1, find the reason, why are you confused?
Calm down and reflect on yourself first. Where does the confusion come from? Is it feelings? Still working? Or is life not fun? Only by finding the reason can we find the corresponding method.
2. List the reasons and break them down one by one.
First of all, don't look at all the reasons together, which will only make you more confused and complicated, and it is difficult to clear your mind. We can only cut the gordian knot.
If you are emotional, then seriously think about the problems behind your feelings. Are you not active enough or are you too demanding? If it is a work problem, then summarize and reflect. How does this job make you feel? Low salary? Lack of fun? Difficult to get along with colleagues? No motivation?
Don't look at it in general, summarize it one by one, and then think about the pros and cons. If you really feel that you are not attractive enough, don't muddle along and change jobs, because it will destroy your body, mind and life. Without goals and directions, you will be confused.
3. Find your own interests in life.
Everyone has his own hobbies and interests. You can think about what you like best. If there is really no one or two, start from your own specialties and find people with common interests. This will not only build up your self-confidence, but also find all the people who resonate with the same frequency. With common topics and common pursuits, life will be rich and colorful. ?
4. Overcome inferiority complex.
Confusion about the future is largely due to the inferiority complex from the bottom of my heart. Inferiority is a feeling that everyone has. Don't exaggerate, face up to it and overcome it. Believe that no matter who you are, you are unique in the world. Everyone has shortcomings and everyone has advantages. The key is to find your own advantages and recognize yourself.
5. Make life more quality.
A low-quality life will only give up on itself every day, and you should learn to constantly improve your quality of life.
How to improve the quality of life is to continue to study hard and let yourself grow. Meet people at a higher level. Different horizons, different minds, and naturally different views on the future.
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