What boys need most is patience, and they must endure it. It is better to be ambiguous first and then confess, because once exposed, if unsuccessful, it will be very embarrassing for future exchanges.
Dude, advice.
The so-called ambiguity is aimed at people with high moral quality and a leisurely and full stomach. Be careful when you are lonely, empty or mentally incomplete, and don't hurt others and yourself in vain. More immoral people, don't do anything in the name of ambiguity, and damage my ambiguous reputation here!
1, take the initiative to solve the computer problem for her in the office, and signal her not to stand up, bend over your waist, hold her chair back in one hand and the mouse in the other, and then put your face close to hers, keeping a slap in the face-pay attention to ensure a fresh breath;
2. Like ordinary friends, invite her to dinner, coffee, ice cream and bars for no reason.
If she will take the initiative to pay the bill once every five times, let her pay the bill herself-every time it will make people misunderstand that you are pursuing her, and some girls will be uneasy.
Compliment her new boots or earrings and tell her that you like the style or color very much-but remember that one compliment is enough, not too much, and what to do after the compliment.
If you have a car, you don't have to get off to see her off when you drive her home. Just sit in the car and watch her walk into the lobby or corridor-open the door for her enthusiastically, suggesting that you want to go up for a drink. That's the taboo of ambiguous people!
If there are no special circumstances after work from Monday to Friday, it is not advisable to send text messages every day, even if you want to send them more than five times. If you don't meet at the weekend, you must send a text message to say hello, but not more than 10 times-but if you have dinner together or go somewhere to play one night, you must send a text message to say hello within 10 minutes after sending her back, remember!
6. Pay attention to her health. Many girls have mild stomach problems. Find out what medicine she usually takes when she is in pain, and then "coincidentally" prepare a bottle in the drawer of the office or the locker of the carriage-be careful not to confuse dysmenorrhea with stomachache, because the positions of the two are obviously different.
7. When two people are together, try to go to places with poor light as little as possible. Remember that you are playing in ambiguous and dimly lit places, such as cinemas, western restaurants and parks at night. , will make girls very confused, and then think you are pursuing her.
8, ambiguous words and jokes must be said by SMS or MSN/QQ, never in person or on the phone! In addition, all ambiguous jokes should be converted into normal topics in an appropriate way, and improper interruptions will also cause misunderstandings-of course, you can have that kind of beautiful misunderstanding once a week, but not more than 1 time.
9. If she has a boyfriend, she must never say anything against their feelings. When they have emotional crisis, they should even help her analyze and solve the problem-but to grasp the degree and give her advice blindly to persuade her to get back together with her boyfriend, sometimes it will lead to her strong dissatisfaction for some reasons!
10, take the initiative to help her with things and touch her hand like a dragonfly; When walking together, it is natural to gently touch her shoulder or arm by swinging her arm-pay attention to the number of times, usually twice in half an hour is the limit!
1 1. If you are invited to go shopping with her, you should carefully help her choose one or three kinds of clothes on the premise of knowing her preferences, and then sincerely praise her when she leaves the fitting room. If that day is a holiday other than Valentine's Day, you can also consider quietly buying a small ornament (such as wristband and scarf) when she enters the fitting room, and give it to her when she goes home, and tell her this.
12, don't describe what kind of girl you like in front of her. This is a taboo for people who play with ambiguity-whether you describe her or not, the result is not conducive to continuing to maintain an ambiguous relationship.
13. For you who are ambiguous, some outdoor activities are not suitable for her alone, such as swimming (including water parks) and camping.
14. A man who plays an ambiguous game must always take the initiative, which means that once she plays an ambiguous joke with you, she will immediately answer her question in another way, and then quickly say, "How is this possible?" , and then hearty "ha ha ha" laugh three times.
15, take care of your lower body, remember that you are only playing with ambiguity, not cheating. Since you don't want to give others a future, taking advantage of others emotionally is your moral bottom line as a man. Don't hurt others physically.
16. Finally, determine whether your mind can bear the so-called ambiguity. It is not easy to be ambiguous. Many people eventually lose each other or have to accept each other. Alas, if I had known this, why should I have? ......