1. I would rather hide others than make a fool of oneself. The more you talk, the shallower you will appear; In fact, he understands all your hints and your subtext. His indifference is really not playing hard to get, he just doesn't like you. Constantly cultivate yourself, live a rich life, be rich in your heart and be called expensive by others.
2. Every age group has its own puzzles. What you think is great now may be the meaning of living in those years in the eyes of people who have experienced it. Never indulge yourself and make unnecessary excuses for yourself. Be strict with yourself. After a long time, self-discipline will become a habit and a way of life, and your personality and wisdom will become more perfect. Don't be too kind, too generous and too capable. After a long time, people will think that everything you do is right. Even if one day you can't hold on and cry tired, not many people will feel sorry for you, because in their eyes, this is what you want, and others will not always think about your feelings and difficulties.
3. If you fall, just get up again and walk on. It's no use sitting on the ground. You might as well make some achievements first, and then emphasize your feelings, otherwise, there will only be whining in life, and everything looks like melodramatic; No matter how good you are, some people will despise you, and no matter how unbearable you are, some people will regard you as life. Therefore, don't be arrogant, and don't degenerate when you are down and out; He may really like you, but that doesn't prevent him from liking others at all. In fact, the most regrettable thing is that I have never felt the feeling of being firmly chosen. It is like, he just needs it, and you just happen to be there.
4. Sometimes, if I send QQ or WeChat to a very important person and he doesn't reply to me, I will delete the dialog box, and I always feel that I have seen the dialog box, as if I saw my humbleness and ingratiation; No one can give you the life you want if you don't work hard; Dreams don't run away, but they will always run away; The reason why people are tired is that they often hesitate between persistence and giving up; The reason why people suffer is to pursue too much; People are unhappy because they care too much; The reason why people worry is that they have a good memory. What they should remember and what they shouldn't remember will remain in their memory.
5. Regardless of the outcome, meet with gratitude. People you meet in life, you should love them as much as possible, even if there is a difference, don't fail to meet them; A woman is at her parents' home when she spends money, at her husband's home when she can earn money, at her parents' home when she needs care when she is a child, and at her husband's home when she can take care of others. She owes her family all her life, but she doesn't necessarily touch her husband's home! Thanksgiving parents! In this life, I only owe my parents, not anyone; Don't pour out your heart for others too easily, because in the end, you can only leave a heartless one behind.
6. What's it like to give up someone? It's like a house that burned down for a long time. You look at the wreckage and ashes and despair. You know it's your home, but you can't go back. At first, we pretended to understand with confusion. Later, we pretended to be confused with understanding. It's not that we want to live in ignorance. Just, a lot of things, a hard, will be debunked, debunked, will be lost. The adult world is always so fragile; I thought liking is a great thing, it can climb mountains and climb mountains, and it can go to heaven and earth. Later I realized that it is not, and it can't even make you happy.
7. Have you ever tried to look back at your chat record with a person? From the beginning to the present, you smiled when you looked at it, and then you cried when you smiled. A person approached you from a strange place, and then you were strange again; Don't be afraid, the world is so big and life is so long, there will always be someone who makes you want to be gentle; Human nature is ugly and cannot stand the test. You think that those people you have helped will at least show compassion when you are in trouble, but often these people are the ones who are the easiest to hit people when they are down. -Yang Jialing's Red Coral Necklace.
8. don't let yourself be a snack when others chat, then try to make yourself a gluttonous feast that they can't afford. Later, I learned that it is a very valuable ability to say different things with different people and show different attitudes. Not hypocrisy; Many stories begin with me giving you happiness, but end with me wishing you happiness.