If you are sure that the girl agrees to go out with you, and it is the first date, congratulations first. After all, asking a girl out is half the battle.

Speaking of dating, the first date is especially important, if the first date is not done well.

To put it mildly, girls are not that interested in you.

It should be emphasized that girls will pass you by.

Then a perfect first date will be displayed; Watch and study hard. This answer is very beautiful.

A perfect date needs to be well prepared. In order to give girls an irresistible date, we can simply divide it into several steps:

Make a date plan. Time, place and meeting place should be as close as possible to landmark buildings. Choose a place where girls compromise. Chatting places are usually in coffee shops/dessert shops first. First, break the strangeness of meeting. Interactive places refer to places where two people can participate, such as: video game city, skating rink, handicraft workshop for dinner, which is unique and doesn't need special high-end, but you need to be familiar with this store's leisure walk after dinner, quiet bar and other places. Can increase comfort. Fear of the unknown will make you lose your original confidence, so before dating, we need to make a detailed policy to help us control the development of dating. Belongs to the rest assured type.

Then our plan is as follows:

1, schedule:

The meeting time can be 4 pm, so that girls can be fully prepared and not get too tanned.

We can control the whole time in about 3-5 hours. If it is too long, it will arouse the resentment of girls and make both of them very tired. After all, the first date is about the same time.

2. Location arrangement:

First of all, we should make a good plan in advance, and think about what landmark buildings are near the meeting place, so that girls can find them conveniently and feel our intentions at the same time.

3. Transitional arrangements:

It is impossible to keep a place still when dating. It will be dry and embarrassing.

Then the importance of transition at this time is reflected. We can step on the spot the day before the date, simulate the general dating process with our brains in advance, where to meet, where to go after the meeting and so on.

Don't let girls take the initiative to mention the transition! The first performance is that girls are disgusted with the same place, and now our first image has been reduced among girls.

4. Final arrangement:

How to send girls home after the date, or take girls to private space, all these need to be felt in the on-site date.

Well, now that we know the process plan of the first date, let's get to the point.

Meet for the first time:

Meeting is the beginning of a date, and the perfect side is more reliable than the sloppy side.

So let's not be too flashy, just meet the girls neatly.

Here's a tip:

Prepare a rose and ambush at the appointed place. When you see a girl at a date, call her and tell her that something is coming or not. When a girl is sad, she suddenly appears with roses, and you will be greeted by Fenquan.

The girl's mood has a rapid ups and downs, which can instantly close the distance between you, and then take the girl to the dating place and start a perfect date with her.

Chatting and communication:

Dating is mainly based on chatting and interactive communication, and the key lies in the atmosphere of dating.

Chatting topics can be recent hot events, movies, food, pets, etc. , and continue to browse a topic.

Game recommendation: Finger games, number grabbing and mobile phone games are all games played on a mobile phone, not eating chicken or something.

Appointment location suggestion:

Chatting place: coffee shop, dessert shop, pub, board game shop Interactive place: electronic game city, handicraft workshop, billiards hall, archery hall Restaurant suggestion: theme restaurant, open-air restaurant, private restaurant, if you really can't find it or forget it when waiting for the appointment, you can quickly pick up your mobile phone and watch the recommendations of local netizens, such as Meituan and Public Comment.

After talking about the choices and suggestions of various places, let's talk about the hidden points of dating;

"Details"

The details of dating can be shown to girls intuitively, which can better reflect your social skills.

Don't look at your mobile phone while chatting; If the girl is watching the mobile phone, then we can tell the girl a little more seriously: it seems that my charm is not as big as that of the mobile phone, and my baby is unhappy!

Carry a tissue with you and remember to say thank you to the service staff;

Keep smiling; Smile is the most powerful weapon at close range. Keeping smiling on a date will show you are confident and make you look relaxed, which will change the atmosphere between you to some extent.

Well ~ having said that, it's time to talk about food.

Remember to reserve seats in advance when dating girls for dinner. It's a little awkward when people are full.

When ordering, you can tell the girl the characteristics of this restaurant in advance. After ordering the special dishes, take the initiative to give the girl the menu and ask her what else she wants to eat, provided that she has been to this restaurant or stepped on it in advance.

Pay attention to the details: get the girl a tissue, feed her, pull up the stool for her, open the door for her, and so on.

When eating, the main topic is food, which can be extended to local specialties to pave the way for the next invitation.

After dinner, we can go for a walk in a nearby park or street. When planning, we decide whether to send girls home or go to private space, depending on how this step is put into practice.

If you drive, you can drive girls to private cinemas, and you can seduce girls while watching movies.

Of course, you can also choose a free walk and stop to hug and kiss when walking with girls.

We talk a lot, but the focus is always late;

We should know that the purpose of dating is to upgrade the relationship and improve your relationship, but many people only pay attention to eating, drinking and having fun to make girls happy.

Continue to emphasize that dating girls is not about eating, drinking and having fun, but about improving relationships!

Take physical actions when necessary, and let girls accept you slowly through physical contact. Physical contact is easier to stretch your relations than the temptation of language.

Touch can be unintentional or natural, just like crossing the road hand in hand, the purpose is to hold hands! However, your behavior is to protect girls. Most girls are not disgusted with these things. Contact should start from an early age and gradually accumulate.

I wish everyone a good relationship.

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