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Online saw a paragraph:

Daughter-in-law said: husband, let's buy a mini washing machine dedicated to me to wash underwear, okay?

The son replied: yes, yes!

The mother-in-law interjected: spend that money for what, my son is your exclusive washing machine.

This picture is not particularly harmonious, happy it! The daughter-in-law is smart, the son loves his wife, and the mother-in-law has become a spirit.

It is estimated that this daughter-in-law wants to be lazy, usually underwear and husband to help wash, so I heard that the purchase of a washing machine, the man is happier than anyone else.

Although the mother-in-law loves her son, she is particularly thrifty and frugal, spending money to buy a washing machine is a waste of money, not to mention the waste of water and electricity every day.

In order to save money, the mother-in-law took the initiative to push out the son to continue to be a wife slave, who let him listen to his wife in everything, deserve to work hard.

This mother-in-law is not only old-fashioned and sophisticated, but also understands the sense of boundaries and sense of proportion.

If she cares for her son and has to take it upon herself to wash her daughter-in-law's underwear, it will be embarrassing for all three and will easily lead to conflicts.

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This paragraph reminds me of the reader Xiao Wang share the experience of getting rid of the mother-in-law, Xiao Wang and her husband are working, the mother-in-law to help look after the children, as long as the couple is at home, with the baby chores are all involved in the same way, so that the mother-in-law to take a good rest.

In the housework, Wang and her husband have a rough division of labor, her husband is responsible for cooking, she is responsible for washing dishes.

The most angry is that sometimes she has something to do in the evening, not at home to eat, but back home or to wash the dishes, she knows that this is the mother-in-law intentionally the whole of the mothers, but it is also the husband's position is not clear.

In this regard, the couple argued a few times, the family atmosphere is not as good as before.

Wang's mother-in-law is particularly thrifty, in order to save 50 cents, at the expense of half an hour of road, regardless of the wind and sun, every day shuttling in several supermarkets, just to buy discounted food.

Catching her mother-in-law's soft underbelly, at dinner, Wang put her cell phone in front of her husband in front of her mother-in-law:

Hubby, take a look at this dishwasher is on sale, the original price is more than 10,000 yuan, and now you can buy it for 5,000 yuan, let's buy one, so that our mother does not have to work so hard;

Hubby, although the dishwasher is a little expensive, but with it, I can save two hundred yuan every month to care for my children. can save two hundred dollars on hand cream, it's still a good deal.

"It's up to you to decide, buy what you like." The biggest advantage of this man is that he never cares about his wife losing money.

"Then I'll order it later." Xiao Wang deliberately raised his voice, afraid that his mother-in-law could not hear.

"You go to accompany the child to play games, these bowls let my son wash, a big man to do more housework is deserved." For the first time, the mother-in-law took the initiative not to let Xiao Wang wash the dishes.

When Xiao Wang sat on the sofa with her son, her mother-in-law sat down next to her and began to try to buy a dishwasher.

"I don't have quite enough money in my bank card, so I'll buy it in a couple of days when I get my paycheck."

In fact, on the palm-sized ground of their kitchen, it is usually difficult to move one's butt, where there is room for a dishwasher ah!

"Dishwasher which can wash clean, I see your husband middle-aged fat is very strong, should let him do more work, both to protect the wife's hands and exercise, a multi-purpose."

The mother-in-law has a particularly good sense of proportion, and she will not directly resist the high degree of agreement between the two couples.

Done!

From then on, the mother-in-law is active in letting her son take more responsibility for household chores, Wang is still very distressed husband, will take the initiative to help. The most important thing is that when she is late for something, there is no longer a pile of dishes in the sink waiting for her to brush, and her mood will also be very happy.

A good mood is better to understand and tolerate others, the family rely on each other, the strength to a make, in order to form a harmonious circle.

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Everyone knows that a good mother-in-law is really unattainable, and that the husband is the one who relies on each other for a lifetime, and as long as the couple is in good terms, everything else can be taken into account.

But as the saying goes, it's easy to know and hard to do! The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

Take the matter of buying a washing machine, the style of many families is like this:

Daughter-in-law: Hubby, let's buy a mini-washer specifically for me to wash underwear, okay?

The mother-in-law replied in front of the son: Why don't you go to heaven? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new one, and you'll be able to do it in a way that's easy for you to understand.

There is a mother-in-law who is such a mouthful of shit stick, absolutely son usually acquiesced, even if he is not a mom treasure, but also a family of mud, it seems that the two sides do not offend, in fact, is not able to deal with.

That couples quarrel inevitably, no divorce even if the end of the fortunate.

In fact, this is a very small thing in itself, if the economy is not a problem, the balcony is large enough to meet the daughter-in-law, the husband can be at ease to brush the phone, all happy.

If the balcony itself to move ass place are not, the mother-in-law can let the son properly and daughter-in-law said, let her recognize the reality, she is not sad and aggrieved.

In short, smart mothers-in-law will play deaf and dumb, son to accommodate the daughter-in-law, willing to be a wife slave is no big deal, a thousand gold can not buy him willing.

One of the biggest problems, some couples have a good relationship, the husband can not accuse the mother-in-law of half a sentence, otherwise the mother-in-law will feel that he is a daughter-in-law forget the mother, increase the contradiction.

What to do?

Finding your mother-in-law's soft underbelly is like pinching the seven inches of a poisonous snake.

Last year, a male reader told me that because the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not get along, the family is always in a state of flux, which gives him a special headache.

Mom and wife who is right and who is wrong, the man will be able to identify, the wife is wrong when he said that the wife at least will not refute, but the mother can not allow him to blame, will only be counterproductive.

My advice to him, find out the mother's weaknesses, and then find a mother most trusting person to be a mediator, this person can be an aunt, or mother's niece, the key is the three views to be positive.

He looked for his uncle's daughter, first cousin and his mom's age is about the same, aunt and nephew's feelings are very good, often contact.

The first cousin first listened to the aunt confided in, and then asked a few questions:

Do you want to cousin he divorced?

I won't stop him from getting a divorce.

So do you want to lose your grandchildren or your grandchildren? If they get divorced, it is more likely that the child will follow the mom.

They are my babies and no one can take them away.

When it comes down to it, it's the court's call, and there's a much better chance that a child that young will be awarded to the mom, and whoever the child follows will probably get the house.

I never wanted them to get divorced?

The mother-in-law was a bit flustered, if the divorce grandchildren house are given to the daughter-in-law, it is not a loss of a wife and a soldier.

Since you don't want them to divorce, you always say bad things about his wife in front of his cousin, what do you want him to do ah?

Cousin is worthy of great wisdom, a moment to find the mother-in-law's soft underbelly, and then moved to help her analyze.

The old lady is usually on her daughter-in-law, and has always felt that her son's condition, even if she divorced and then find it is not difficult.

But she never thought of losing her grandchildren and grandchildren, and could not let her son's hard-earned money to buy a house to give up.

Although the mother-in-law is not educated, but not confused, weighing the pros and cons, rarely again in front of the son to sow discord.

The son is easy, will coax his wife to please the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law mood is good to see the daughter-in-law is also much more eye, the family is more and more harmonious reunion.

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According to Taiwan's latest divorce data, in Taiwan's divorce cases, because the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship leads to divorce in the first place.

This deep experience, although the mother-in-law is not the most important person in the marriage, but is definitely the most important factor affecting the quality of marriage.

People live to solve a difficult problem, encounter problems on the retreat, that will never be able to live this life.

The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new swimming pool, and you will be able to get a better view of the pool.

The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty!

Marriage is a big swimming pool, only learn to swim to solve the root of the problem, that is, whether it is shallow or deep water, can swim easily.

When you live like a fish out of water, and then turn back, you will certainly find a good mother-in-law is around.