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Black or white, linear thinking, subjective extremes, not understanding that the world is sometimes jumping and diverse.

Good people may do bad things and bad people may do good things. Human nature is complicated.

There are often some "angry youths" around us who "take evil as the enemy". They can't tolerate any sand in their eyes, are extreme and subjective, and like to argue about right and wrong and distinguish right from wrong.

In fact, no one is perfect, and everyone has some shortcomings. Some things are not right or wrong in themselves, but one sees things from different angles.

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Of course, I regret it and feel that I must have it. ...

Some people often dwell on a decision in the past. I thought it would be the best if I made another choice at that time, and then I fell into a long-term regret.

In fact, the result of every decision may be influenced by various factors such as environment, luck and ability.

Your present situation is not necessarily the worst. You may not have succeeded, but you have grown up and will do better next time. Therefore, instead of always regretting the past, it is better to live in the present every day.

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Take "knowledge" as "knowledge"

Why does everyone understand that life is still a mess? Many times we make a huge mistake, that is, we mistake "knowing" for "understanding" or "knowing". Internalization makes no sense, in fact, you don't really understand.

Everyone knows that the easiest way is to study hard, but why do only a few people really implement it? In fact, most people just knew it at first. Only after entering the society, they have suffered enough without culture. I saw that my classmates had already earned millions of dollars a year, but after seeing the prosperity and colorful life possibilities of big cities, they could not have them because of their ability problems. I believe you will regret it now, so you have the feeling that you hate less when you use books.

So is the stock market. Countless predecessors have told you to be cautious, operate semi-positions and invest slowly. You say you know everything, but 90% people still make mistakes in the same place. Do you really understand these truths? No, you just know, you just know.

The reason is easy to understand, and those ancestors can recite it. But to truly understand and internalize into your own bones, you often have to pay a great price. Therefore, if we look at a few excellent people around us, we can really internalize these valuable truths into our own actions at a very young age. We have to say that this is the greatest talent that people have been ignoring.

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Passive dependence, like to complain, often pushed by things and others.

Habit is affirmed by others, even actions need encouragement from others, and someone always needs to push behind.

In fact, if you even need others to push you behind your back to make money and work hard, it is doomed to be a mediocre life.

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Short-sighted, too much attention to short-term interests, local details, while ignoring the overall situation, to generalize.

I lost the whole forest because of a tree. Just staring at the small profits in front of you, ignoring your own growth.

Many people will get used to staring at a local point. For example, judging people by their actions and results blindly defines the whole person.

In fact, if we really want to see a person clearly, we need to observe him from multiple dimensions and angles, analyze him from his background and think about him from the historical dimension.

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Learned helplessness was frustrated by a failure and a similar situation.

Such people often regard temporary failure as permanent failure and dare not try again.

In our life, we may face many storms, which will be a clear sky in Wan Li. Failure is also a part of success. In the process of action, don't pay too much attention to a certain result and forget that you have been moving towards the goal.

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Finding "phenomena" means finding problems, and "finding problems" means solving problems.

Many newcomers in the workplace, even many professionals, can't get rid of this problem. I can always hear people around me complain that the company's external product delivery is always backward and too rubbish! It seems that I feel very insightful and can fight Kun in the first world war. In fact, who doesn't know this phenomenon? Nobody is blind! The question is, can you solve it?

However! Most importantly, many times what we find is not a problem, but a phenomenon at best. The problem can be solved in theory, but the phenomenon itself cannot be solved until the problem behind it is proved! Just like when you go to the hospital and say you have a headache, the doctor will definitely let you have a comprehensive examination first, and then give you a diagnosis. Headache is just a phenomenon. Maybe you were beaten, maybe you drank too much yesterday, maybe you caught a cold. Pointing out a phenomenon itself is of little value unless you can solve it.

The company's product delivery schedule can't keep up. It may be that the strength of the logistics company is not strong, it may also be an export control problem, and it is more likely that the supplier's capacity is insufficient. Maybe you are like a hammer, with few orders and low priority in suppliers. Perhaps it is also the result of many reasons. Many people found a phenomenon and shouted there, as if they had found a pile of treasures. I don't know what you found is just a phenomenon, and even the problems behind it are not thoroughly analyzed.

Of course, even if problems are found, they are of little use. Solving the problem is the key. After all, the boss pays for the problems you solve.

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The pursuit of quick success and instant benefit, too obsessed with methods and skills, while ignoring their own accumulation.

Excessive pursuit of skills, but ignoring the strategic thinking, ignoring time, ignoring precipitation, always pursuing shortcuts, pursuing quick success.

Having a method doesn't mean that you don't have to work hard. You still need to make efforts. Don't take knowing as doing, "Oh, I know this" or "Well, I know that", and then do it, only to find that the result is completely different from what I expected.

Just like many netizens read recipes and cook: when they look at the plenary session, it will all be abolished. What we have learned must be constantly practiced and internalized in order to become our own ability.

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Formalism, doing things only pays attention to the surface, and is diligent and self-conscious with "fake".

It only pays attention to the process of hard work, not the result. Formalism seems to have taken a lot of time, but in fact it has not produced much.

I was moved by myself: "Oh, I studied for three hours today". In fact, I spent two hours brushing my mobile phone.

On the one hand, we need to pay attention to the method of doing things, on the other hand, we need to make a summary after the action and constantly improve our skills.

Without reflection and summary, there is no result, and it is meaningless to pay more. Others will only pay attention to your final achievement, not your efforts.