1. When did you go to my father's in-laws for the first time?
If the two families are far apart, stay for two days. If it's close, go back at night!
After all, it is the first time to go to my father-in-law's house. I'm not familiar with this family. I always feel particularly bound. When I see my parents-in-law busy, you can only watch from there. To pour a glass of water, the old father-in-law pressed it and said that he would come. There is a feeling that the emperor has come to inspect. It's too high, and I feel very unaccustomed.
As this is my first visit to my father-in-law's house, I'm sure I'll be asked some questions, so I'll pay attention to answering them.
1, the situation at home, once said, don't brag, including parents, brothers and sisters.
2. Show your self-motivation, talk about your plans and future development plans, and also highlight the consideration of girls.
3. Respect the local customs of girls and the marriage customs.
The plan of buying a house and a car guarantees a certain material foundation, so that the old father-in-law can safely give his daughter to himself.
Second, the taboo of going to my father's in-laws for the first time:
1, dress appropriately, not too casually, too casually will make your father-in-law feel that you don't respect others, so wear formal casual clothes.
It is impolite to leave empty-handed. You still need to bring some gifts. You don't need expensive gifts for the first time, just tobacco, alcohol, fruit and the like.
3. Have a few drinks with your father-in-law while eating. Don't refuse if there are no special circumstances. This is a good time to approach your father-in-law. Pay attention to the amount of drinking, so as not to lose your manners after drinking too much. When chatting, don't say anything, but don't be silent all the time. How long does it take you to become smooth and unstable? This will make the old father-in-law have a question mark in his heart and doubt whether you are reliable. It is best to talk less, but be natural and graceful, look calm and a little nervous.
Summary:
Going to my father-in-law's house for the first time, you can choose to live or not, depending on the distance between the two families! Never leave your feet and hands for the first time. This will be considered rude.