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In the past, the purpose of a man looking for a wife was to find someone who could do laundry, cook and have children. Everything is based on material needs.

Now everything has changed. Men look for a wife to find someone who can accompany them for a lifetime, mostly out of spiritual needs.

Now, the definition of a happy marriage is that both men and women can understand, tolerate and support each other.

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Sister Wang is the director of the kindergarten in our community. She is 50 years old this year. Her marriage is particularly unfortunate. Last week, we had tea together. Originally, I wanted to talk about my children, but because she knew that I was engaged in emotional counseling, she talked to me about her own affairs.

Sister Wang has been divorced for 10 years and has been living alone all these years. Because it is too much trouble to take care of the kindergarten wholeheartedly, I have never found the other half. I talked a lot with Sister Wang. I sorted it out and expressed it in combination with her own experience.

Sister Wang said: In her opinion, these three types of women are hard to be happy.

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Sister Wang said: Once, she was totally devoted to that man, regardless of return. At that time, Sister Wang also felt that her husband was very grateful to herself, but later, Sister Wang was disappointed, because her husband not only did not appreciate his efforts, but also criticized and attacked.

After the divorce, Sister Wang realized that it is a good thing to pay for her lover, but it is not good to pay too much, because when a woman pays far more than her return, she will be more dissatisfied and think that she has paid so much, and men should pay more, but men have not paid, so she hates men.

2. Better than men anywhere.

Sister Wang said: At that time, because her husband always ignored her input, Sister Wang changed. She became strong and unwilling to pay for men. She moved out by herself, started her own business, became self-sufficient and made a lot of money. At that time, her husband was afraid to speak. At first, Sister Wang really felt relaxed, but time was running out and she still felt lonely.

And since he came out, his husband has become more and more strange to himself. It was not long before they divorced. Later, Sister Wang learned that the ultimate reason for their divorce was that she was stronger than her husband at that time, and her husband could not reflect his own value at all, which had nothing to do with it.

Sister Wang said: When a man can't reflect his value as a man in the family, he will leave soon.

3. I don't want to grow up after marriage.

Sister Wang said: A best friend who grew up with her married a good man, but her marriage was worse than her own. She was abandoned by a man. Because she married a very motivated man at that time, she also paid a lot for him. She is a good wife and mother. The only difference is that she didn't keep pace with men.

Her man has made great progress, but she can only do housework. In those years, she relied too much on that man and lost her ability to work, so the gap between them became wider and wider. Later, she couldn't even speak. So on such a day, they divorced and the man abandoned her. Although she was given a lot of money, she was very sad. She only blames herself for being too dependent on this man and not growing up.

Later, she learned that it is best not to rely on anyone but herself.

Summary of conclusions:

With the advice of a 50-year-old middle-aged elder sister, these three kinds of women are hard to be happy!