The first is the mother's pet, maternal love, doting and distressed. As the saying goes, cherish the fragrance and cherish the jade, and the purpose of maternal love is naturally: fear that children will suffer and be bullied. Protection is more than education, and children who have become adult men are spoiled, become lazy, lazy and mediocre, and then gradually deteriorate. In fact, the mother finally realized that it was her love that spoiled the child.
Secondly, the wife's pet is a kind of love, which is concerned, encouraged and praised. Its purpose is to make his man brave in hardship, set sail, be aggressive, work hard and make progress. No wife wants to spoil her husband as a bad guy and a loser.
Thirdly, female pets among relatives and friends can be divided into two categories in terms of use. One is praise, care, love and help, so as to grow into talents in exchange for their love and respect for themselves. Of course, this kind of pet is still necessary. One kind is a pet with ulterior motives and impure purposes, or favors men for their ulterior motives. In this way, some women will try their best to seduce men by hook or by crook, and gradually make men go bad and become hopeless!
In short, will men be spoiled by women? The answer is no, what I fear most in love is not who dotes on who has more things, but what many people disdain to express. As everyone knows, many feelings have regrets only because of some misunderstandings, unclear facts and faint sadness.