Arguing is like cooking:

Don’t doubt the nature of marriage or even each other’s feelings just because you have a quarrel, and quarrel without leaving any trace of the most perfect relationship; You must know that quarrels are to a marriage what salt is to a dish. The dish needs salt—and so does the marriage.

The more they quarrel, the closer they become, and the more they quarrel, the sweeter they become. As the saying goes, if enemies never get together, they will fight until they grow old. Of course, the quantity must be controlled. Too salty or too bland will ruin the taste of life. A quarrel recipe for my husband:

Boiled Intestine ★★★★★

This is a famous dish in Sichuan cuisine. It is spicy, numb, stimulating, and has a long aftertaste. Known to stimulate all the way from the tongue to the stomach. This is a heavyweight dish, and it is not a matter of principle. Use it with caution!

Example:

My husband went on more than two separate dates with his female secretary. Stayed awake more than twice a month. Using your vacation or car money to secretly speculate in futures is a serious mistake.

Analysis:

This is the time to use this dish and "fry" it with thunderous momentum, without hesitation to fill the sky with smoke. All kinds of heavy-weight accusations and accusations can be used as material to let him know that your soft intestines are as heartbroken and "broken" as this severed large intestine. Till he sheds tears and sweats.

Operational taboos:

The heat and seasonings must be controlled well, and you should stop eating when you are ready. Do not chase after the enemy. The purpose is to make him realize his mistake instead of knocking him to the ground.

Fish bones with distiller’s grains★★★★★

This is a strange dish that originated from the smart fisherman housewives on the seaside. It is a typical southern dish, to be precise, it is a typical Ningxia dish. style dishes. The remaining fish bones from making shredded fish noodles are marinated with the lees produced by wine making, and the two "wastes" are kneaded together to create a delicacy with a rich taste and long aftertaste that men will never forget. When family life faces the most embarrassing but difficult to avoid emotional crisis, this strong dish must be served to tighten the men's bones and prevent them from forgetting their roots.

Example:

A popular excuse among men is that their wife’s legs are just like their own, and they don’t feel anything to the touch, but separating from their wives is like cutting off their own legs. When men think of this excuse, it means that a yellow light is on in marriage. This is a dangerous excuse, which means that men are obsessed with touching other people's legs - but they are afraid of taking action because of the majesty and attachment to their first wives, or they are already ready to do it.

Analysis:

Regard the long monotony of family life as a fish bone, regard the numbness that is too familiar between husband and wife as a wine trough, rub the two together, and use the wisdom of a housewife to become a "waste" "As a treasure, he used careful tenderness and unquestionable sovereignty to make them into fish bones with distiller's grains - a pure family dish that he grew up with. He couldn't eat it in restaurants, and his lover wouldn't cook it for him. It's as natural as folding white shirts for him every day, yet so irreplaceable. Eat out his awakening, eat out his remorse, eat up his face with sweat, and rein in the precipice.

Operation taboos:

Hometown flavor is unforgettable, but the occasion must be distinguished. The side dish is kind but cannot entertain guests. The purpose of cleaning up your husband is not to show your majesty. There is no need to make a fool of him in front of others. The purpose of cooking this dish is to awaken his memory of love, not to force him to bow his head.

Jumbo Cup ★★★

This dish is a little trick played by housewives. They make a simple dish very complicated and give it a fancy name. To put it bluntly, this is a chicken soup. Put half of a small rooster in a fine clay pot, add two small sections of sweet corn, two authentic old taro heads, two slices of old pumpkin, and two flower mushrooms. Simmer slowly for an hour, then serve with a piece of green lettuce. God, there is nothing more touching than this. Just like the tears of his wife when she first fell in love, it makes a man deeply emotional.

Example:

Men joked that their wives were "yellow-faced women".

He begins to feel that you cannot keep up with the situation and do not understand fashion and beauty. He starts teasing you about your taste in underwear, complimenting other female co-workers’ outfits, etc.

Analysis:

At this time, it is time to use the treasure cup of this gentle offensive. Life can be lived very plainly, or it can be lived very exquisitely and interestingly. It all depends on how much effort you use to manage it. When your husband starts to evaluate you in this way, your wife should first reflect on herself. Instead of fighting with him and arguing with him, it is better to take good care of yourself as carefully as you make this delicious soup. For example, go to the beauty salon two days a month, remember to watch all new movies with LG, etc. These are just like the taro and sweet corn added to the dish. Rough housewives think they are dispensable, but careful housewives know that with these, ordinary chicken soup immediately becomes full of brilliance and delicate, making people feel distressed.

Operation taboos:

Too much is not enough. Although the seasonings are more refined, don’t put peppercorns or anything like that into the chicken soup. The flirting must be in the field that you are good at. The important thing is to let him see your efforts and painstaking efforts, rather than showing off your sense and grasp of fashion.