Experienced an epidemic down, their own circle of friends have a lot of people began to do micro-merchants.
See the vice president of Suning in the circle of friends to sell underwear, only to realize that this epidemic for everyone everyone is really too big, whether it is the office workers or the top of the big enterprises, have not been spared, the fragility of life, all of a sudden in front of everyone exposed.
Also receive some good friends to ask for their help, pull themselves into a group, in fact, inside is that is where they sell things, have goods and so on will be sent to the group inside the link and picture, friends also specially instructed themselves: "If you usually think that the message is too much annoyance, you can set up a message free of interruption, it's okay, but also to help me do a favor. " Because this period of time everyone is not good, the money is more and more difficult to earn, but also want to count on those who do micro-merchants can earn a little more is a little.
In fact, I myself also understand, if not by the burden of life, who would like to go down to the begging it? To be honest, you can't make a few bucks, but you have to be careful, for fear that others and your own friends will think that this is consuming their trust and gripping their wool, and every time you do it, you're walking on thin ice.
In order to make money, in order to live, had to put down the face, begging for a meal, after all, face many times not worth money.
There are times when we chat in the group, in fact, many people are doing micro-business, but there are always people who ask: "I'm afraid of doing micro-business, people are shielding themselves or black, because now we all hate the micro-business, every day, brush the screen circle of friends to send the ads, to be honest, I also hate, but there is no way to do it, life pressured their own no way to do! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty."
I said: "At this juncture, there is no need to care about other people's views, do micro-merchants how, neither stealing nor robbing, are relying on the ability to eat and make money, can rely on their own ability to make money people, are worthy of being respected."
Since the beginning of the resumption of work, in fact, in the circle of friends to see the negative energy is the most:
Work does not go well, just resumption of work bosses notify the staff to reduce wages by half, layoffs 10% of their own resignation before the end of the year, and now it seems that even a monthly salary of 3,000 jobs are very difficult to find the company began to quietly layoffs, they are already more than forty years old, and I feel that tomorrow, I will be unemployed! The pressure is so great former director of a design company, a monthly salary of 20,000, recently also advertised in the circle of friends to help people sell clothes, do the business of micro-merchants Think about in order to live, we are helpless, almost half of the circle of friends, filled with a sense of anxiety, some people are complaining about employment to find a job is difficult, some people are complaining about the lower wages, but prices have been rising, the cost of living is getting higher and higher, and some people have already been the senior employees. Worrying about their future career development and whether their boss will lay them off because of their advanced age.
While most of us are complaining, some of us are already continuing to carry our bags and work hard to earn a living.
I don't know if you've ever encountered such a scene: when you're shopping you can always meet some young lads, carrying a big school bag and a small bag and a cleaning cloth in their hands, who bend down to shine your shoes in order to sell a bottle of detergent in their own hands, over and over again, and even if you're a million times more reluctant to do so, they'll still say: "It's okay, it's okay if you don't buy it, I'll try it on you first and see how it works before you decide."
Some people feel that this kind of work hurts their self-esteem, in order to earn a few more dollars and dozens of dollars, feel inferior, if you do it yourself, you certainly do not have the courage to do it, to be honest is not able to let go of their face.
There are also people who feel that it is not good to do any work, go to the construction site to honestly find a job, as long as they are willing to suffer, but also better than this money, do not have to look at the face of others.
Of course, some people say, you think people may have a lot of choices, you can choose to do this, to do that, but if that person is really you, you can not necessarily live than he has much better, are no choice, there is no need to stand on the moral high ground to look down on people, are in order to make money to make a living.
In fact, every time I see some particularly targeted comments, I want to laugh and also very angry, maybe the money you earn is not as clean as others? Why be aggressive, we are all for a few tickets in the fight to the best of their ability, who is not at the same time in the sale of laughter, while crying and complaining about the pain of life?
Compared to the livelihood of the matter, dignity is small, this is the adult world of helplessness, very often in the dignity and livelihood between, can not say that the fish and the bear's paw can not be both, but also have to point out a primary and secondary relationship.
Under the influence of the epidemic, everyone is desperately trying to find a way to make a living, this is the world, this society, the most vibrant time, and should not be ridiculed.
Large government officials in order to drive the local economy, open live with goods, small to some snack stores, in the face of losses opened online takeaway business, engaged in tourism run drop, engaged in the Internet and design run up takeaway, the sudden epidemic, all of a sudden to the original rhythm of life has been disrupted, everyone is trying to do everything possible to find a way out of the crisis into a chance of life.
Originally, poetry and faraway places have been a luxury for most people, those poems and faraway places, for the vast majority of people are not capable of enjoying, even if it is to solve the trivialities in our lives has taken a lot of effort.
There is a saying that people living in this world are sometimes worse than a dog.
Some people say that when they were young, they didn't understand Li Zongsheng's songs, but after they grew up, they were afraid to listen to Li Zongsheng's songs. I don't know the meaning of the words when I was young, but when I heard them, I was already a man of the words.
When I was in my twenties, I was very sharp and distinctive, and I had the courage to scoff at people and things that I was not used to in my life. Now that I'm at this age, I have to make choices and even give up, even if I like and love things in my life, and I want to stick with them because of my family, my parents, my children, etc. I'm not sure if I'm going to do it, but I'm sure that I'm not going to do it because I'm not used to it. In front of the people and things we do not like, we can only choose to go to the silent acceptance, because the age of their own, has long been smoothed out, like and do not like, adhere to the boundaries of the love has been slowly no demarcation line, perhaps this is the price of growth.
Remember Li Tan said on a variety show: "After growing up, we slowly realized that we have become the people we hated the most when we were young."
There is a lot of beauty in the world itself, and there are still a lot of places you can't see where people who live there are living with all their might.
During the epidemic, Beijing's dropshipping drivers soared by 230,000, and takeout boys soared by 580,000. What these two figures mean is that everyone has no money in their pockets, and the wages from their jobs are no longer enough to support most people's day-to-day expenses, so dropshipping is a relatively low-threshold job, but the degree of wallet deflation is positively correlated to the degree of their own hard work, and it's become a way of making a living for the most part under the epidemic. The most common way to make a living is to help yourself.
Maybe you think it's easy to make money by running a dropshipping business, just drive a car and make money, but the hard work in this industry is far from as easy as you think, running 10-13 hours a day, with an extremely unstable income, and sometimes from 7 o'clock in the morning to 11 o'clock at night to go back home, and the money you make in a day may not be enough to refuel yourself.
Previously, when I called a cab, I found three cell phones set up in the car, so I asked the master: "Master, you are on three cell phones, business is so good?" Master replied: "young man, which is good business, this is because the single less, so in the major platforms to receive, but also hope that the single can be a little more, this year, at this juncture, life is really not not easy, money is more and more difficult to earn." Master exclaimed, "Now make money, really like the cell phone said, are taking life for money, I hope it will be better soon."
The resilience and tenacity of human beings lies in the fact that when we think we are about to be overwhelmed by life, we can only look back and realize that those who once thought that they could not carry on, torturous days, accompanied by complaints and spit, we still rely on the tenacity of perseverance and determination to come over, and discover that they can be so strong, in the difficulties and obstacles again and again to find a more powerful, more indomitable self.
Those who can't defeat you will eventually make you stronger.
Many people say that we live in the present, rather we live in hope. Only by not being defeated by life do we have the courage to give ourselves reasons to keep going when we wake up every day.
Entrepreneurship for more than ten years have ended in failure Luo Yonghao, in April 2020 chose to enter the field of live bandwagon, which should be one of the most noteworthy things in the first half of the year, do live bandwagon before, Lao Luo for the live broadcasting industry to do a lot of research, although the live broadcasting is the trend of the future development of the trend, but because of the impact of the epidemic has accelerated the development of the live bandwagon, so that the industry has entered at once into the Many people's lives. Luo Yonghao's first live broadcast created 130 million in sales, but also let laymen and insiders see the potential for development, have layout of the live broadcast with goods, both for the epidemic under the influence of a kind of self-help, but also for the future expansion of the business, is a new opportunity and chance.
But Lao Luo from doing cell phones to do live broadcast, the outside world does not look good and do not accept, some people are even still specifically to see Lao Luo jokes, Lao Luo's fans also left this comment on his social account:
"Mr. Luo, I have always regarded you as your idol, and now I want to ask you, you are disappointed in yourself now? "
To which Lao Luo also made a positive reply:
"Disappointed? How? I'm thinking of all kinds of ways to make money to pay off the debt ah, do anchor earn and not dirty money ...... I'm still young, full of infinity and lots of possibilities."
At once, the Internet appeared a variety of comments Lao Luo do live bandwagon article, some people say he is not ideal, become realistic, some people say that he for the money to the reality of bowing down, but Lao Luo admits a kind of point of view:
"Doing live bandwagon is his own road to the dream of the coiled."
For the sake of future life, in order to their own dreams, do live broadcast is nothing more than a way to make money for the 47-year-old Lao Luo, nothing to do with ideals, we actually do not have to say anything. Think about it if you are burdened with 97 million dollars of debt, a live broadcast can let you pay off a large part of it, and in the shortest possible time will be able to pay off, you will be willing to do it?
More often than not, what we do and think, no longer have the luxury of seeking everyone's approval, because this time of their own, is really for their own life, especially to the age of middle age, face is not worth it, approval or disapproval has little to do with it, we can not be a lifetime in accordance with other people's expectations of life.
Like the above sentence, I always firmly believe that Lao Luo will still adhere to their own dreams, that when Siemens door smashed the refrigerator Lao Luo is still there, just now in the road to the dream, he needs to take a few more steps far away.
But as long as the road has been, there is no fear of how far the goal and dream?
Remember that 300-block boy who got fired up because of the "Backwash" video?
90-year-old Ren Hailong, with a cell phone record of working to earn money every day, grew up in his aunt's house, 26-year-old Hailong in the shipyard work, overtime, if you can earn more than 300 yuan a day, Hailong's dream is to earn 300 yuan a day, and so earn enough money to buy a house, to take their own aunt to take the plane, take the high-speed rail, take the ship.
Many people may ask, is it a luxury to take a high-speed train or an airplane?
The answer is: yes, one billion people in China have never been on an airplane, only about 130 million people have passports, and the parents of the post-90s may not even have been on one yet, not to mention the post-70s and post-80s, which is indeed a very luxurious thing. The life that you think is so ordinary is indeed a dream that many people dream of realizing in their whole life, even if they try their best to do so.
This young man's wish is not big, but it is enough to offset the whole life. Seeing the smile on his face and the light in his eyes, I believe he loves life more than many people.
The real life is more of constant tenacious resistance, stay up late and work overtime, take the body for money, those in order to make money late at night in the wee hours of the morning to go home, those who can not afford to order 20 yuan of takeaway workers, those in order to save money to pay for the house of the post-90s, are the most real look of life.
Some people are born with a million rays of light, others are born with a body of rust.
Life and life is not comparable, some people put their best foot forward to barely live, some people from childhood to food and clothing, parents prepared for their own everything, this is the difference between 0 and 1, although the number of difference is very small, but from the reality and life to see, this is the gap between the class, almost can not be changed, can not cross.
While we all have different starting lines, you may run out a few hundred meters, they are just starting, but they are still trying to catch up.
Some people say that even the little people like us have their own rules of survival:
Not giving in to every big thing and being satisfied with every little thing.
Especially in middle age, you are to find a very important thing is: reconcile with yourself.
With the growth of age, you will find a truth of life: life is in fact in the continuous compromise and acceptance of the forward, along with the reality of the middle-aged not stand, most of us have to face themselves, to accept that look less good themselves, learn and life compromise, and reconcile with their own in the survival and life in front of the adults, the face has long been worthless.
But even if we have tasted all the hardships of the world, we are still full of hope for life, firmly believe that the future life will be better and better, still go all out, still full of expectation.
The road of life is long, we will encounter a crossroads in the middle of the choice, will encounter a variety of difficulties, may be in the middle of the road we will be appropriate to slow down to stop and take a break, but we are always moving forward without ever backing down, we all are in a *** with the same goal of hard work and strive for: so that the family and their own better life.
Whether it is to earn a few dollars more for running between the city streets and alleys of the delivery boy, or put down their own face in the circle of friends to sell goods of the micro-merchants, or after work to run the drop drop driver, they do the occupation may not be so lofty in our hearts, and even some people feel that it is some of the bottom of the social layer of the work.
But please don't laugh at them, in essence, they are trying to live as hard as you are.
Life sea sea, dare to die is definitely not courage, live is courage.
And this sentence, from this book "life sea sea", believe me, it will give you lost in the light of a lamp, even if weak, but radiant!
Life is hard, everyone is walking with a heavy load, as long as the dry can not die, to the death, refueling strangers.