You just want to find someone to marry. I want Gao Fushuai!
On the evening of February 12, I received a phone call from my parents asking me to go back to my hometown the next day (Sunday). A matchmaker in my hometown introduced a blind date. I'm in my thirties and I'm not married. My parents have been anxious for a long time. They also told me to buy a suit and dress beautifully. When you meet a blind date, you will get a lot of points. Everyone knows that my first impression is good. Father asked me to go to my hometown early tomorrow morning and let me come back with my uncle.
But at seven or eight o'clock the next morning, my uncle drove me back to my hometown It's raining, and spring is chilly. For the first impression, I wandered around, buying suits and shoes. My uncle and I arrived at the new city together. My parents, aunt and matchmaker have been waiting for a long time. They didn't stay long when they saw me coming. The group went to a community. On the sixth floor of a building, we met the blind date and her mother. This is an old community, and the indoor pattern is relatively simple.
The blind date wears glasses and a ponytail. She is thin, looks quiet and has a delicate appearance. We talked to them for a while. She is a math teacher in a township primary school, in her thirties. Her marriage has not been decided yet, and her parents are in a hurry! After chatting for a long time, at lunch time, we agreed to go out for dinner, and the blind date was a little unhappy. I said I was just an ordinary friend, and having a meal was nothing. This group of people went out for a meal. At the dinner table, her mother said that she had three children, two daughters and one son. The blind date is the second child, and the other two children are married and have children. We all added WeChat to each other and left our phone numbers to facilitate communication. ......
As soon as I got back to my work city, my parents called me and asked me to chat with my girl more, and asked me to send her a red envelope of 520 on February 14 ... On February 14, I wished her a happy Valentine's Day first, and then immediately sent her a red envelope of 520. She said it was not acceptable, and the relationship had not yet reached that stage. I feel in my heart that this girl is not bad, and it is very rare not to accept other people's money.
The next day, I went to work. Open wx at noon and look at the circle of friends. She sent a photo of the car, which said, "Going out to play, taking Feifei's car for the first time, I'm a little nervous. . . "I instinctively asked" where are we going to play "below. Before long, she replied" to Nanchang ". I didn't think much about it either. In the evening, as soon as I got back to the community, I received a phone call from home. My mother said anxiously, "Did you know that girl went to Nanchang? Don't you understand? " I look cheated. What is this? Then my aunt also said on the phone, "You are too ignorant. She went out to play and you didn't accompany her. She was angry. She was angry with her mother. She said that this man has a girlfriend again, so he has the cheek to come on a blind date and step on both sides? " I look innocent. Do I have that ability? She went out to play with her best friend. I went to work, but I didn't accompany her, so I have a girlfriend again? Is this logic too much? So I apologized to her on wx and said a lot of nice things. She replied, I can't stand this, I'm sorry ... I apologized for a long time, and finally she forgave me by default.
February 16, school started and she went to work. I asked her how she felt on her first day at work. She said she was depressed, didn't want to go to work, and didn't feel good at home? Isn't this society like this? Who wants to work? Later, I asked her about her hobbies and habits, and also asked her what flowers she liked. She said she liked the sky, so I bought a bunch from Taobao. I asked her the delivery address, and she said you had that intention, so you don't really need to send it. What is a flower? Women will say no, but they will. Isn't that how people in China receive gifts? Flowers must be sent, so I wrote down the address of the primary school where she works. . . . Soon, she said that she received it, thank you and so on. . . .
It will soon be Friday again. My parents called and asked me to go back to my hometown to play with her tomorrow Saturday (February 19), spend more time with her and get to know her better. I told her in WX that I would definitely go back to see her on Saturday. She said, "You are too busy to bother." I promise to go. She also said that Saturday was too cold, it might rain, and there was nothing to do. "I said the weather forecast might be inaccurate, and she said," Then you can do whatever you like. "At 9 o'clock on Friday night, I asked her what she was doing. She said she was chatting with her best friend, and she specifically asked, you won't come to see me tomorrow, will you? I am going back: I will definitely come tomorrow, and I am very excited to see you. " She said that she would go back to her hometown tomorrow and would not come back until afternoon. I said I could wait for her at the gate of her community. I was very happy to see her this afternoon. She also said, don't be so persistent I said, how can I retreat from this distance?
On the second Saturday, in February of 19, I got up at dawn, put on new clothes and hurried to the station to take the bus. Fortunately, it didn't rain, but it was really cold, much colder than in winter. I don't want to go out in such a cold day, but a gentleman can't forget a word, and I will go to see her even if it is burning my eyebrows. It's not yet nine o'clock in the morning, then I went to my hometown, and then I changed trains to go shopping in the city to buy gifts. She said she liked durian, so I asked the store if there were any durians for sale. The store said it was cold, there was no durian, and it was from last year. I came to the door of her community and sent her a message. She said that she had gone to the countryside and would not come back until this afternoon. I was waiting for her at the gate of her community.
In the afternoon, I thought she might be back, so I sent a message asking if she was back. She said, well, she's back. I said I went downstairs. Are you in room 603 on the sixth floor? She said, don't come up, you go down, I'll go down. I saw her downstairs. She still wears glasses and a black cotton-padded jacket. I gave her the fruit, and she frowned when she saw it. Then she came to a white dz car, opened the door and let me put my things in. Then she suggested that we go out for a walk. At that time, it was very cold and windy, and everyone could feel that feeling. To tell you the truth, I wanted to sit upstairs for a while, but she suggested going outside and went.
Through an iron railing door, we came to a shopping center. As soon as we entered, there was a small playground, and many children were playing trampoline. I said, these children are so cute. She listened and said casually: children are a burden! ! Suddenly shocked me, shocked the world? I said, how can children be a burden? She also said that her sister gave birth to three children and had to take care of them at home every day, so she didn't have time to go out to play. Life is so hard. I should be skeptical. It won't be so hard to give birth. She added that a child is also a burden, and it is best not to have children. I don't want to say anything when I hear this. I am surprised!
We strolled around the shopping center. When we saw the massage chair, I suggested sitting on it for a while, but she refused. She walked very fast and felt impatient, which was not the feeling of shopping at all. There are bumper cars in the mall. I said that children like to play this, and she said that she also wants to play, but she is an adult. I think she can sit and play with the children. She said that she didn't like children and only liked to play bumper cars alone. I feel a little tired after walking for about ten minutes. She suggested drinking milk tea. My mobile phone should search the nearby tea shop. She said she knew where it was. Then I followed her from the third floor to the first floor of the mall. She walked very fast and refused to let go. I think if I am slow, I can't keep up with her. She seems impatient. When we came to the tea shop, we all ordered a cup of milk tea and drank it. She said that she likes shopping and asked me what I like to do. I said I like to go to some scenic spots. Then I said some places. I didn't expect that she was familiar with these places, and she had been there before. Not long after drinking milk tea, she suggested going to eat and got up and went out of the milk tea shop. I quickly paid the bill and followed out. If I slow down, I can't keep up.
On the third floor, she found herself a restaurant for cooking, and then said to me, "It's my treat this time. Last time you all invited me to eat." Say that finish, she revealed a seemingly sly smile. I refused on the spot. How can a woman pay the bill? Then she found a seat, and she chose a seat by the window, where she had a good view of the square outside. The waiter brought the menu and I asked her to order first. She ordered a hot and sour shredded potato and a preserved egg with green pepper, and then she asked me to order it. I wanted to order a beer duck. She said it was too greasy, so I ordered a casserole, Mapo tofu and a seasonal vegetable. I talked to her. She said that her sister and brother-in-law were separated, and her sister took care of three children at home. Life is so hard that she feels there is no future. Children are a burden. I immediately refuted her and said that it is still necessary to have children. Eyebrows are straight and inclined upward without any bending. I asked her, and she said that she was so impatient that her eyebrows were like this. When the food was served, we all drank milk tea, so we hardly ate anything. She ate some hot and sour shredded potatoes and preserved eggs, and I ate some mapo tofu. I have been chatting in the middle, talking about some things in life and work. Almost all the primary schools in which she works are female teachers, with only one male teacher. She said that she worked hard and her salary was low. She is too busy to go out to play every day ... When it comes to paying the bill, she offered to pay the bill and smiled, but the smile was unnatural and thoughtful. I flatly refused, and no woman paid the bill. I paid the money decisively. I will continue to go shopping with her. She said it was too cold to go and wanted to have a rest.
It was almost seven o'clock. She asked me if I wanted to go back to Nanchang. I said I would stay in a small hotel nearby for one night and continue to accompany her tomorrow. She refused. She said she was going to play with some girlfriends tomorrow, and she had an appointment. I offered to go with her, but she strongly disagreed and asked me to go back to Nanchang. She also said that she would drive me to the railway station and told me to buy a train ticket quickly. I had no choice but to agree, so she drove me to the railway station. She seems very happy. When I arrived at the railway station, there was less than an hour before the departure time. I was in no hurry, so I chatted with her in the car. .....
At 9 o'clock in the evening, I sent her a message, saying that my time with you is very short, and I will accompany you if I have time. She replied, "It's nice to chat with you without talking about feelings, but we are only suitable to be friends" and so on ... I wonder if this blind date has been cancelled again? But the cold wind blew me cold, but my mood was worse than this cold wind, and I was extremely depressed! I don't even know what I did wrong. Maybe she really has no feelings for me, or we have no fate. I've only talked to her for a few days, and it's too exaggerated to say that I can't talk about her feelings. Aren't feelings all about getting along? I didn't understand it that night anyway! In the long run, I just seem to think that she is a very picky person emotionally. But the ending is beyond many people's guess.
On Sunday afternoon, my aunt called me and said as soon as she opened her mouth, I am such a person. I am so ignorant. I look puzzled. What is this?
She went on to say, how can you buy rotten bananas for that girl? And the walnuts are rotten, and the jackfruit you bought is rotten!
I said, "No, how is that possible? Everything you buy is good! "
Aunt also said that all the girls complained to her mother that you bought her some garbage, and the restaurant ordered some cheap dishes, but there were no meat dishes. She likes hot pot, but you didn't take her. She wants to eat durian, but you don't want to buy it. Your boy is too ignorant. Her mother told the matchmaker that you were not sensible. .....
When people sit at home, disaster falls from the sky! In my heart, 10 thousand alpacas ran amok, so I immediately questioned her on WeChat. She also said that she didn't complain, she just reported the situation to her mother, and then she said, we are not suitable and have different lifestyles! Then I pretended not to reply to the message! What is this reflection! This is obviously nonsense. Who will buy some garbage on a blind date? Isn't that what fools do? Good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles, and my reputation is gone Ten miles and eight townships said that I bought rotten bananas for girls on a blind date and ordered some cheap dishes for dinner!
When she struggled to pay the bill, there were traces of her sly smile. If I let her pay the bill, I will have one more crime, that is, this man's blind date actually let the woman pay for dinner, but he ran away, and I couldn't wash myself off by jumping into the Yellow River! I really have mixed feelings when I think of her saying that children are a burden. This woman is 32 years old and still single. Of course, there is a reason. In her circle of friends, there are many photos taken with her girlfriends. If she gets married and has children, she won't have time to go sightseeing!
I read a blind date story. The blind date man told the blind date woman that he would treat her well for a lifetime. The blind date girl said a word, you find someone to marry! This makes people speechless. Blind date is not about finding someone to marry. What is this? Do you want the Goddess Chang'e flying to the moon? People who don't understand think this woman's brain is abnormal! I don't think so. The woman didn't say a word, that is, I want to find Gao Fushuai Diamond Male! Ordinary men can't touch these women even if they give everything they have. They are just clowns in their eyes!
Let's talk about it Send goose feathers a thousand miles away, and the ceremony is light and affectionate! I am warm and sincere, not to mention earth-shattering, at least worthy of my heart! The cold wind only made my body tremble, but her cold words chilled me! Good intentions are not rewarded, and the wicked complain first and throw dirty water on me. This is all my fault, so let me bear it alone! Now people are still very at ease and happy! There is something to say in person, which is emotionally inappropriate. We can only be friends! Tell me that bananas are rotten, walnuts are inferior, and the dishes ordered in the restaurant are all cheap! But didn't she order those dishes? Even if we do everything, others will not only be ungrateful, but also slander you in turn, treating what you say as scum, and the wicked will complain first and ruin your reputation! Always said that children are a burden. Those housewives take care of their children at home all day. Life is boring. Of course, it's fun to have time to travel with their girlfriends! If you don't appreciate what others have done for you, forget it. Why do you have to fight back?
I spent more than 700 yuan before and after this blind date. Not to mention how important money is, at least we are full of sincerity and have a clear conscience. As a result, people poured dirty water on us! Later, I learned from menstruation's mother that this blind date wanted me to hurry back, but the woman kept urging us to find her. It rained and was freezing in those days. It's really not a good opportunity to meet. We spent a lot of money going there without giving gifts or eating. You can't ignore this sincerity, can you? If she really thinks it's inappropriate, she can bring it up when we first meet, right? But she didn't say it directly, but she kept picking on me. First of all, she lied that I had another girlfriend and that I wanted to be duplicitous. Later, she said that I talked too deliberately. Then after five or six days, I said it was emotionally inappropriate, and then I threw dirty water behind my back and said that I bought him garbage, which also damaged my reputation! Nothing but fear that others will say that she is too picky. If she wants to escape marriage, she will blame all the mistakes on men. How can a fairy make a mistake? This is more disgusting than eating flies. This kind of person can talk nonsense, even if she says that children are a burden. What kind of person is she?
Some leftover women came up on a blind date and asked directly, "Is there a room? Do you have a car? What's your salary? " Although you are greedy for money, you are straightforward, do not drag your feet, and do not waste other people's time and money. What about greed? What if I'm with the second generation of children? Hard to say!
It is circulated on the Internet that some young girls want to marry rich people, and they want luxury cars and mansions at home, a lot of nannies and servants, and babysitters to serve them. They only care about sightseeing and shopping on weekdays ... the internet honestly doesn't bully me! The headmaster of a training institution criticized these people and was badly scolded, so he had to apologize! Is he really wrong? I don't think so!