With the economic development and social progress in China, more and more people go abroad. Transnational romance, which used to be seen only in novels and TV plays, can now be seen everywhere in real life. Many foreigners who come to work in China get married and have children in China and settle down for life. Among them, many China women married African men. They were married because of love, but their married life was not satisfactory, and many girls in China expressed regret. Most China girls who marry African men now live a life full of contradictions. First, different living habits lead to difficulties in daily life. African men like to grab food with their hands, but this is a very unsanitary thing for girls in China. Different living habits lead to more contradictions between two people and cracks in their feelings. For a long time, girls in China could not find happiness in this marriage, and their regrets gradually increased. Second, China girls have no sense of security in marriage. Polygamy still exists in many parts of Africa. Before marriage, African men may say a lot of sweet words and swear that they will only love you in this life, but after marriage, African men who change their minds will marry other women. It is really painful to be unaccompanied in a foreign country and have a husband who doesn't love himself. Marriage is insecure, so I can only choose to divorce and return to China, hating myself for marrying in Africa. Third, the poor economic conditions in Africa, which are worse than those in China in many aspects, make the material life of China girls in Africa not guaranteed. Although Africa's economic level has risen in recent years, the quality of life of residents in many places is still very poor, and there is no way to compare with China. Some girls in China have to do a lot of rough work after getting married there, and they have to revolve around their children and husbands all day. This kind of life will be very tiring. Material life can't meet the requirements of China girl, whether mentally or materially, China girl is very helpless and tired, and regrets marrying an African man.

Although many women who marry African men have a bad life, some really find love in African men. In any case, we must bless every couple who are together because of love, and hope that they can always go on happily.