Marriage is not up to you. You need to discuss with your parents and wait for their parents to review before deciding whether to get married.

However, marriage is not a decision of parents, nor is it a way for parents to make profits. I have to say that many parents take their daughters' marriage for profit.

Fate can sometimes make people very helpless, and life is unhappy in nine cases out of ten. In life, apart from the difficulties of career, marriage is not easy, and there are even many difficulties waiting for us ahead.

Especially when marriage is decided by parents and you have to give up love for money and benefits, no one will understand that helplessness.

When my friend Yu Qin and her husband got married, they had a house and a car, but none of them belonged to her husband's family. It is because my elder sister-in-law married a rich husband that my husband's family lived a good life.

Yu Qin said that before meeting her husband, her sister had been attracted by a rich man introduced by her mother-in-law. This man is ten years older than his elder sister when he gets married for the second time, and his elder sister certainly doesn't agree. Besides, the elder sister-in-law already has a boyfriend, who is her college classmate. They have been talking for three years.

This man's conditions are average, but his work is on the rise. They plan to get married after two years of steady work. When the mother-in-law knows, she won't agree with the elder sister to find a poor boy with nothing. I have been preventing my sister from seeing her boyfriend. My sister doesn't want to break up with her boyfriend, and she doesn't want to marry a second-time rich man.

But helpless, she couldn't resist her mother's entreaties. In the end, I can only compromise and marry a man I don't like. Husbands are worthless to sisters, and marriage is obviously two of a kind's. In the end, you have to sacrifice love and marry someone you don't like.

When the eldest sister got married, her mother-in-law asked the man for a sky-high bride price, and her mother-in-law family lived a good life from then on. My husband has a house and a car at a young age, and my mother-in-law is happy all day, but my sister lives a dark life in her husband's house.

Yu Qin said that when they got married, she saw her sister look pale at the wedding and asked her what was wrong, but she didn't say anything.

Later, she learned about her elder sister from her husband. She knew that elder sister-in-law must have a hard time at her husband's house. Because after she got married, she seldom saw her sister go back to her parents' house, and they didn't contact each other often.

One weekend, Yu Qin and her husband went to see her aunt. Her home is luxurious, but it is cold, which makes people feel warm.

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While eating, they met the so-called brother-in-law, who was very polite to them. But the wife who turned her back looked impatient. He lost his temper with his wife regardless of the presence of his brother and sister-in-law.

Yu Qin's husband was angry. He shouted at his brother-in-law, "Why do you bully my sister?" As we all know, the person who spends money is the uncle, and the brother-in-law directly said, "Your whole family depends on me."

Yu Qin's husband turned blue with anger, and he couldn't refute it, because his brother-in-law was right, that is, the house and car they are living in now are given by others.

Yuqin is very clever. She said that a man like her elder sister's husband, who brings him a high hat, makes him feel face-saving, and naturally won't bother anyone.

However, the elder sister-in-law is a soft child and can't say anything nice. She always keeps a straight face. I guess men don't like her either, so they always lose their temper with her.

Yu Qin was afraid that her sister would be wronged again after they left, so she told her brother-in-law that her husband was going on a business trip these two days and wanted her sister to accompany her.

Unexpectedly, the man agreed to let his sister go with her. Although I am impatient, I just don't seem to like my sister. But as long as my sister can leave for a period of time, she will be less wronged for a few days.

Sister-in-law took her brother and sister-in-law home. Husband Yu Qin said that she could not divorce her husband. Don't let her mother-in-law know that if she is really divorced, her mother-in-law can't do anything about it. But the elder sister-in-law said that their family had received too many things from her husband and would return them after the divorce.

Yu Qin's husband said no, so he sold the house and car and returned the money to his sister's husband. Sister-in-law said that her mother would definitely disown her daughter, and she would rather grieve herself than make her sad. In short, I don't agree to divorce. However, after living in the Qin family for a while, my elder sister-in-law looks much better.

Time always flies. Half a month later, my sister's husband came to pick her up. But this time it looks good, and it's still gentle to the elder sister. I just don't know what will happen when I go back.

Day after day, they live their own lives, and the elder sister-in-law is scolded by her husband from time to time. Fortunately, this man still has some conscience. No matter how he loses his temper, he won't start work on his wife, which also makes Yu Qin feel at ease.

Sister-in-law's son has grown up and knows how to protect his mother. Every time he stood by his mother and accused his father of doing something wrong.

Maybe at a certain age, my sister's husband won't lose his temper with her as before, and he will know that he cares about her. Maybe I've been in love for a long time After living with my sister for so many years, I still have feelings.

But my sister is very eager for her husband. By chance, she met her ex-boyfriend whom she hadn't seen for years.

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My ex-boyfriend was distressed to learn that he was not doing well. The two were originally forced to break up, and it is normal for the remaining feelings to be outstanding. However, after so many years, they all looked down on their former love. But after several private contacts, they rekindled their old feelings and betrayed their respective families.

This piece was discovered by the ex-boyfriend's wife in advance, and the woman soon came to talk to her sister. After being known by her husband, the man hit her for the first time Kick her out of the house and not let her go home.

My sister-in-law went to see her mother-in-law, who knew the ins and outs of the matter and wouldn't let her in. Sister-in-law called Yuqin, and when Yuqin went to pick her up, she saw her thin figure was very pitiful. And I am sad to think that the happy life of her and her husband was bought by her sister with her own happiness.

Yuqin took her sister in for nearly a month, during which her mother-in-law came to look for something, but Yuqin turned her back. Elder sister-in-law has been hiding in the Qin family. She can't stay at home all her life

After a month of calm, she decided to go back and apologize to her husband and get his forgiveness. Although she was afraid of her husband, she said she was wrong first and should apologize.

Making mistakes can improve a lot, and my sister and husband also know that they had gone too far with their wives a few years ago. So, they forgive each other and the husband and wife shake hands.

The marriage between Yuqin and her elder sister-in-law ended in a faithful wife. Although there is no love, marriage still stands after all kinds of destruction, which also shows that the fate of elder sister-in-law and husband is doomed.

No matter why a woman gets married, don't be a silent person in marriage. If Sister Yuqin doesn't always feel that her family has received her husband's money, she should look down on him.

Instead, I regard myself as a wife, have the right to be a wife, take a clear stand and know how to defend my family status. Maybe her husband won't lose his temper with her in the first few years after marriage.

Because from the beginning, she didn't think of herself as the hostess of the family, and she looked down on herself. How can she win the respect of others?

No matter whether she got married before or not, no matter how much bride price her family asked for when she got married. But now that you are married, you should put your mind right.

Even if you have no feelings for your husband, you should learn to be a wife and be a wife who can think for her husband. Then, I believe men are not unreasonable. As long as you treat him with heart, he won't hurt you.