don't enjoy the glory alone. To put it bluntly, don't threaten the living space of others, because your glory will make others dim and create a sense of insecurity. When you get the honor, you thank others, share with others and be humble, which just gives others a reassurance. Human nature is so wonderful that there is nothing to say.

As the saying goes, "We share weal and woe." When you make some achievements in your work and career, it is certainly something to be thankful for, and you should be happy for yourself. But one thing, if this achievement is the collective credit of everyone, or can't be separated from the help of others, then you must never monopolize the credit, don't enjoy it alone, or you may suffer the consequences one day!

There is an energetic Mr. Kafanson, who is the editor of a publishing house and the editor-in-chief of a subordinate magazine. Usually, he has a good relationship from top to bottom in the unit, and he is also very talented. He often writes something after work. On one occasion, the magazine he edited won a grand prize in a selection. He felt very honored and mentioned his efforts and achievements to everyone. Of course, his colleagues also congratulated him. But after a month, he lost his old smile. He found that his colleagues, including his superiors and subordinates, seemed to be giving him a hard time intentionally or unintentionally and avoiding him.

why did kafansen meet this ending? In fact, the reason is simple and clear. He made the mistake of "exclusive glory". As far as the matter is concerned, the editor-in-chief has certainly contributed a lot to this magazine's award, but it can't be separated from the efforts of others, and they should certainly share the honor. They don't think that a certain talent is the only hero, and they always think that they have "no credit and hard work", so the editor-in-chief's "exclusive honor" will certainly cause others to feel uncomfortable, especially his boss, which will lead to a sense of insecurity and fear of losing power.

So, when you are recognized for your special performance in your work, you must remember one thing-don't enjoy the glory alone, or it will bring obstacles to your interpersonal relationship. When you are honored, you should do the following:

(1) Thank others

Thank your colleagues for their help, and don't think it's all your own credit. I especially want to thank my boss for his promotion, guidance and authorization. If this is the case, then you should be so grateful; If the assistance of colleagues is limited and the boss is not worthy of compliment, it is necessary to thank you. Although it seems hypocritical, it can prevent you from becoming an arrow target of others. Why do many people take the stage to receive the prize, and the first thing they have to say is: "I am very happy! But I want to thank ... ",that's the truth. Although this kind of "lip service" thanks lacks "substantive" meaning, the people who hear it are very happy and will not be jealous of you.

(2) Share with others

Even verbal thanks are a kind of sharing, and you can also expand the object of this "sharing". Anyway, "it's not strange to be polite to many people"! Of course, others don't have to share a piece of your cake, but you take the initiative to share it with others, which makes others feel respected. If your glory is actually accomplished by everyone, you should not forget this. You can share it in many ways, such as inviting everyone to eat a few sweets or inviting everyone to eat a meal. Eating people is soft-spoken and taking people short. If others share your honor, they won't be against you.

(3) Being humble

Some people tend to forget who they are once they are honored, and then they will expand themselves. This kind of mood is understandable, but others will suffer. They have to put up with your arrogance, but they dare not speak out, because you are on the front. But slowly, they will resist you at work intentionally or unintentionally, and let you hit a snag. Therefore, when you have glory, you should be more humble. It's not easy to be neither humble nor supercilious, but "humble" is definitely better than "arrogant". Even if "humble" is too much, it doesn't matter. Others will certainly not bother you and oppose you when they see that you are so humble.

On the one hand, when you are honored, you should be more polite to others. The higher the honor, the lower your head. On the other hand, don't always mention your glory. If you talk too much, it will become a boast. Since everyone already knows your glory, why do you always mention it?

Look at the glory you get correctly and learn to be humble and share it with others. If you are used to enjoying the glory alone, then one day you will eat the bitter fruit alone!