First, establish a lofty ideal of life

If socialism with China characteristics is the banner guiding our development; Then Scientific Outlook on Development is the norm for development; A harmonious well-off society is the goal we want to achieve in our development. Everything is for development, and everything guarantees development. Development has become the main theme of our times. The present is better than the past, the future is better than the present, and each generation is stronger than the next, which is the yardstick for measuring development. People are both the motive force and the beneficiary of development, so everything should be people-oriented. Marx said that * * * capitalism is "a social form that enables everyone to develop in an all-round and free way". It can be seen that economic development will ultimately be implemented in the all-round development of everyone. It can be said that this is the best historical stage of our country for thousands of years, which provides us with the best opportunity for development. However, we must also be soberly aware that problems such as population expansion, waste of resources and environmental pollution are becoming more and more serious. In particular, young students face fierce competition in further studies and employment. For example, in 2117, there were 11 million candidates in China, and only 5.67 million were admitted to colleges and universities. Every year, millions of college graduates face serious employment threats. The country not only provides us with opportunities for self-development, but also makes us encounter many unexpected difficulties due to severe competition. How do you know about your present school, class and yourself? How are you going to go in the future? What is your own competitive strength? What is your development potential? Have you seriously thought about these? It must be clear that competition needs the strong, competition builds the strong, and development and progress need the strong. The strong are the boosters and locomotives of social development and progress, national prosperity and national prosperity. We must strive to be strong.

Second, define the goal of life

As the saying goes, "People who have no long-term worries will have near worries". It's time to think seriously. The ideal is tomorrow, with people's longing and hope for the future; Ideal is the direction, just like the dawn through the morning light in the dark night; Ideal is faith, a sacred temple to climb in the imagination, adding endless strength to progress and struggle; Ideal is the pursuit, which inspires us to make unremitting progress, high morale and make progress; Ideal is faith, which gives people confidence and makes us indomitable and determined as steel; Ideal is wings, which take us to soar freely in the imaginary space; Ideal is a path, let's measure the journey of life step by step; The ideal is a gas station, which gives us unremitting courage and strength; Ideal is a regulator, so that we will not be shaken by setbacks and will not be sad for frustration; The ideal is the operation diagram; Let the pace of our life walk in an orderly way, and become chaotic without shock. Ideal is the goal to be achieved in life, the ideal is an unshakable belief, the ideal is the courage to make progress, and the ideal is the invincible force to defeat the enemy. Ideal is not born out of thin air by lying in bed. It is established by studying and practicing hard, recognizing the law of development and change of objective things, following the objective law that is independent of people's subjective will, and becoming firm through hardships and hardships.

When the Chinese nation was in dire straits, countless people with lofty ideals fought for the rise of China and the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation. As early as during his study, Zhou Enlai made it clear that the purpose of his study was to study for the rise of China. The October Revolution brought Marxism–Leninism to China with a gunshot. In 1921, the establishment of China * * * Production Party opened a new chapter in the history of China. Struggle for * * * capitalism for life has become China's lofty ideal of * * * producing party member. Inspired by this ideal, countless outstanding * * * party members have courageously devoted themselves to the liberation of the Chinese nation. * * * party member Xia Minghan faced the enemy's butcher's knife and wrote: It doesn't matter if you behead, as long as the doctrine is true, if you kill Xia Minghan, there will be others. Fang Zhimin is facing Chiang Kai-shek's lure into surrender, the only senior leader of China's * * * production party. Not moved by the enemy chieftain's promise of high office and wealth, he wrote a book "Lovely China" in prison, which left us precious spiritual wealth. Chen Yi was trapped in a cave by the enemy in Yamakaji, and he narrowly escaped death. He wrote: How do you feel about decapitation today? There are many difficulties in starting a business. This went to Quantai to recruit Kibaki, with a standard of 111,111 to behead Yamaraja. This poem fully embodies Chen Yi's revolutionary integrity and sentiment. Dong Cunrui gave his life to blow up the bunker for the new China. Liu Hulan faced hay cutter with death. These revolutionary martyrs died heroically for the establishment of new China. It is because of their unremitting struggle that the People's Republic of China was finally established. The establishment of * * * and has opened the way for the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation. A large number of scientists, such as Qian Xuesen, Li Siguang and Qian Sanqiang, broke through many difficulties and obstacles in order to serve the motherland, gave up superior living conditions abroad and took part in the socialist construction of the motherland. Countless workers, peasants and laborers from all walks of life have made silent dedication in their posts for the strength of the motherland. It is the oath of Wang Jinxi, an outstanding representative of the working class in China, that he would rather live 21 years less and try his best to win the big oil fields. Desperately win the big oil fields and melt into Wang Jinxi's ideals and beliefs. It became his actual action. It is precisely because of the hard work of the people of the whole country that our country finally got rid of poverty and backwardness. The ancestors had lofty ideals, defined the goals for them, and established a firm belief. Faith is the basis of will behavior, and it is the unity of individual motivation goal and its overall long-term goal. Without faith, people will not have will, let alone active behavior. Faith is a kind of psychological kinetic energy, and its behavioral function lies in stimulating people's potential energy, physical strength, intelligence and other abilities through morale, so as to realize their behavioral aspirations corresponding to their basic needs, desires and beliefs.

When people have lofty ideals, they have a clear direction of life. And to realize your ideal, you must determine your life goals. The determination to make progress in life is to determine the direction of your own progress and the goal you want to achieve. The goal is not only the hope and hope in our hearts, but also the destination we expect to reach. As the starting point of people's reality and the destination to be reached in the future, the goal determines the direction of people's progress and the coordinates of their operation. Goals require us to constantly strengthen our beliefs and improve our courage. In reality, according to the changes in the objective environment, we constantly adjust our own direction and degree of effort, and make unremitting efforts to achieve our own life orientation. The goal is the engine and motive force of everyone's hard work, and it is also the yardstick to check their achievements.

I have a big goal in mind, and Taishan will not waver; Without a big goal in mind, a straw bends over. It is obviously too specific for a person to regard what he will be and what he will do as his goal in life. Life is a kaleidoscope, and no one can foresee the future changes. Therefore, determination should be a belief and an ambition. Why do people live? How to live is meaningful? This is a person's outlook on life. What should people use as a standard to evaluate people and things around them? This is a person's values. Outlook on life, values, right and wrong, money and so on, boil down to a person's world outlook. It is useless to talk too much about empty truths. Ideals, goals and beliefs must be closely linked with one's real life. With lofty ideals and clear goals, we will also establish firm beliefs. Faith is the basis of will behavior, and it is the unity of individual motivation goal and its overall long-term goal. Without faith, people will not have will, let alone active behavior. Faith is a kind of psychological kinetic energy, and its behavioral function lies in stimulating people's potential energy, physical strength, intelligence and other abilities through morale, so as to realize their behavioral aspirations corresponding to their basic needs, desires and beliefs.

in short, one's survival is fundamental, without which there is nothing. On the premise of healthy survival, we seek to continuously improve the quality of life. First of all, we must be determined to practice our internal strength and strive to be a person with real talent and strong competitiveness; Only when you stand out from the fierce competition can you become a person recognized by everyone, the public and the society; Only by being recognized can you have the opportunity to become a useful person to others, the public and society through your own achievements in your own post. There are several choices for the goal of life: first, people who endanger society, which no one wants to do or see. If they degenerate into such people, the result can only be punished by law. Second, the burden of society, the burden of the family, the inability, the inability to do anything, can only squat at home and eat their parents' retirement wages. These people eat all day long and accomplish nothing. In Britain, they are called Nites. First used in Britain, then gradually used in other countries; It refers to some ethnic groups who don't go to school, get employed, study or take part in employment counseling, and do nothing all day.) It really makes people feel pitiful, pathetic, deplorable and hateful. Third, people who are useful to society, when they grow up, they can neither rely on society nor gnaw at their parents, but must earn their own living. No matter what educational background or specialty we have, we must rely on our own physical strength to live and do mental work to eat. We have paid for the society, and the society has repaid us. We will feel proud and happy. Fourth, people who have contributed to society may have made some contact contributions in a certain aspect due to their personal efforts and are respected by people. We must make up our minds not to be people who endanger society; Try not to be a burden to society and a burden to family, but to be a useful and self-reliant person to society; Strive to be a person who contributes to society.

Don't be a dispensable person, a nuisance to others, an unwanted person in society, a person who can only eat subsistence allowances, a useless waste, a burden to society and a burden to family. Specifically, first of all, I admit for my parents in my own family that my family can't live without you, my parents can't live without you and need you, and you can bring joy and warmth to everyone. In the class of the school, teachers and students need you and can't do without you. At work, colleagues and friends can't live without you and need you. Only in this way can you be useful to society. Family, class, and unit are all social cells. Whether you can be recognized at home does not require an exam. The test is what you have done for your family. What do you bring to the class in the class? Children in the learning stage don't listen to their parents at home and their teachers at school? The quality of your academic performance is the measure of your recognition by your class and family. After graduation, can you find a job to support yourself? Of course, if you can contribute something to your family, your family will need you more. Further education and employment are touchstones and watersheds to measure a person's usefulness and uselessness. Some children can study well, but they can't find jobs after graduation when they go to college. I can't support myself, so I'm a neet at home. I have a class in Jicheng Village, Sunxing Village, Weihui City, Xinxiang City, Henan Province. There is a graduate of Peking University International Economic and Trade Department in this village, who has been at home for more than a year. According to statistics, among the students who need employment after graduating from school, undergraduate graduates have the worst self-employment ability, and about 87.5% stay at home to eat their parents. We are determined to become the pillars of the country, which is naturally good. But at least don't become a vulnerable group, a burden to the family, a burden to the society, and a poor person receiving subsistence allowances. The same day, the same place, why do some people do what they do, while others do nothing? Who is to blame? It makes no sense to blame parents for complaining. Shouldn't we introspect and blame ourselves? A person's ambition should be reflected in the determination to forge ahead, the momentum of invincible efforts to forge ahead, and the spirit of never giving up until you reach your goal.

Third, we should be brave enough to accept the choices of society

Natural selection makes the fittest survive. It's a sentence from Huxley's Theory of Evolution. It not only reveals the law of biological evolution, but also fully conforms to the law of continuous progress of human society. Just like applying for a job, the job seeker is the choice, and the employer is the selection. In the talent market, the initiative lies with the employer, just like going to the vegetable market to buy food. Everyone wants to choose fresh, large and cheap dishes. We should be able to accept others' choices. Accepting the selection requires strength, and strength can only be distinguished by the results of the exam. Education cannot aim at exams, but students must learn to take exams. Examination is an ability. When children are young, they are clever and likable. What others can see when they grow up and go to school, the most direct, fairest and most used by people, is the score. It is said that knowledge changes fate, and knowledge does have power, but it is not enough to say what your knowledge is, and you must be tested. It's not the Three Kingdoms period, and you're not Zhuge Liang. You can't wait until Liu Bei visits the cottage to invite you. Then you have to take the exam yourself. What's more, there are too many students now. For example, in 2117, there were 11 million candidates in China, and only 5.67 million were admitted to colleges and universities. Millions of college graduates need employment every year. Employers really choose the best among the best, and the method is the exam. Written examination, interview, talent show, etc., there are so many categories and the methods are so complicated. Admission depends entirely on the only standard score. If the score is high, you will be admitted, and if the score is low, you will be eliminated. It's really a competition, and the fittest get employment. So even though you are well educated, man of great talent. If you can't get high marks, there is still no way out. Therefore, education embodies fairness, exams distinguish between high and low, knowledge builds strength, and scores change fate. The sea is wide and the fish jumps, and the sky is high and birds fly. How to jump the dragon gate depends on the score.

In any case, a student is recognized by others, paid attention to by teachers and admitted to a higher level school by virtue of his grades. Don't be afraid, afraid of exams. Exams are the assessment and test of learning achievements, not only for students themselves, but also for teachers and parents. After graduation, you should have the ability and courage to achieve employment through your own efforts, and don't become a burden and burden to your family. Can you earn money after work and support yourself? Therefore, a person must first have strength, and strength refers to the talent formed and growing in study and practice, which is tested by entrance examination, application examination and practical work; Secondly, any talent can only be revealed if it is recognized by others. Examination and application are the only ways for individual talents to be recognized by others and society. Only when your own strength is recognized by others and society can you play your role. If you have the strength, you need to be able to take exams and apply for jobs before you can play a role. We must make clear the relationship between these three. As for what department you are in and what you do, it's best to be consistent with your original vision. If you can't, it doesn't matter. As long as you can play your modest role and contribute everything to the prosperity of the country, the development and progress of society and the prosperity of the nation, that is the most encouraging and exciting thing!

how can we accept the choice of the motherland, society and others? That is, you must have strength. To have strength, you must receive education and study hard. Education can be divided into the following aspects: family education, school education, social education, and most importantly, self-education. Learning is divided into passive learning and active learning. The combination of the two is to give priority to self-education and active learning. Why is it that different people have different opinions about the same thing? say