Many girls think that they will not fall into the pit of old men, but into the pit of handsome and rich old men. Like Wu Xiubo. The reality is that what may attract you to into the pit is an ordinary old man with a beer belly on the steering wheel.

Nowadays, the elderly are not necessarily female hunters, but the maturity of women is the focus of the elderly, and the immaturity and simplicity are the goals pursued by the elderly. Many older women are not necessarily mature, and married women are not necessarily the object.

Social routines are deep, and this desire is everywhere. Even if we find that into the pit wants to punish him, we will find that we have suffered from YaBaKui. For him who has a certain social status, there is always a way to get it done.

1, with the least money to narrow the distance with you.

The biggest difference between an old man and a little boy is how an old man maximizes his own interests. Cheat the best girl with the least money. Most old people don't want to spend money, even if they spend money, they spend the least. Generally, I will call you every day with the phone bill subsidy provided by the company, or occasionally buy some small gifts worth less than a few thousand dollars and send flowers, only occasionally.

In the story of yesterday's article, Brother Shui is an iron rooster and Little A is a bunch of free key chains. Small ah to give more to others, the water is still making a fuss.

Only when these can't be done will we be generous. But remember that generosity is just a comparison of small gifts before drinking. In fact, it is basically unnecessary for them to send jewelry as a gift. Yes, the old man will say that this is true love and does not need money to prove it.

There are also old men with good eloquence, and you can get closer with your mouth. For example, praise you, praise you in front of leaders, praise you in front of classmates and colleagues, and praise you in person. If your external conditions are average and your ability is average, then all kinds of encouragement and a little achievement will praise you as if you have achieved a great event.

For example, my friend's oral English level is similar to that of junior high school students. When an old man praises others, he can tell you that people around him say that your level is very good and excellent. Although I know people are exaggerating, women are animals that fall in love with their ears. Many women seem to be modest, but in fact, their psychology has already blossomed.

Step 2 start telling regular stories

Remember, no one will tell you their private affairs for no reason. Serious people love face, and the disharmony at home will not tell you.

Unscrupulous old man, talk to you about inappropriate topics at inappropriate chat time. For example, I send you a message in the middle of the night (after 9 o'clock) saying that you are drunk. Or I met the boss of a department of the head office and sent me a message at 10: 30, asking me, "When was the photo of the circle of friends taken?" There seems to be nothing wrong with this problem, but the timing is wrong. Will a serious boss talk to you about this topic at this time?

There are thousands of tragic stories about old men, one of which is that they are miserable, so they need your care very much.

Married old people talk about their bumpy love with true love, separated by their parents, and instructed to get married by their parents, with only responsibility and no feelings. Or the wife is not filial to her mother. She is a filial son and sells iron in a famous school. Now that the economy is good, it is a good time to honor your old mother and meet a wife who is not sensible.

Unmarried, talk about your past experience, how to suffer hardships step by step, and be looked down upon by people, from ordinary people to the present position. Or wrap yourself up and tell me which big companies you have worked in before and how professional you are.

When my friend Xiao C was interviewing, the HR director came up and asked why he was still in his thirties and didn't get married. It is said that the attitude towards marriage is related to the attitude towards work. Half-day interviews are all about people. The second half is the director's solo show, and little C doesn't eat dirt. At least he worked as a recruitment supervisor, and the anti-interview supervisor knew the other person's education and was suspicious of his previous experience in those real estate companies.

The next morning, I saw that the director who sent himself a WeChat at 10 last night said: Take off the bill as soon as possible. Xiao C told me that he wanted to know what this personal matter had to do with my ability to work. Just like a colleague commented before that it is an out-of-line behavior not to wear makeup. Suddenly I feel that this company seems to be a few brand catering enterprises in this city, which is too low.

A few days later, the director invited two people by phone, but Xiao C refused directly. Later, the director sent her a message saying that a blind date group wanted to go, and Xiao C agreed. The ending reversed, and the old man told her that he was single.

Step 3 test your bottom line

Old men usually test you with various questions to see how high your acceptance is. There are various forms, but they are all inseparable from the topic of sex. Sometimes I joke with you on the topic of sex to see if you can take his place.

Other diaosi old men will ask directly, I knew one on a blind date before, and I can't wait to ask if I have anything to do with my ex-boyfriend after meeting once. There is also a blind date. Knowing that I am a Christian, I asked Christians directly if they can't have sex before marriage. (Hey, what did I go through on this blind date ...)

Some people can't wait, they can do it besides talking. Inadvertently, I had physical contact with you. For example, when paying the bill casually, I shake hands with you to see your reaction, and some deliberately bend down to pick up things and touch your legs. These are also tentative methods.

The way to deal with old men depends on your own ability. The more direct you refuse, the better for you. The more determined you are, the less loopholes the other party can exploit. Many people refuse too tactfully, and the old man thinks you are playing hard to get, so there will be harassment later.

In the last article, many years later, Shuishuige passed the group and added Xiaoxiao WeChat, but Xiaoxiao failed.

One day, Xiao received a strange phone call (the water grid has been deleted).

Shuishui: It's me.

Little A: Who?

Shuishui: What have you been up to recently?

Little: What can I do for you?

Shuishui: There's nothing you can't say.

Small: Oh, that's right. Tell me what happened. I have my hands full right now.

Shuishui: What, you don't like me recently?

Small (emphasis): I'm really busy. Why don't you just say it and I'll listen? what can I do for you?

Shuishui: Never mind.

Little a: (hang up directly, Lahei)