Many times, the baby's unintentional mistakes will bring a lot of trouble to parents and will be questioned by others. At this time, parents must learn to handle it properly and calmly. If children really make mistakes, they should take the initiative to apologize, admit the punishment, and then educate them well. If a child accidentally makes a mistake, educate and protect the child at the same time. Not long ago, my colleague's four-year-old child forgot to pay for snacks in the supermarket and was fined ten times by the supermarket staff. Ma Bao's practice also won everyone's praise.
Because of a family reunion, my colleague Xiao Ye also took her children to the supermarket last week. When checking out, she was also found to have a pack of snacks in her clothes that she didn't pay for. The clerk thought that the child was intentional and asked his colleagues to pay ten times the money.
Xiao Ye, a colleague, is also defending, bluntly saying that because the child is young, he forgot to take snacks, which is definitely not intentional. Only when I called up the monitoring did I know that because I bought too many things, the bag of snacks was taken away as soon as I entered the door and left in my pocket. This is not the child's intention.
Later, the clerk and Xiao Ye apologized to each other, and the matter was settled smoothly. People around him also praised Xiao Ye's approach. He was calm and supercilious when he was in trouble. Only in this way can the problem be solved perfectly and amicably.
In fact, this incident is not accidental. In many families, it is easy for children to go to the supermarket, take things without knowing it and forget to pay. In order to avoid similar embarrassing situations, parents should do these things well.
1, ideological education
Because children are still young, their awareness of rules and laws is relatively weak. Parents should tell their children what can't be touched after entering the supermarket and what can't be put in their pockets when it's unnecessary. Let children know the consequences of punishment and let them establish a sense of rules.
Some supermarkets have tasting areas, which can be tasted in free goods, but children should know that only tasting areas can do this, and other goods can't.
Second, form a habit
Parents can't condone tolerance. Once a child is found to have the habit of stealing, he should be educated immediately and dealt with seriously so that the child will not commit it again. If left unchecked, children will develop the habit of stealing, which will be difficult to correct later. A colleague likes to take advantage of others because he didn't pay attention when he was a child. He always steals from the company, which makes people look down upon him and has bad interpersonal relationship.
Therefore, for the healthy growth of children in the future, we must cultivate them from an early age, don't let them covet petty advantages, improve their emotional intelligence and make them more sensible.
Then, if the child accidentally crosses the thunder pool, how should parents patiently educate?
1, gentle education
When a child makes a mistake for the first time, don't be too strict. Be patient and educate. Look the child in the eye and tell him that he is wrong, which will make people laugh. When the child feels ashamed, it won't happen next time.
Second, learn to share.
For children, let them learn to share and learn selfless dedication, so that children will form a good habit and will be more willing to share than possess.
Third, establish rules.
When children are older, they can make rules to let them know the majesty of law and the importance of morality. You can't take other people's things without their permission. The same is true at home. Ask parents before taking things, so that children have rules.
As a treasure mother, I think educating children is a long and hard work, which can't be completed at once, so when children make mistakes, they should tell them what they did wrong and then give them some punishment. Simply beating and cursing will certainly not help, and the child will secretly commit another crime next time. Therefore, we should be self-centered, let the children know the seriousness of the problem, fundamentally realize their mistakes, try to be gentle, and let the children realize their mistakes. If a child wants a dress, let him save money to buy it himself, so that he will cherish it more and won't steal it again. I wonder how your child is?