Relatives also need to contact feelings, especially wives and children. If they live together every day, their feelings will not be alienated.
You are not at home, and everything at home is supported by your wife. She works hard. She adapted to your absence for so many years and became? Strong woman? You are not at home, and she and the children are doing well. Now that you are back, you should give your wife a rest. You should communicate with your children more and get back the lost affection.
You have been working hard for your family. You are separated from your family, wife and children. Now that you are retired, you should lead a normal life and integrate into your family as soon as possible.
My suggestions are as follows:
1. Learn to cook
Get up early every day and learn to buy food and cook. If you can't cook, ask someone else for advice or buy a recipe. Learn all the meals that my wife and children like and cook them.
Don't be angry with them.
You are far away from their mother all the year round and know little about each other's personalities. Your personalities also need some time to get used to. Don't get angry if you see something that makes you uncomfortable. Communicate with them patiently, support them and urge them to correct their mistakes slowly.
There is already a gap, and it will be more difficult to maintain the family atmosphere if you lose your temper and quarrel again.
3. Have time to chat with children.
For so many years, you have been away from home, missed the growth process of your child, know little about your child, and lack tacit understanding with your child.
Talking is the easiest way to get to know each other. You can tell your children what you have seen, worked and learned over the years, so that they can know more about you, know a lot of things he doesn't know, deal with people, build trust with children and enhance the relationship between father and son.
4. Take the children to buy new clothes
For so many years, you have been living outside your family and paying little attention to your children. Now I have time to take my children to buy some handsome clothes. Children will be very happy when they wear beautiful clothes, and their feelings with you will go further.
5. Pay more attention to your wife
Pay more attention to your wife in life and let her know her husband's happiness at home, for example: get up early and let her sleep for a while, and you make breakfast; Wives should take the initiative to participate in housework; Take everything about your wife to heart.
After so many years, maybe you are used to living alone. Now when you go home, you should find your place in time, feel the warmth of your family and make your family happy and relaxed.
Don't treat yourself as an outsider, but integrate into it as soon as possible. Although you are also very hard, you are much harder than your wife. Cultivating feelings requires true feelings. As long as you love them and want to be with them, you should put down your posture, be a good wife and mother, and be a father of children, and the family atmosphere will get better and better.