There is such a custom in Northeast China. You should know that the money for your wedding should be paid by your parents. Although you two became a family after marriage, your parents became relatives and relatives because of your marriage, but they are not a family. Therefore, the wedding table is paid separately, and there is nothing wrong with the gift money.

Now that you have reached the point where Fengzi is getting married, don't think too much, especially the things that hurt your feelings. Since you decide to get married, you will live happily. Don't listen to those irrelevant people who are blindly involved and instigated. There is no need to listen to such words. After all, you will live the future, and outsiders will watch the excitement. If you live well, you may not be blessed.