I saw it with my own eyes. When my cousin met his elders at the Chinese New Year gathering, he gave them cigarettes enthusiastically. The elders took the cigarettes with contempt and threw them directly on the table. They took out good cigarettes from their pockets and smoked them. My brother is a clever boy, and his joke not only solved the embarrassment, but also embarrassed the elders.

This younger brother seems to play around at ordinary times, but he still knows the proper manners, especially respects his elders. It's true that he hasn't made any money in recent years. He's almost 31 years old, and he has no house and no object. Everyone thinks that he's doing nothing, and his elders have some influence, so he doesn't have a good attitude towards him.

this elder arrived last, and the driver drove him here. The arrival of the elder can be said to be splendid, and everyone is waiting for him. When he arrives, everyone can't hold the moon. Finally, the younger brother greeted the preparation, pouring tea and smoking for the elders. The younger brother's cigarettes were not bad. He handed his hands to the elders and then took out a lighter to light them.

I didn't expect the elder to throw his cigarette directly on the table, take his good cigarette out of his pocket and smoke it, ignoring his brother's existence! The younger brother still smiled and said, this is a good cigarette. I have never smoked it. Give me a taste!

When the elder didn't hear, the younger brother went to the car and took out two cigarettes smoked by the elder, handed them to the elder, and said to the elder, I know that you like smoking, and I didn't prepare anything else for you, so I brought you two cigarettes. Don't be disgusted, just skip the (poor) cigarettes. You can make do with it! I usually smoke this cigarette too much, and it turns my stomach when I smell it. Of course, I bought this cigarette now, not the rest I smoked. If you dislike it, you can just throw it away. I don't mind.

My father hastened to make amends, knowing that his elders could not bear to throw this cigarette, and seeing that his younger brother was wronged, my father said, Thank you for your kindness! It's not easy for these kids. Their father died young, helpless, and struggling on their own. It's very distressing to watch. The baby knows how to get up and buy you something. He comes to me empty-handed (my father is joking to ease the atmosphere).

The younger brother said: Uncle (my father), I am very casual when I am with you. I recognize what you do to me, because you are qualified, but you always only know how to feel sorry for me and treat me as your own child, and you will not look down on you. You almost raised me. Do you think I can come to your house empty-handed? I am used to going back to my home, haha ...

At this time, the elder's face is only embarrassed. He knows that he has just acted a little too much, and his brother really cares! I think others give you smoke, first of all, regardless of the price of smoke, at least others respect you. Others kindly handed out cigarettes, but you still refused. This is not a smart person, but that you don't respect yourself. You take yourself too seriously, but you actually look down on yourself. This is my foolish point of view, which makes everyone laugh.

is this a disgrace? There is even more humiliating ... I once went to the door to talk about cooperation with a boss and handed him a five-leaf god. After he took it, he threw it into the trash can, took out Bao Huazi from his pocket, and then ordered it ... I came to see you to talk about business in order to win * * *, and make money together, instead of begging you for [a flash of inspiration]. If you can cooperate, you will cooperate happily. If you can't cooperate, I will talk to someone else ...

once, I went to work with my friend. On my way back, my friend answered the phone. Someone invited him to dinner, but my friend refused to say that it was inconvenient for me to be in the car. The man generously insisted that I come with him, saying that more people would make the atmosphere better. In this way, we went to the hotel together.

There are six people on the table, all of whom seem to be prominent figures. They called and invited that person to see us, warmly greeted us to sit down, introduced us one by one, and sent out a circle of cigarettes.

I was in an awkward position. I didn't know anyone except my friend. When I watched them chatting in full swing, I stood up and offered them a cigarette. I smoked a cheap cigarette of 16 yuan. When I handed it to a man named Vice President Zhang, he took it and put it on the table.

After a while, the waiter started serving, and asked who the loose cigarette on the table was. Vice President Zhang picked up the cigarette and threw it directly into the garbage bucket. He also took out a pack of expensive Chinese cigarettes from his pocket and put it on the table, saying that he was used to smoking this cigarette, but others were not.

At that time, my friends and friends of my friends were so surprised, and I was even more embarrassed. My friends quickly came out to make amends, saying that Vice President Zhang's life quality is really good and he knows how to enjoy it. It happened that I had a good cigarette from my friend here, and the Vice President wanted one. Hands it over, Zhang Fuzong took the point.

I regretted following me at that time. You said that a courier was wearing work clothes to make fun, but he couldn't leave. It seemed that he was talking about some business. I invited my friends to see that I was a little strange, and came over to chat with me enthusiastically, asking how the business was, saying that your industry was very profitable, tired and eating vegetables.

when the meal is finished and the wine is finished, just sit and chat. Vice President Zhang picked up the cigarette on the table and sent it to us. He handed it to me and said, Try this cigarette. Yes, I crustily skin of head and took it, and I didn't know what it was.

My friend said that I would go to the bathroom, and I wanted to follow him. When he pressed me, I just sat there listening to them chatting and smoking a stuffy cigarette.

when my friend came back, it seemed that I had put something in my pocket. A message came from my mobile phone, which was sent by my friend who just went out. I bought you two packs of good cigarettes and put them in your pocket. I understand, my friend is defending me, saving my face and buying cigarettes.

I took out my cigarette and handed it to Vice President Zhang. I saw that his face was obviously different, and he should be embarrassed. My friends suddenly calmed down and looked at us. He took the cigarette and didn't light it. He was playing with it in his hand.

after I finished, I put the good cigarettes in my pocket, or I took out the cheap cigarettes I smoked and lit them myself. I'm used to smoking this habit, and I'm not used to smoking anything else. Look at my fate.

Vice President Zhang looks restless.

My eldest brother went out to work in 1985, and worked as a handyman in a restaurant called Yingbin Restaurant. He just went out and spoke his hometown dialect. Boss Zhao took him to the chef, saying that he was recommended by Liu, and asked him to have a good training.

My eldest brother was quite nervous. After all, the first time he saw such a big scene, the kitchen was bigger than our shabby hut, so he handed the chef a cigarette with trembling hands. The chef took it and looked at it, then showed it to the guys, and they gave a storm of laughter.

Then the chef put the cigarette under his nose, sniffed it, closed his eyes and took a deep breath, then slowly opened his eyes with a sly smile, flicked it with his thumb, and fell squarely into the trash can next to the cutting and matching table.

My brother was very sad and embarrassed. He borrowed 51 cents from others to buy cigarettes. He rushed to the trash can to pick up the cigarette. He never smoked. He borrowed a match from the dishwasher and lit it.

It made him cough, and while coughing, he said, That's the smell of cigarettes. It's so bad. No wonder the chef didn't want it.

that shop is a northern dish, and all of them are not spicy. My brother is a person who has no spicy taste, so he went to the food market and bought half a catty of peppers and 1 taels of green and white peppers himself. He fried them in oil and chopped them into hot sauce, and put a spoonful at every working meal.

Boss Zhao also had a working lunch with employees that day. Seeing that the noodles in my brother's bowl were different from others, I asked him how he cooked it. My brother said it was spicy. If you like it, I'll make you a bowl.

My brother knows that northerners like to be jealous, and they should add vinegar to their noodles and vinegar to their jiaozi, so he cooked a bowl of hot and sour noodles with bone soup for Boss Zhao, who slapped his thigh and said that he had never tasted it before. Colleagues who looked away were jealous.

the next day, my brother was transferred to another store by boss Zhao, which had a Sichuan food department. The boss told my brother to study hard and patted him on the shoulder and said that he had a bright future. Teach him to the chef so that he can be properly trained.

My brother handed a cigarette to the chef, who stuck it in his ear and said that he couldn't smoke during work, so he told my brother to change clothes and practice knife work.

The first step for a chef to practice knife work is to cut shredded potatoes and radishes every day, and then make these shreds into a working meal. The waiter in the front office is afraid of seeing new employees, because there will be a meal of shredded potatoes and radishes.

At noon, the chef took off his apron and went to smoke in the back. Later, he came back to ask my brother where he bought this cigarette and why he had never seen it. My brother said that he bought it at Uncle Hutongkou's tobacco stall, but the chef said it was not bad, which was quite smooth. My brother quickly presented the remaining half box respectfully with both hands. The chef readily accepted and asked him to practice hard. This sentence gave my brother great encouragement.

The girls in the front desk have had enough of Rob and potatoes. My brother asked the chef if he could lend him 2 yuan. He was going to buy meat and cut shredded pork. The chef asked him with a smile, are you trying to practice knife work or please girls?

If you answer truthfully, you can borrow it. My brother said that he had everything. He also wanted to practice knife work and please girls. The chef patted my brother on the shoulder and said that he had a bright future.

After practicing for more than half a year, my brother's salary is not even enough for himself. He also wrote that he would not go home for the New Year without travelling expenses next year. My parents were lost for a long time and stood at the entrance of the village every day.

My brother's craft has made great progress because of the Spring Festival.

Everyone in a store has left, leaving only the chef and my brother. The chef has been working outside all the year round, and his wife ran away with someone. He didn't want to go back to face gossip, so he sent money and gifts to his family.

Boss Zhao has a lot of social activities. Every day, friends come to the store to eat, and often ask the chef to accompany him. My brother will do the simple dishes. My brother likes to cook fish stew and chicken stir-fried pork in his hometown, but his family is poor and he has no chance to do it once a year.

Both the boss and the guests praised his delicious cooking, saying that the young man worked hard and had a bright future. None of the Chinese New Year guests went back to their hometown to spend the New Year with their parents, but all of them gave my brother lucky money.

My brother was overjoyed. He had never seen so many, dozens of dollars. He thought about it and left 311 yuan for himself, and gave all the rest to the chef. From then on, the chef scolded him for being more diligent and cruel, not that he was slow, the oil temperature was high, or the technique was wrong.

Fried shredded pork with fish flavor was scolded to tears, either too sweet or too spicy, or too thick.

under the repeated scolding of the chef, my brother's craft has made rapid progress, and he has climbed from the tail chef to the third position.

In 1998, the first store where my brother stayed closed, and Boss Zhao left some employees to be assigned to various branches.

At that time, my brother was already the chef of a new store, and the chef who taught him to cook in the second store was promoted to the executive chef of all stores. The chef who threw my brother's cigarettes took his 17-year-old son to my brother's store as an apprentice.

The lobby manager took the father and son to the back kitchen and gave them to my brother, saying that Boss Zhao ordered a good training, and then he went out.

My brother is teaching the novice to set the table. Father and son greet my brother politely. The chef handed a cigarette and his son lit a match. My brother readily accepted, and the chef said, I'm sorry, bro. I was young and ignorant at the beginning, so please forgive me.

In the future, my dog expects you to take more care of him, and adults don't remember little people. My brother pretended to be surprised and asked him what he was talking about. Do we know each other? Have we met?

my brother said that I will teach anyone who is willing to learn and work hard. The chef shook hands with my brother heavily to say goodbye.

Maybe he was influenced by his father since he was a child, or maybe the boy was intelligent and savvy. He learned faster than the disciples in the store, and my brother liked him. Later, he toured the store with the executive chef and exchanged experiences with the chefs in various stores. My brother took this apprentice with him.

On the day when the boy was officially promoted to chef, his grandparents and his parents were invited in the shop, along with Boss Zhao and the executive chef.

During the dinner, the family raised their glasses to my brother, and the chef told the story of throwing cigarettes handed by my brother into the trash can in front of Boss Zhao. His father said that I didn't educate my children well, which made him so arrogant and arrogant. Thanks to my brother's generosity, let bygones be bygones.

what should I do if I smoke someone and someone loses it on the spot?

people throw away your cigarettes on the spot, but they think you are not in a good position and don't recognize you.

1, quietly, continue to send it to the next person.

2. Make fun of yourself, bend down to pick it up and apologize and say: I'm sorry I didn't hold it steady.

3. compliment the other person on his good habits and tell him that I want to quit smoking, too.

no matter how high your position is, always remember that the wind and water turn, the mountains don't turn into water, and the earth is round. Don't leave future trouble for yourself and your descendants.

many friends and many roads, few enemies and few regrets. Be forgiving and forgiving, do high-profile things and be low-key.

I suggest you just go back and throw away your cigarettes in front of yourself. That's completely humiliating, and there's no need to save face for the other person. It happened before me that the younger generation handed cigarettes to the elders and the elders threw them directly under the table. You see how we fought back.

Two years ago, during the Chinese New Year, several of our cousins led by my uncle went down to visit his aunt's grave. Because we were close, and we hadn't seen each other for a long time during the Chinese New Year, it was inevitable that we would have a few drinks, so we all went by tricycle.

When we arrived, a relative who came back from the city, according to seniority, should be an uncle, and came back early in the car driven by his son. As we are junior, a cousin who went with me saw my uncle coming back and quickly took out his cigarette and handed it to everyone (I don't smoke, and I didn't pass it). My uncle and his son didn't reach out to pick up the cigarette. I began to think that they didn't smoke like me.

After three rounds of drinking at dinner, my uncle began to brag about where his son worked and how much he paid a month. He bought a house in other places this year and was going to settle down in other places. He also said that we could go to his son when we went out to work after the year. As he spoke, he took out a pack of hanako from his pocket and smoked it himself. Because he is an elder, it is reasonable for him to smoke his own hanako cigarettes.

after a while, my cousin took out the cigarettes for everyone to distribute, because he didn't answer them at first. I guess my cousin thought he didn't smoke, too. Just now, after seeing that he smoked Hanako, I learned that he smoked, so my cousin handed him cigarettes first. At this time, my uncle said that he couldn't get used to smoking other cigarettes, and he didn't mean to reach out and pick them up. My cousin has been standing there with a cigarette in one hand, which is embarrassing. It is estimated that after drinking a few glasses of wine, he replied: I can't get used to smoking today, and this cigarette is no more difficult than your hanako.

My uncle saw that my cousin's tone was a little heavy, and with so many people watching, he reached out and took the cigarette.