If you want to constantly stimulate your potential, move forward bravely, and hold such a premise mentality, then I admire it! Because you are destined to suffer a lot and endure a lot of pain that ordinary people can't understand, but you are constantly breaking through and moving forward.
But some people are not trying to challenge themselves, they are just not satisfied with the status quo, their goals are too high, they don't consider themselves, they don't consider the reasons, and they only look at the surface.
For example, I opened a restaurant and saw a video from the media on the news, earning tens of millions. I thought there: I worked hard for a month to earn so much, and this video earned so much; Or see a customer doing nothing, driving a luxury car every day, eating and drinking, thinking there, how many years will I live like this? ...
Thinking like this every day, I feel more and more that dry catering has no future and can't see the future. The more I do, the more boring I get ... so I keep denying myself, which in turn affects real life.
How much skill, how much strength, how much food to eat!
Without strong perseverance, don't think too much, too much beyond your current level of living ability!
Thinking about these unrealistic things will make you feel depressed and sigh. Anything else?
Especially in daily marriage, the current economic level can only add meat to cabbage, but think about it compared with those who eat abalone, lobster and shark's fin every day! Instead of thanking and cherishing the hard-won life of the existing life.
You can only earn 100 yuan a day, so arrange your life according to the standard of 100 yuan. Occasionally a meal can make you happy for half a day! But if you don't satisfy and cherish the present, look at and think about it every day, and live a life of 1000 yuan and 10 thousand yuan every day, where will you feel happy?
No matter how good your lover is to you, he can't meet your requirements! Because you don't appreciate and cherish his goodness at all, but you dislike his incompetence.
When you are poor, ask him to make progress and work hard. When his life improved, he complained that he seldom went shopping with him. With a stable job, he can spend more time with you, but you complain that other people's husbands take their wives abroad every day and buy all kinds of luxury goods. ...
Do you think you can feel happy by putting aside your existing abilities and thinking about things that are beyond your living standard?
And always, your marriage will not work, and divorce seems inevitable. When you pursue a better life and a better person under the premise of holding your dreams and ignoring your own abilities, you will find that many times your life is not as good as before, and regret can't change the reality!
When you don't face up to your attitude of not cherishing, you can say that you have been breaking up and divorcing, either in the process of divorce or on the way to divorce, pushing yourself to a dead end.
Finally, you realize that you have compromised the reality, but you find that you can only make do with it! I don't know what happiness is without power and ability!
Each of us has our own way of life. Learn to see the bright spot in your life. In fact, happiness is at your fingertips!
Learn to be grateful, learn to cherish, learn to think positively, and learn to do what you can. Sometimes, when someone smiles casually, you will feel that the world is full of love; Love, you will feel so happy if you shave your nose.