When we got married, my family wanted 50,000 dowry, my mother-in-law was only willing to give 30,000, said nothing more than 20,000, said they do not rely on our pension, their hands have money in the heart of the stable. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on this, but I'm sure you're going to be able to get a good deal on this.
Despite my discomfort, my husband said that my mother-in-law had suffered in her youth, so the money is more important, not to mention me, that is, he can not afford to spend money. I think that my mother-in-law raised my husband as a single parent, and I understand what my husband is saying.
After getting married, in order to reduce the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, I took out my pre-marital savings, plus the support of my parents, bought a house in the city. Although the area is not large, but it is their own a small happy place.
After the house was purchased, my husband said several times that he wanted to bring my mother-in-law over and I refused. I am not ungrateful, but I do not want to ask for trouble. For this reason, my husband and I also had a period of disagreement, and then I also angry, said you really want to take your mother over, then their own money to buy a house to go. This way he did not say anything.
Husband told me that his mother-in-law was sick and had to go to the city to see a doctor, and he wanted to come and stay for a few days, and then leave after seeing the doctor. I said that since it is to check the body, of course I can not stop, but have to say yes, see a good disease and go. I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that, but I'm sure I'll be able to.
After my mother-in-law arrived, my husband took her to the hospital for a checkup, and there was nothing wrong with her. She had a few common illnesses among the elderly, and didn't need to be hospitalized. I originally thought there was no problem and she would go back, who knows she stayed and did not go.
Husband told me privately that he was going to leave, but he felt that his mother-in-law was too old to worry about a short period of time on the road to and fro, and really tired out, so he decided to stay here for a few more days. He will definitely leave in a few days. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to get out of this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to get out of this," he said.
Possibly for fear of upsetting me, my husband took the initiative to say to my mother-in-law that he would let her organize the housework at home and help us cook. I'm not sure if you're going to be able to do that, but I'm sure you're going to be able to do it, and I'm sure you'll be able to do it.
I eat dinner at home every day anyway, and in order to lose weight, I would have eaten a little vegetarian noodles, so I didn't bother to argue with her, and said that I could cook noodles, as long as your son doesn't mind.
I originally thought that even if I couldn't cook and stir-fry, I had ready-made cooked meat and eggs at home, and I could always get an egg and some cooked meat after cooking the noodles. But I didn't realize that for three days in a row, she really gave us boiled noodles in plain water, my bowl in addition to a piece of green cabbage leaves, nothing, my husband's bowl and even vegetable leaves are not!
I was so angry that I didn't want to pay attention to her, and every time I came home to eat I was carrying a rice bowl in the living room while watching TV. After half a month like this, my mother-in-law did not have the slightest intention of leaving, and at dinner in the evening, I saw two bowls of vegetarian noodles on the table again, and I was ready to show my husband my hand at dinner, and hurriedly let my mother-in-law go home!
When I was about to eat, my husband's cell phone rang, and watched him go to answer the phone, and my mother-in-law was still in the kitchen to herself below, I casually picked up a bowl of noodles and went to the living room. When I sat down, I found that the bowl of noodles and even vegetable leaves are not, look at me crying and laughing.
But when I picked up the noodles with my chopsticks, I was completely enraged, and it turned out that not only was there an egg at the bottom of the bowl of noodles, but there was also a large piece of beef. It seems that my mother-in-law does not know how to cook, but does not want to cook for me, if it is not in order to distinguish between different noodles, I guess even do not want to put the vegetable leaves for me.
In a fit of anger, I picked up the bowl and slammed it into the living room, and the ringing startled my mother-in-law and husband, who looked at it, and his face instantly reddened to the root of his neck, and he didn't say anything, and hung up the phone in a hurry and started to pack up his things! The mother-in-law is not to rely on me, said he originally came to see the rest of the rest, I do not expect every day, but also for us to cook, they would not have been able to cook, when the mother of the heart of their son, put some meat how?
I didn't say anything, but just stared at my husband, who was weak and didn't say a word. The mother-in-law saw no interest and stopped arguing. Early the next morning, she packed up and went home.
When she came home, I formally asked my husband for a divorce, and I think my husband's bias for his own mother is excusable, but with his own mother to cheat his wife, it's a bit of a shame, such a marriage, there is absolutely no need to continue!