From high school to university, it is not only the change of campus, but also the change of interpersonal relationship. The contacts in the university are no longer people from the same area, but more people from all over the country; The scope of communication is not limited to classmates.
But extended to the whole university and even stepped out of school; The means of communication is no longer limited to oral communication in and after class, but more is the communication of modern media such as mobile phones and the Internet. All kinds of changes require college students to adjust themselves and adapt to the environment.
As a new generation of only children, they have lived in a caring environment since childhood. They have strong self-awareness and distinct personalities, and some of them are even self-centered. As a result, the collective life of the university has become a painful bondage. Face psychology, impulsive psychology and closed psychology will all affect their interpersonal communication.
Second, academic issues.
From primary school to high school, all learning seems to be completed under the supervision of teachers, while university learning belongs to adult autonomous learning, emphasizing freedom and autonomy. Therefore, many students who like cramming are at a loss after leaving the eyes of teachers and parents.
The basic primary and secondary education prepared for the college entrance examination for a long time makes students have no hobbies except reading, textbooks and books. Some students who can't adapt, after leaving the teacher's favor, step into a powerful university, and suddenly have a strong sense of frustration and loss, and their self-confidence becomes inferiority.
Third, the question of love.
Nowadays, students' love shows a trend of "younger age", and college love has long been a common phenomenon, but girls without partners are worried about becoming leftover women, while boys without partners are worried about "focusing on living alone".
Students on campus sometimes introduce each other, but most of them are not considering marriage, but staying together for love. Because some people are not ready to accept and pay their feelings, they are extremely vulnerable when they encounter emotional setbacks, and some even choose to end their lives. This is all wrong.
Fourth, the employment problem.
The ever-changing social environment has greatly influenced the psychological development of contemporary college students. Colleges and universities no longer implement the package distribution policy. In recent years, the "two-way choice" and "marketization" policies of college students' employment and unhealthy social atmosphere have further strengthened their sense of competition and anxiety. More and more college students are worried about the employment problem after four years from the beginning of their freshman year, and they have been looking for internships since their junior year.
It is easy to have negative psychology when encountering setbacks. There are also some students who want to change their fate and family life through ten years of hard work because of their poor families. However, the grim employment situation after the expansion of colleges and universities almost shattered their dreams. It has been said that in contemporary society, the possibility of class mobility through learning is getting smaller and smaller.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) family problems
In today's society, family environment has become one of the decisive factors affecting college students' mental health. Most contemporary college students are only children. Since childhood, I have relied on my parents, my teachers in my studies, and my ability to live independently is poor. I have never suffered setbacks.
However, stubbornness and willfulness, emotional fragility, weak endurance, large emotional fluctuations and small changes in life and study will all cause strong psychological impact. In particular, some families with incomplete family life, or single-parent families, families with distant parents' feelings, and families lacking a sense of warmth, are easy to cast a shadow over their psychology, leading them to form a withdrawn and inferiority complex.