Although many old people talk well and help to take care of their children, they always haggle over every ounce in their lives, relying on their age everywhere and complaining that their daughters-in-law can do nothing. It is too difficult for the daughter-in-law. Even if the time is too long in the future, most of the daughter-in-law will have a "monthly revenge".
After all, during confinement, my health is still very poor, I can't even sleep at night, and my mood fluctuates greatly. My husband's family should give my daughter-in-law more understanding and don't care too much.
Pay attention to the feelings of the daughter-in-law
Most old people are happy every time they see a child born. In ordinary life, I can't help spending most of my time and energy taking care of my children, but I have neglected many daughters-in-law.
In fact, women who have just given birth will be more sensitive. If they see that their in-laws always ignore themselves, it is easy for them to think that they are just tools for giving birth to babies.
This negative emotion is not only detrimental to the recovery of maternal body, but also affects family harmony. Therefore, it is suggested that in normal life, the husband's family must pay more attention to the maternal feelings and take care of them as much as possible.
In fact, people's hearts are all flesh. If the mother-in-law is willing to pay more attention to her daughter-in-law during confinement and let her have a relaxed and happy confinement, I believe the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be handled very well in the future.
When she first got married, it is no exaggeration to say that Wang Ning used more heart for her mother-in-law than her biological parents, but every time she was hot-faced and cold-ass, the better she was, the more she wanted to humiliate her.
For the sake of her husband, Wang Ning has been patient again and again, always feeling that there is no need to make things difficult for the elderly, thinking that when they have children, she and her mother-in-law will have a blood relationship and become a real family.
However, after she listened to her mother-in-law and gave birth to her son naturally, she still failed to enter her mother-in-law's eyes. Even in confinement, the mother-in-law made her kneel down because the child cried too loudly.
Chilling was not built in a day. From marriage to having children, Wang Ning has always regarded her mother-in-law as her family, but her mother-in-law has always regarded her as her enemy. After confinement, she finally understood that they can only be enemies in this life.
So her mother-in-law didn't go to see her when she was ill. Even if her husband stayed at her bedside all night and she lost several pounds, she didn't take the lead. In the face of her husband's question, "How many years ago, do you still remember?" She smiled and couldn't help but help him remember the events of that year from beginning to end. Looking at her husband's guilty and haggard face, she sighed, stopped talking, and turned to the kitchen to make nutritious meals for him.
That's all she can do. Her love can only be given to her lover. She will never forget her mother-in-law's revenge in her life.
Many men don't understand that the hatred of the moon hurts women deeply and forever. You know, in the 30 days when their hearts are extremely fragile, their inner sensitivity will let them see all the changes in the world. At this time, women's eyes are equipped with indifference filters and anxiety filters, and all kinds of small things will be infinitely magnified in their eyes.
Only by understanding and caring more about them in this period can we go further together on the road of life.
Although the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to solve since ancient times, once you enter the house, you are a family. Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are women. As the saying goes, why do women embarrass women? After all, my mother-in-law was also passed on by my daughter-in-law. She has experienced the pain of giving birth and the fatigue of taking care of children, and knows how unforgettable the revenge will be in the next month. Now that you have experienced it, you should take good care of your daughter-in-law and don't let her be too chilling. Although there is no responsibility and obligation to take care of and support the mother-in-law, don't hurt the family's mutual affection.
Old people will relax a little, and their children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. Don't forget to torture his wife in the second month. Finally, not only the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should be separated, but also their sons. You know, people are mutual, no matter what the cause is, no matter what the result is, don't spend the rest of your life accusing others of cruelty.