents should set rules for their babies when eating. For example, when eating, you should sit in your own position and eat with your own spoon. You shouldn't be picky about food. Parents should sit with their children and don't feed them.
Also, it is best not to eat for more than 30 minutes. If it exceeds the time, take the food away and eat it next time, because it takes too long to digest. Proper hunger will not only have no effect on children, but will make children more interested in food. Don't add any snacks between meals, so that children will eat dinner.
Finally, parents should stick to their own principles. If their children don't eat, they should take the food away and starve him. The whole family should also stand on the United front and don't let the elders secretly give him snacks to eat. (Give advice)
4 1. Why does my child always get hurt when he comes to kindergarten?
A: Hello, Mom. First of all, I need to sincerely apologize to you. Our teacher must be responsible for the children's injury to our kindergarten. Maybe we didn't do a good job in the examination, or maybe we didn't take good care of him at the first time because there were too many children in the class, so we need to apologize to everyone. (Sincere apology)
In fact, this kind of situation is the last thing we want to happen as teachers, but sometimes it is really inevitable, because children are fun by nature and love to run. Children in kindergartens are all engaged in group activities with their favorite companions, so children will be happier than usual, have more fun, and sometimes things will fall. (explain why)
As teachers, we must protect children's health as much as possible. I'm glad to see our baby having a good time in every outdoor activity. Of course, we must avoid this situation from happening again. Don't worry, we will carry out outdoor activities in the future. My head teacher and I will pay special attention to our baby, so it won't happen again. I hope you can supervise our work! (treatment method)
42. Why is our kindergarten so expensive?
A: First of all, thank you very much for your trust in our kindergarten. If you want to send your children to us, it means that there must be something that makes you feel particularly at ease and satisfied. In fact, as teachers and parents, we all hope that our children can come to kindergarten happily and healthily every day, and they can also leave kindergarten and return home happily, right? (Recognize parents' eyes) If children want to be healthy and happy, then the quality of teachers is very important. Although the level of kindergarten teachers is uneven now, there is a display wall of our teachers' style at the entrance of our kindergarten teachers. As you can see, our teachers are divided into two categories: one is teachers with more than 5 years' working experience, and the other is teachers who graduated from professional demonstration colleges. These teachers also have about 3 years' working experience, which is very good for kindergartens now. (Parents nod)
Secondly, parents can also look at our courses, which are very rich. In addition to some regular courses in other kindergartens, we also have many special courses, such as Chinese studies, eloquence, Go, clay figurine classroom, picture book reading room and so on. Of course, we are looking at the children's environment, outdoor equipment, including the indoor environment of our classroom. You can actually see it by comparing (hardware and software).
The most important thing is the child's physical growth. We have four meals a day, two main meals and two extra meals. You should be able to see the quality of children's meals these days. So your money is actually spent on your own children in the end, because every teacher in our kindergarten wants our children to eat well, play safely, sleep comfortably and learn as much as you do. "(hardware, software environment, small environment and other aspects explain the advantages)
43. What does the teacher usually do when a child has an argument with other children?
A: It is normal to have occasional small frictions between peers. First of all, educate them to be modest. Secondly, teachers usually pay attention to children's communication behavior and level in life, and give some guidance and help in communication skills, attitudes and behaviors. For example, let children learn to ask questions, learn to negotiate, and learn to express their opinions; Let children know tolerance, restraint and care about the interests and demands between children. Finally, parents should set an example by themselves.
44. Why do my children always beat people and arrest people when they come home recently? Did you learn it from children?
A: Kindergarten is a small society, and children will imitate each other. Of course, there are good and bad here. Think about it, this will happen in any kindergarten, because the children raised by different families are definitely different, but don't worry, as long as our parents guide us correctly, nothing will happen. I will pay more attention when I am in kindergarten, and it is good for us to work together during this time.
45. The child was criticized by the teacher in the garden and went home to complain that he was beaten by the teacher. How to face children's lies?
A: Children usually lie unintentionally, sometimes to avoid being scolded by their parents, and sometimes parents ask legal questions, which leads to lying. Therefore, parents should not blindly trust their children, but must know the real reason, so as not to blame the teacher wrongly.
If the child often lies, he must be educated well and let him know the consequences and harm after lying.