At that time, the couple also discussed whether to have children with their five-year-old daughter. However, at that time, my daughter was young and simple-minded, and it was no problem to have another child with her parents. She also excitedly asked her mother to give birth to a younger brother, as if she thought she was adding a "toy" to herself.

However, with the arrival of her younger brother, the daughter found that her parents' attention was focused on her younger brother, and her father would interrupt the story every night before going to bed. Sometimes she can't sleep because of her brother's crying, and she begins to hate him a little.

The daughter's psychological changes were reflected in her face, which was discovered by careful Li Jie. After communicating with her daughter several times, Li Jie and her husband made a division of labor and asked her husband to turn his focus to her daughter.

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At present, the family of four is still harmonious, but Sister Li feels that there is still a long way to go before the relationship between the two children and the balance of education.

First, let Dabao become a good helper for parents.

After giving birth to a second child, the parents' parenting focus will inevitably shift to Bauer, which will make Dabao feel isolated. If this happens, parents can not only adjust their attention to Dabao in time, but also communicate with Dabao.

Let Dabao know that his parents' love for him has not diminished at all. Now that he has Bauer, I hope Dabao can take on family responsibilities with his parents. For example, parents can look after Bauer when they are busy and help with the bottle when they need it.

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This will not only make Dabao feel valued by his parents, but also cultivate the feelings between the two children from an early age.

Second, eccentricity is often the beginning of contradiction.

Parental bias is often the main reason for the conflict between two children. Some parents always protect Bauer on the grounds of youth, and Dabao is often the only one who is criticized in the end. In the long run, Dabao is not liked by his parents in Bauer's mind, and he will not have respect for Dabao in the future.

However, Dabao will form a psychological shadow in this environment, and the feelings between children will only become weaker and weaker. In a variety show "Seven Ba Shuo", a guest mentioned that when he was nine years old, his parents gave birth to a younger brother.

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As long as parents are not around, my brother will feel that she bullies him and blames her every time he cries, so she still has that bad memory in her heart.

Therefore, parents should correct their concepts, change their behaviors, often talk with their children and understand their views in their children's minds. If children think that their parents are partial, then parents should also know the reason. If they are really wrong, they should admit it.