What would you do if you found out? What do you want others to do if they find out?
Ling called last night, and as soon as she got through, she heard her weak voice say, colleagues are eating today, and I am simply depressed to death by a colleague!
The leaders of Aling Department organized a dinner party for everyone. Halfway through the meal, my colleague Xiao Chen suddenly pointed to a dish, which was almost finished. He cried, alas, there is a bug in this dish. That's disgusting. Look!
While talking, I am afraid that everyone will not see it. I poked a bug with chopsticks, and then asked everyone: What should I do? This dish is almost finished, and now eating a bug is disgusting. It depends on how the waiter handles it!
A Ling said that everyone's face, including herself, was the same as the palette, and then asked how it would feel if it were me. What would I do if I saw a bug?
I don't know if I handled it well, but I know that if a dish is almost finished and someone suddenly tells me that there are bugs in it, I must be in a bad mood, or I can stand the bugs at first, but I have to finish it bit by bit. Isn't it disgusting that you told me there was a bug?
I'd rather not know, so at least it won't cause psychological discomfort.
Yes, I would rather deceive myself than be "disgusted" at this time.
Then I told Ling an incident when I was having dinner with a group of friends two years ago.
At that time, my friend Z invited a table of people to the party for his birthday. In the middle of eating, there was a dish and a half. I just held out my chopsticks and saw a side dish bug floating inside. My first reaction was to look at everyone, and then I quickly took some dishes to bring the bugs out and wrapped them in paper towels.
My best friend Taozi sat next to me and looked at me inexplicably. I pulled her and motioned to go out. After I went out, I opened the paper towel and showed it to her. Peaches are blue in the face.
When I asked her how to deal with it, I said that I didn't say it on the spot because I felt that if I ate almost everything and someone suddenly told me that there were bugs in the dish, I would definitely feel queasy. I would rather others didn't say it.
We discussed it later and decided not to tell you about it. We went to the waiter in private and asked each other how to deal with it.
We are not unreasonable people. If you are just starting to eat, you will definitely not want this dish, and you may even give each other a small discount. But now that the food is almost finished, and the price of a dish is not high, I want the other party to give the food a discount.
The restaurant is not very big, the boss is also receiving guests, and the waiter soon brought the boss. After we told him the request, the boss was very moved, thought we were really good, and said that they were not doing well and would give us a discount when checking out.
Because I didn't want everyone to know, I told my boss not to talk about it when I checked out, saying that there were discounts on activities in the store, and the boss agreed happily.
Up to now, I don't know if I can handle this matter by myself. Some people may think it's bad to keep it from others, but it's the most appropriate way for me to put myself in others' shoes.
I grew up in the countryside with my grandmother. To tell the truth, although there are few bugs in the dish, there are definitely some. Eating at home is one thing, eating out is another.
Eating out is mostly for convenience and atmosphere. I believe that no one wants to eat out and see bad things, which directly affects their mood.
At home, it's different. You can see it when you see it. Either don't eat or endure. After all, it is not good to offend people who cook!
Have you ever met a similar situation? Or do you have a better way to handle it? Welcome to share, let me increase my knowledge quickly ~