To tell the truth, I admire Pessoa's maverick. He goes his own way, doesn't care about other people's eyes, and doesn't ask for understanding, NB! No mortal can do this.
In fact, think about it, he has seen through human nature and the world, and he also disdains the disapproval of others. He is a man with a full life.
Imagine that although there is no distinction between nobility and inferiority, all beings are equal, but we have to admit that people's ideological realm is definitely divided into three or six levels.
Different horizons, different heights, different growth environments, different modes of thinking and different realms lead to completely different things.
That's what I said, not with summer insects and ice.
It is wise and wise to choose silence when the other party can't understand what you are saying and the scholar can't explain it clearly when he meets a soldier.
Don't blame me for being indifferent. Sometimes, indifference is not heartless, but a tool to avoid being hurt.
Not seeking to be understood, the deeper meaning is: you don't know me, I don't insist, if you know me, then of course you can understand me, needless to say;
On the contrary, if you don't understand me, what's the point of me saying more?
It will only make things worse and be rejected by others.
No common goal, no common goal, no understanding, no understanding, no effort, please explain, let nature take its course.
I have heard such a story: a well-off family who deeply believes in Buddhism supports a monk at home.
This man's daughter, at the age of marriage, made a boyfriend and did something with her boyfriend that she shouldn't have done. And that man disappeared without a trace because of fear.
The woman is afraid to tell her father the truth because she is afraid of her parents' strict tutoring, but her growing belly has nowhere to hide.
Under the pressure of her father, she had to make a plan: tell her father that the child belongs to the monk master.
My father suddenly flew into a rage and thought, I respect you so much and support you, but you have done such an immoral thing.
In a rage, the master was kicked out of the house.
Later, when his daughter was born, he held the child in front of the monk and said mercilessly, you should be responsible for the good you did!
The master didn't respond, only said: Yes.
So the child stayed in the temple, and he took the child down the mountain every day to beg, regardless of people's strange eyes and fingers, just raising the child day by day.
Later, the child's father came back, found the child's mother and asked about the child's whereabouts.
The child's mother had to tell the whole story.
The child's father is in a hurry. How can you frame the master? This is really a big sin!
So they came to the temple, repented to the master and wanted to take the child back.
The master saw the two of them and said, so it is like this. Then you can take the child away.
The master didn't explain a word. In the case of being framed and misunderstood, I have always been silent, just quietly bearing what happened.
However, the world seems unfair, but it is actually fair. It can't be fake, and it can't be fake.
The filter screen of time will slowly filter out the dust and present clarity and truth to the world.
Therefore, all the explanations are that your heart is unwilling, your heart is not pure enough, you are not peaceful enough and you are not confident enough.
Lin Qingxuan said in "Boiling Snow": It is said that people in the Arctic are frozen in the cold, and when they speak, they turn into ice and snow, so the other party can't hear them, so they have to go home and bake slowly. When you are in love, go home and carefully brew the atmosphere at that time. First cut the ice cubes with love poems, cut them into thin slices, and add a little wine to cook. Then, I was slightly drunk when I cooked it. If you are in a bad mood, you can't use fire. You should add a cup of coffee by candlelight, so that you won't get too drunk and stay awake. If you are lovelorn and can't wait for the ice and snow to completely melt, set a big fire to burn all the igloos until another spring.
It sounds poetic and romantic.
We were not born in the North Pole, so we lack such patience.
We often say, leave half a sentence on your lips. In this way, it won't be too cold and it won't hurt too much.
If you want to say something, before you export, increase the temperature before you export, so as to warm others and not trap yourself in the cold.
I used to think that people were polite to me because they respected me, but now I understand that people are respecting themselves.
I find that the more talented people are, the more low-key, the more comfortable and the more shiny they are.
Because he has the ability and strength to show himself, he doesn't need to show himself in a high-profile exaggeration, which is something he disdains and won't do.
Speak well, consider each other's feelings as much as possible, without anxiety or affectation, and warm the surroundings like a warm sun.
As for whether others understand or not, why care? Let alone bargain.
You won't really get better just because people who don't understand you say hello; Not to mention, because people who don't understand you say you are not good, in fact, you have really gone bad.
You are you, different fireworks.
Right and wrong, right and wrong, needless to say, time will show clearly.