It is essential to prepare paper, gold ingots, mingbi or clothes made of paper on the day of father's death. Generally, meat, vegetables, steamed bread, fruit, or tributes need to be prepared according to local ethnic customs. Then I went to the cemetery to burn paper and scatter ashes. After burning the paper, I will pray for the dead and don't look back. This is a taboo. Through the memorial to the dead,
On the day my father died, I should buy Mingbi, gold ingot, food and fruit as soon as possible. I'd better wear elegant clothes when I go to the cemetery, and remember not to make any noise so as not to disturb the dead.