For teachers, in every class they teach, they will always meet some "good students" who make people happy and worry-free, and some "bad students" who are troublesome and helpless.
With regard to the latter, the so-called Eight Immortals have their own magical powers, or they earnestly try to persuade each other, or take the route of challenging Dafa, or adopt the method of combining kindness with kindness, in an attempt to get it on the right track as soon as possible.
time flies, time flies. What kind of life did those "bad students" who didn't like learning and were naughty in those days live after entering the university without walls in society?
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tai lung.
that year: senior three, 18 years old. Now, 27 years old, single. What impressed him the most was that he had the temperament of a triad boss. Every time I met him after class, there were always a group of "small followers" behind him.
other students are studying against the clock, and he still lives a natural and unrestrained life, no matter day or night. When sleeping at night, the class teacher will sneak into the dormitory of other classes to play cards, or climb the wall to go out to surf the Internet and sing karaoke.
After graduating from school, I continued to mix in the society, tattooed my body, entered pyramid schemes, fought, studied hydropower and worked as a coolie.
The hardest job he ever did was that in July, when the sun was like a steamer, he unloaded trees one by one from a 13-meter-long container. Sweat keeps coming out, mixed with dust flying down from the trunk, and permeates the skin, which is extremely itchy. Although I backed out countless times in my heart, I persisted.
In the third year of graduation, Dalong entered the line of choreography under the recommendation of a friend, and since then he has been traveling all over the world, including Hongkong, Macau, Taiwan Province and Singapore. When he first went to Macau, he went to town like a bumpkin, and it was dazzling everywhere. He excitedly showed off and boasted with his friends until his mobile phone was in arrears.
when he first controlled the lifting platform, he was very nervous. When the director gave the last ten seconds' instruction, G.E.M. came out from the background, with two burly bodyguards leading the way, followed by a group of stylists, makeup artists and dressers. "5, 4, 3, 2, 1, 1", the moment the countdown stops, the lifting platform falls perfectly.
I asked, what's it like to see a star? He said that once he was smoking backstage, Jordan chan came over and said, "Excuse me, please give me a light." Such close contact with the stars excited him. But after a long time, it will be normal, just like seeing ordinary people.
the production of dancing beauty sounds very tall, but it is actually very hard. It is normal to stay up late, and even often stay up all night, and you have to wander around and live without a fixed place. I didn't expect that the cool and unrestrained person in the past was not vague at all when he really did things. He could stand the toss and keep the prosperity.
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bobo.
that year: senior three, 18 years old. Now: 27 years old, with a son and a daughter. What impressed him the most was burying his head in the desk all day and reading novels quietly. A complete fan of short stories, if you put this effort into your study, you will probably be admitted to 985.
I majored in medicine in college. Although my homework was very full, I fell in love with playing games in my spare time. After graduation, Bobo became a surgeon in a famous hospital in his hometown. After work, I still love to play games, playing and playing. I actually developed a game product myself, and then sold it and made a fortune.
Because I love reading novels and watching them, I have a strong desire to express myself and started writing. Serialized a novel on the Internet, and wrote 511,111 to 611,111 words before writing. Whether it's a game or a novel, I admire him for turning his interest into productivity, and he is obsessed with it without sinking, so he should stop when it's time to stop.
I'm curious why a person who loves playing games so much suddenly loses interest, because many people who are addicted to it can't extricate themselves. He said that because as a doctor, you have to keep researching, you need to spend time reading professional books, so you naturally have no time to play games or read novels. Over time, interest is greatly reduced.
that's true. Maybe those who can't quit the game addiction are because they haven't found something more worthy of investment or energy.
I said, the hospital is the best place to witness human nature. Have you stayed for a long time and seen the birth, illness, death and illness thoroughly? He said, yes, many wonderful things happen every day, between patients and their families, between patients and doctors, and between doctors. The first time I saw a dead man, I was shocked and frightened, but I became accustomed to it after a long time. But being able to save a dying person is the most fulfilling thing for a doctor.
His life now is very simple and satisfying. He goes to work, takes care of children and reads books. Life is neither salty nor light, but it is also safe and practical. I haven't seen him for several years, but he is not a naughty boy, but in the eyes of teachers, he is a "bad student" who doesn't like learning, and he has transformed himself into a "angels in white" wearing a white coat to save lives.
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hadron.
that year: sophomore, 17 years old. Now: 26 years old, with a son and a daughter. What impressed him the most was that he was often called to the office by the class teacher, and he met him in the office ten times, doing squats eight times, and writing reviews twice. But people are handsome and have a sweet mouth. When they see me, they always smile and call Sister He.
once, on his birthday, he took a leave note, imitated the signature of the class teacher, and went out to eat and drink with his friends. Drunk, stagger back to the classroom to study at night. I asked him if he could hold on. He said yes, how can my sister be absent from class? Say that finish, snapped down on the desk.
I majored in navigation in the university, and all the boys. It was difficult to find a job after graduation. I worked as a wine tray for a year, and then I chose to be a sailor. A trip to the sea, at least a month before landing, staying on the boat every day, or fishing to watch the sunrise, or chatting until there is nothing to say, becomes more and more boring and even confused and depressed.
but I can't do it if I don't run. I have to pay off my mortgage and raise two babies, which is very stressful. He said that the biggest wish now is to open a small shop, stay with his wife and children, and fulfill the responsibility of being a father.
When I was chatting with Hadron, it happened to be the day after he came back from the sea. He sent me several small videos. One moment, he was baking pancakes for his children, the other moment, his son was eating cakes with relish, and the other moment, he was playing with the children, his face was full of happiness.
The boy who used to do nothing and play around all day has grown into a man with responsibility and pressure, ideas and a little helplessness.
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well-off.
that year: grade three, 15 years old. Now: 21 years old, hotel manager. What impressed him the most was that I had never seen him read a book. Even if I forced him, I just pretended to be reading and wandered around all day. But very loyal, respect teachers and love friends. I still remember that when graduation approached, I kept the evening self-study in their class. Xiaokang begged me for the last ten minutes and said that he would hold a graduation Party. I said that I can't decide this matter, and I need the consent of the class teacher. He said that the head teacher would never agree, and he chose this day for my evening self-study.
Looking at the snacks, cups and wine they had prepared, and those pairs of expectant eyes, I turned my eyes and said, Let's do it for five minutes. Just before the cheers sounded, I said that the condition was to keep my voice down. Well, I'm afraid I'll be caught by the leaders, and I'm afraid I'll spoil their fun, so I'll ask for my psychological shadow area.
Xiaokang didn't go to high school. After graduating from junior high school, he studied the legendary excavator technology for a while, but he didn't like it at heart. Later, he went to Guangzhou and worked as a waiter in a five-star hotel. Because he was good at dealing with people, he gradually contacted some high-level customers and occasionally ate, drank and chatted with them.
two years later, he was promoted to the department manager of the catering and entertainment department. But the pressure is great, staying up late every day, socializing and drinking, lack of sleep, and unstable wages, ranging from 21,111 to 31,111, and from 7,111 to 8,111. His family really wants him to come back to work, but he is in a dilemma because he has no education and no skills.
I asked, what are your plans? He said take it one step at a time. After all, he is still young and has no capital. He said that those long-term goals are just empty talk. I asked, have you ever regretted not studying hard? He said that he never regretted it, because it was not that he didn't work hard, but that he really couldn't learn, not that piece of reading material. Well, you are a person who has a clear understanding of yourself.
Well-off says it's just a pity that classmates will get together again. I don't have the heart to tell him the fact that because other students met new high school classmates and college classmates in later years, they had others, and you only had them. They may not understand your regrets and sorrows.
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Brother Chao.
that year: 14 years old, grade two. Now: 21 years old, businessman. What impressed him the most in those days was that he never attended classes or did homework, fought, skipped classes, bullied female classmates, fell in love and so on, which really reached the best among "bad students". Jianghu calls it "Brother Chao".
The worst fight was when the opponent broke a bone, and he ran away before the public security bureau found him. Later, I simply dropped out of school and spent all day with gangsters in society, fooling around, eating, drinking and fighting. After mixing for a year, one night, I suddenly thought that if I lived my whole life like this, my life would really be finished.
when he came home, he said that he would do business with his father and start a wedding company for four or five years. I asked him if he would be infected if he often saw others' happiness. He said that he had been in quiet inside. At the age of 18, he talked about a sad love. The other party was a young lady who was mixed with society. She played around and almost jumped off a building for her.
I think it's not that you don't know love, but that you take love too seriously, and it's hard to get out of the predicament when you get hurt. However, the gentle knife of time will always slowly cut off the erosion of the wound until new cells grow.
Finally, he said that his goal is to be a Taoist, and he has studied with his grandfather for two years. This really surprised me, and it was too different from him when he was studying. But in any case, it is a good way to live according to your own ideas and take action in that direction.
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stars.
that year: 14 years old, grade two. Now: 21 years old, a sophomore. What impressed him the most was that he was very active in class, as if he knew everything, but once he took the exam, he failed, which made me feel very puzzled. People grow tall and Shuai Shuai, naughty, but not naughty. In the third grade, I was distracted in my study because of falling in love, and I only got a third-rate high school in the senior high school entrance examination.
when I was a freshman in high school, I came to my alma mater every day for a while, and I learned about his dropout. He said that there was no learning atmosphere in the class, so he couldn't learn at all, so he simply stopped reading. No matter whether I put the facts or make sense, he couldn't get in the oil and salt, but he was forced back by his uncle.
I have been a monitor in high school for three years. The craziest thing I did was to pretend to tell the class teacher that I had a cold and wanted to take a leave on the day Kobe retired, so he led a dozen basketball players in the class to go to the Internet cafe. After they came back, the class teacher jokingly said, did you go to the internet cafe to check and get over the cold?
As a sophomore, he said that he wanted to drop out of school. Anyway, he had to work. Why not come out early and work hard? What I said is very direct. You are naive. Unless your family is rich, you can't do anything. What can you do to fight?
yes, I have to work sooner or later anyway, but what's the harm of waiting two years to get my diploma? If you really want to feel the social university in advance, just study and work part-time. There is no need to go all out and retreat. He said that he had made all the plans, and his two sisters promised to invest and open a snack shop for him in such and such a place.
He said that he didn't want to be tied down any more. Going to college was more painful than going to high school. The class teacher and counselor were too strict, and they were not allowed to take time off without classes. I think he must be exaggerating. Is it difficult to carry out militarized management?
I know he wants freedom, but there is never absolute freedom. Whether he goes to work according to the rules or opens his own shop, he will be restrained by others. The escape you think is just jumping from one circle to another.
He said that his ideal is to earn a lot of money and let his family live a good life, especially after his mother died, and he felt that his father was much older. Maybe that's why he really wants to drop out of school.
I consoled that I can understand your feelings, and you have suffered too much. But sometimes we have to admit that the reality is cruel, and there will always be several hurdles for us before we succeed. Unless the weather is right and the people are in harmony, it is impossible to cross the past at once. It is good to have ideals, but there is another word, haste makes waste.
I hope the stars can think carefully, take a long view and stop falling into endless entanglements. Of course, this is just my personal opinion. After all, one person can't make a choice instead of another.
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The above are the naughty "bad students" I interviewed these days. Due to the limited space, I only wrote these six representatives. Others have chosen to be soldiers and are being trained like the devil; Some go to work in a proper way and begin to be cautious; Some opened a car beauty shop, which made the wind and water rise; Some people take risks and play the edge of the law ...
In fact, whether they are "good students" or "bad students", they are just a kind of prejudice in the era of reading. Even if you are labeled like this, it doesn't mean that it is good or bad from now on. You can't judge a person's future life just because of his performance at a certain stage.
As teachers, everyone wants to do their best to make "bad students" go astray. However, there are always differences between individuals, and sometimes they have to let nature take its course and respect the growth trajectory of each life.
As a teacher, I sincerely hope that every student can live well. Life is long, don't worry too much. Your efforts and decisions in a certain period may make your future life completely different from before.
May you not live with past regrets, and may you embrace a bright future!