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Some people say, respect is a top-class daughter of red, not drinking its wine has been the first smell of its fragrance; some people say, respect is a Zhilan, fragrance overflowing, infected with you and me; some people say, respect is a cup of tea, only the people who really understand it can ignore its blandness, taste the depths of the warmth of it; I say, respect is the air, all the time, it can not be passed away.
But I don't know when the word "respect" disappeared from my mind little by little, until one day--
That day, I was walking with some of my friends, laughing and joking. vitality flourished in our hands and feet, and the sunlight sprinkled on me, warming me up and drifting me a bit. However, at this moment, there came a sanitation worker, she looked very young, wearing a cool cap, wearing a set of slightly muddy orange-red uniform, wearing a pair of white gloves blackened by dirt, holding a black plastic bag, looking for something in the grass. I looked at her and said aloud to my buddies with a disdainful look on my face, "Hmph, it looks like it really needs to be studied! I'd have to die of shame if I had to pick up trash in the street." "No, if it were me I'd just hit the wall!" Xiao Qiu seemed to agree. "Hahaha ......" I laughed exaggeratedly.
The sanitation worker's hand paused in the air for a moment, and quickly dropped back down. She raised her head and stared at me, the brim of her hat pressed down so low that her eyes were deep, as if she could never see through them. I also raised my head slightly, staring at her defiantly, only to see her lips move slightly, so as to say something, but she didn't say anything, she just skimmed her mouth at me, gave me a meaningful look, and lowered her head again, continuing to look for the trash. "Hmph," I sneered, but in my heart I didn't feel good - I clearly saw a biting sarcasm in her eyes.
I was walking with my friends on the road, the sanitation worker's contemptuous look constantly in front of my eyes, suddenly felt misty in my chest, like a dirty fly buzzing around in my chest cavity, I suddenly felt regret, I regret that I had been so arrogant as to trample other people's dignity underfoot!
Mr. Fang Yuan said: Don't go to mock others ignorantly, don't go to discriminate others superficially. A person who always gives away to others to taunt will eventually lose his dignity. Yes, a person who does not know how to respect others, either because of ignorance, or lack of upbringing, think about it, who lost their precious dignity? It's me, childish me.
Kanyan said: dignity is mountain, dignity is water. I always screamed to be respected, to have dignity, but did not realize that only respect can be exchanged for respect; only if you do not laugh at others, and others do not laugh at themselves is called dignified.
I suddenly want to apologize to that sanitation worker, I want to tell her: "Thank you, because of you, I understand what is respect ......"
Respect is mutual, how much you pay, others give you how much, as if the air. You have to breathe it in and spit it out again.
From that day on, I really learned respect.
Criticism: This narrative essay centers on the word "respect", and the examples are vivid and specific, and the characters' words and actions are in line with their identities, so it is clear that you are a person who has a heart for life. The article comes from life, so the language is not very beautiful, but it is true, written in the feelings and reason. The whole language is fluent, the line stretch freely, naturally free to call it a more successful work.
Two
Every one of us wants to be respected by others, but if we want to be respected, we have to respect others first. As the saying goes, "If you respect me a foot, I will return you a foot", which is the truth. When you meet with others for the first time, you should take the initiative to greet, the other party will also be treated with courtesy, to you at first sight. It is undoubtedly an affirmation of life that a person can be respected by others. No matter what kind of person, when he y feels the respect of others, it will inspire a strong sense of dignity and responsibility. It can be said that the full respect for a person is the recognition of his personality and value.
But in real life, the phenomenon of disrespect for others is still commonplace. In particular, some people take money and power as a measure of whether a person should be respected, and those high-ranking officials and money-makers are honored as if they were gods, while some low-income earners, such as laid-off workers and cleaners, are discriminated against. What is the difference between this kind of thinking and the view that "money determines everything" in a capitalist society? If this idea is not abandoned as soon as possible, it will seriously hinder the construction of socialist spiritual civilization.
Likewise, whoever respects himself will be respected. Marx said "You should treat others as you would like to be treated."
May our lives be seasoned with a little more respect, then our social life will be more flavorful!
Criticism comment: the argumentation technique is single, the argument lacks hierarchical organization, the language of the argument is not infectious, and the argument is not profound
Three
A warm word, a kind smile, and a friendly gesture can all show our respect for others. Respecting others is a virtue. There is a foreign teacher to visit the school library, he just went in, he came out with a red face - it turned out that his shoes walking too loud, interfering with the students to study, and then, he made an unreasonable move - take off his shoes, bare feet in. The principal was stunned by what he saw: the principal also often to the library inspection, each time while talking while walking, every place students have to look up to see what happened, he never felt that this will disturb the students learning, which gave the principal a deep lesson. This behavior may seem out of the ordinary, but in fact it is a kind of heartfelt respect for others. Respect is a spring breeze, a spring of fresh water, a soothing pill that gives warmth, and a strong dose of motivation. There is a temple elder, proficient in the art of making big cakes, made out of big cakes, fragrant and sweet, business is very prosperous. There is a ragged beggar also came to buy cakes, the Elder personally selected a cake, to give the beggar to taste. The beggar was very touched, after eating, took out the only three pennies to the Elder, the Elder actually took it. The disciples are very strange: since it is alms, why also collect money? The Elder said, "It's rare that he is so motivated, so I'll take the three pennies. With this self-confidence to motivate him, he will surely become a great man in the future." The disciples were unimpressed. After many years, a merchant came specially to thank that Elder, and he was the beggar who bought the big cake back then. This is the power of respect. "To disrespect others is first to disrespect yourself." Love plus tolerance plus understanding, then converge into a big ocean, this ocean is called "respect". People live in such a vast ocean, enjoying physical and mental pleasures and creating one miracle after another. People can live here without any barriers between their hearts and minds, without any obstacles to interaction, and with mutual respect for each other.
Criticism: This article takes "respect" as its thesis, is short and concise, and its structure is rigorous and natural. The first sentence of the article points out the thesis. The first sentence of the article states the thesis, which is concise and concise. Then the writer cited two examples, foreign teachers are afraid of affecting the students' reading to take off their shoes, the elders accept the beggar's three money. In the end, the author expresses his hope that respect is among us.