I think preschoolers should develop the ability to live independently, learn on their own and solve problems on their own.
It is understandable for parents to expect their children to be successful, but some parents are really too strict with their children. They expect too much from their children, so they give them all kinds of classes and tutorials before school.
I think it may be counterproductive for parents to do this. For example, if they let their children learn things that they will be exposed to in elementary school, then when they go to elementary school they will feel that they have learnt it all, so they will slacken off, and then when they are exposed to things they have not learnt before they will feel that they are struggling, and therefore they may be bored of learning.
I think hands-on work should be developed in preschoolers.When children are young, they should be taught to do things on their own so that they can develop some good habits.
Some parents really spoil their children too much, and when the children reach a certain age, they still feed the children, and the children don't eat and chase them all over the place. They also have to call an adult when the child wants to get dressed.
Parents who are pampered like this will cause their children to lose the ability to live independently. When the parents are old, then the children they will not be able to take care of themselves and they will not be able to adapt in this society.
So it's important to cultivate children's hands-on skills from a young age so that they can live well on their own, even if they are separated from their parents. And doing it can exercise your child's brain and make them smarter.
I think the ability to learn on their own should be developed in preschool children.Before children go to elementary school, they should also be allowed to develop a good habit. You can let your child study for a certain period of time every day. For example, they can learn what they are interested in. This way, they will be able to develop good habits, and later they will be able to do some things consciously.
I think in preschool we should train children to solve some problems by themselves.At this stage, children should be allowed to solve their own problems when they encounter conflicts. This will enhance the child's emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills in an invisible way.