Before entering the school, both of them experienced the baptism of war and fire, and grew from ordinary soldiers to senior military officers. In addition, both of them are from rural areas, and their academic qualifications and growth environment are basically the same. ...
Therefore, we can see that Mrding and Jiang Defu are very similar in background, occupation and cultural accomplishment. However, with the deepening of the plot, the positions of Mrding and Jiang Defu have begun to expand rapidly.
By the time they retired, Jiang Defu had been promoted to commander of the Garrison Military Region, while Mrding still served as deputy chief of staff of the Military Region. Then why did they go out of different careers under the same starting conditions?
0 1: personality and emotion
The rivers and mountains may change, but not one's essential nature Behind these eight words, in addition to expressing unchangeable personality, it also tells us from the side that personality has a great influence on people's life development.
Mrding and Jiang Defu are both soldiers who have been on the battlefield, and there are some soldiers' tenacity and tenacity in their personalities.
However, the difference is that Jiang Defu is not only hard-core, but also very mellow. He can play hooligans in the process of chasing Anjie, smirk when reporting to the leader, mingle with subordinates in the army, and occasionally make jokes. From these, we can see that although Jiang Dehua looks a little rough, he is actually an "old slick" who is very good at communication and getting along with others.
But Mrding is not, Lao Ding is really hard, hard in the army, hard at home, hard at the office ... The key is that he is stubborn.
Probably because Mrding knew more words with a few drops of ink than Jiang Defu, it led to the arrogance of some intellectuals in Mrding. When communicating with leaders, he likes to go straight, without considering the face of the leaders, and his emotions are very externalized, which directly leads to the leaders' antipathy to Mrding. Similarly, Mrding showed his face directly to people he didn't like. For example, Wang Zhenbiao and Mrding despised each other on the island and let everyone know.
Therefore, the first reason why Mrding lags behind Jiang Defu is that Mrding's personality is flawed and he can't control his emotions effectively.
02: Environment and Luck
Mrding and Jiang Defu separated after graduation, one stayed at school and the other was transferred to a remote island.
At the beginning, everyone, including Mrding, An Jie and others, naturally thought that Mrding chose to stay in school, far better than Jiang Defu who was transferred to the island.
Judging from the living environment and the ease of work, it seems to be true.
However, Mrding and Jiang Defu are both soldiers, and their stubbornness is deeply rooted. In a working environment dominated by paperwork and dealing with people, neither of them is good at it.
Mrding, who is harder than Defoe and does not know how to be smooth, is more emotional and always offends people in the daily work of school. However, Jiang Defu went to the military camp with obedience as his first duty, and there were relatively few infighting. Plus, he was already very easy to get along with in the military camp.
As a result, Jiang Defu's work performance is naturally getting better and better, while Mrding's performance is declining, and he is excluded.
03: Ability and Courage
When Jiang Defu was in contact with Jiang Defu, he was influenced by several big promotions because of Anjie's identity. "Everyone thinks that you are very good and have strong ability, but this is only the component of Anjie's family ..." From these, we can see that the leaders recognize and value Jiang Defu's ability.
Later, Jiang Defu's work on the island, we can also see that Jiang Defu's ability is outstanding. Even Wang Zhenbiao, who deliberately finds fault, always has nowhere to start in the face of Jiang Defu. After all, people all over the island are full of praise for Jiang Defu, and Wang Zhenbiao is really at a loss.
On the other hand, in the process of Jiang Defu chasing Anjie, we can also see Jiang Defu's ability and courage, and his determination to achieve his goal at all costs.
Mrding, on the other hand, is not. He doesn't have Mrding's courage. He is prone to retreat and is too cautious. For example, Mr. Ge and the nurse in that hospital, Mrding didn't pursue it because of love, and then he would choose to compromise because of a little frustration and pressure.
If Mrding is a bit backward in ability, but it is still comparable, then in the field of courage and self-awareness, Mrding is far behind Jiang Defu!