Nowadays, many people don't work hard, their families are poor and they don't make progress, but they often complain that their parents are incompetent and can't create better conditions for themselves. But different parents have different abilities, and some parents have limited abilities. They have really tried their best, but they still can't meet the children's requirements. But this is simply an excuse for not trying. Parents have no choice. Their lives can be changed through their own efforts, and even a perfect counterattack can be achieved to bring happiness to their parents with their own skills.

Tan Chun in A Dream of Red Mansions is a typical girl born with defects, but her daughter is self-reliant, develops her skills and leads a wonderful life.

In ancient times, there was a great difference between ordinary people and humble people. Tanchun is an ordinary woman whose biological mother is Aunt Zhao. She is extremely unreliable, vulgar and ignorant. She plays jokes from time to time, and even the maids laugh at her. As an ordinary woman, Tanchun, as a mother, should be as passive, inferior and cowardly as Yingchun, but Tanchun is just the opposite, but she is full of vitality. She is not only beautiful in life, but also talented and has a sense of reform hundreds of years ahead of her time. As a lady in the boudoir, she is well aware of the disadvantages in the Grand View Garden. When Xifeng was seriously ill, Mrs. Wang entrusted her.

Whenever I see this passage, my body and mind are full of excitement. I was born in a poor family when I was a child. Before I 12, I could eat steamed bread for a few days and pickles every day for 360 days a year, so that people now return to eating coarse grains, which is healthier. I hate to see yellow corn flour steamed bread. Since 1982 implemented the rural contract responsibility system, earth-shaking changes have taken place immediately. The life of farmers has changed a lot, and rice and flour are eaten casually. That's called happiness. I am deeply grateful and admired for the reform, which has changed the lives of farmers. However, the reform measures of beach pure in Daguan Garden hundreds of years ago have the same effect as the later responsibility system.

Exploring spring in the beautiful and talented Grand View Garden is like a strange scenery, shining brightly. Bright flowers, people only marvel at its current brightness, how do you know that it is soaked with tears of struggle and blood rain of sacrifice?

The success of Tanchun is not accidental, but the result of unremitting efforts. Tanchun's poems are not as good as those of Daiyu Baochai, but they are also thoughtful and written, and must have been honed by hard study and writing; Tanchun's ci is unique in the Grand View Garden and stands proudly among the people. When she was in Yuan Chun, because of her good handwriting, she was entrusted with an important task to help the imperial concubine copy poems. Tanchun's residence is spacious and simple, but all kinds of pens on the case are dazzling, which sets off her calligrapher's demeanor and implies Tanchun's diligence in practicing calligraphy.

The edge of the sword comes from sharpening, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from bitter cold. Born in a bad family, parents can't give themselves superior material conditions. As long as they work hard and make persistent efforts, it is not a dream to counterattack fate.

Those who are still complaining about their parents' incompetence all day should learn to explore the spring!

Birth is only the beginning, but not the end. Life is not a 100-meter sprint, but a long marathon. What does it matter if the starting point is almost the same? It's a long way, it depends on whether you work hard or not!

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