When dealing with this family tragedy, everyone's situation and needs are different, and there is no fixed solution. Here are some considerations to help you make a decision:
1. Your mother's wishes and health status: It may be a good idea if your mother is willing to travel for fun and physical conditions permit. However, if she is unwilling or unwell, then you need to respect her feelings and needs.
2. Your family status and support network: You need to consider your family status and support network. If your father is the main source of income for the family, then you may need to consider the financial situation of the family and how to maintain a normal life. At the same time, you may need to discuss and support with other family members or friends in order to take better care of your mother.
3. Purpose and arrangement of travel: If you decide to travel, you need to consider the purpose and arrangement of travel. You can choose a destination that can make your mother relax and happy, and arrange your itinerary and accommodation properly. At the same time, you need to consider safety issues to ensure that there are no dangers or accidents during the trip.
In short, if you decide to travel for fun, please ensure your mother's health and safety. At the same time, please pay attention to your physical and mental health and seek appropriate support and help.