In today's society, more and more young people choose to organize their own wedding banquets, rather than listen to their parents' arrangements. This phenomenon triggered people's attention and thinking, why young people will have such a choice? What kind of conceptual change and social background does this imply?

First of all, we have to make it clear that organizing your own wedding banquet does not mean disrespecting your parents. On the contrary, it shows the quality of young people's independence and initiative. In the past, many young people lived according to their parents' wishes and rarely had the opportunity to express their own ideas and needs. Nowadays, however, young people, who have been exposed to more information and ideas in education, work and life, are beginning to realize their own rights and interests and attach more importance to their own choices. Therefore, they are willing to put effort into their marriage and organize their own wedding party even if they are busy, which is a sign that they are responsible for their own life.

Secondly, organizing their own wedding banquet is also a challenge and innovation to traditional culture. In the traditional concept, wedding banquets are often organized by elders, while young people have to accept the arrangements obediently. However, this concept is no longer applicable in modern society. Young people believe that marriage is a matter for two people and they should **** participate and make decisions together. Therefore, they will choose their favorite place, style and menu, and even invite their favorite guests. This kind of behavior is a challenge to traditional concepts and the pursuit of individuality and diversity.

Moreover, organizing one's own wedding banquet also reflects the modern society's emphasis on personal space. In the past, family members were closer to each other and had relatively little personal space and privacy. Nowadays, young people gradually develop independent personalities and values as they grow up. They want to be able to maintain a certain degree of independence and personal space in their married life, rather than being completely dependent on each other. Therefore, they will try to keep their own opinions and choices in the process of preparing for the wedding banquet in order to safeguard their rights and interests.

Lastly, organizing the wedding banquet by oneself is also a kind of adjustment to the concept of consumption. In the past, weddings were widely seen as a way to show off wealth and status. As a result, many families would organize grand wedding banquets and spend a lot of money and energy. However, with the development of society, people gradually realize that the real meaning of a wedding lies in the love and commitment of two people. As a result, more and more young people are reflecting on this wasteful phenomenon and trying to organize wedding banquets in a more minimalist and environmentally friendly way. This not only reflects their concern for sustainable development, but also a challenge to the traditional concept of consumption.

In short, more and more young people nowadays are busy organizing their own wedding banquets even when they are busy at work, which is their firm adherence to their own rights and interests, personalities and values in the face of the diversified and individualized trends of modern society. This choice is not only a challenge and innovation to traditional culture, but also an adjustment of personal space and consumption concepts. We should respect young people's choices and understand their pursuits, and at the same time guide them to establish correct values so that they can realize true happiness in their married life.