The blind date man is eager to determine the relationship. There are many single men and women of school age who go on blind dates, but there are also many blind date men who are very anxious to confirm their relationship. There is a reason for this. Next, I will take you to understand the relationship that blind date men are eager to determine.
Blind date men are anxious to determine the relationship 1 In the final analysis, boys are anxious to get married. If you don't hate each other, boys generally want to get married early, which is also the pressure from family. But girls are different. After all, if you marry someone else's house, you will definitely have a lot of concerns.
Many people think that blind date is just to get married, and time and money are precious. Of course, the sooner you decide, the better. Therefore, there will be a situation when dating, that is, the man confessed prematurely and got engaged after meeting once or twice, and the woman was scared away.
Why can't girls accept men's premature confession? The first pair of boys are not very satisfied with their looks and have no strong attraction. The second pair of girls are vulnerable groups. They think too much and believe that the length of time can judge a person's sincerity. The third kind thinks that a man who likes others casually is too superficial and impatient.
Another reason is that women need men's efforts to be recognized by each other.
Boys don't think so much. Men think they can be together, but they don't like it. You can say that men are lazy. It can also be said that the current relationship is more like a transaction. Men don't want to pay a lot of material to win women's love.
Now many people are still very old-fashioned, thinking that they can be together as long as they look pleasing to the eye. But young people don't think so Blind date is just a way to get to know the opposite sex, and it doesn't mean to get married in a hurry.
How long a blind date is suitable for establishing a relationship depends on how you feel about each other. The first feeling of two people's blind date is really important, although it is somewhat untrue.
When dating, many people will think that the attitude of boys is too anxious. In fact, this is also related to how much they pay. Because boys spend money on blind dates, they want to spend less time, so they are anxious to determine the relationship.
The blind date man is eager to confirm the relationship. 2 What if the blind date is eager to confirm the relationship?
If you have made a choice, think it over and think that you are suitable for each other, then you can promise each other. But if you feel that you need to think it over carefully and are in a hurry, you can clearly tell the other party that you need to know more and politely refuse. But when you refuse, you'd better put forward your own ideas instead of refusing blindly, and give the other party a little expression, such as what you need to know more and what you need.
The correct and appropriate relationship should be that both sides are prepared to face and work together, rather than unilaterally determining the relationship. A random choice may be regretted in the end, so you must be careful when making a decision.
After the blind date confirmed the relationship, there was no contact.
In this case, you can contact each other for a period of time. After a period of time, if the other party still does not take the initiative to contact, you can contact the other party directly to try to communicate.
In a relationship, both sides should pay and gain, not one side blindly. Pay, and one party enjoys blindly, then you can first think about whether you have never taken the initiative to let the other party bear too much pressure. You can try to take the initiative to contact for a while first, and maybe the feeling of love will come back. But if the other party is still in this state after taking the initiative to contact, you can contact the other party directly to try to communicate and ask him why, why. If it is not suitable, separate as soon as possible, and neither side will cause losses.
The blind date man is eager to determine the relationship 3. How good is the blind date man?
1, considerate and meticulous blind date man
Girls like considerate boys, especially boys who are far away from family and parents, and are more sensitive to boys' concern. Girls like careful boys because they can easily find the same topic as girls. Thoughtfulness doesn't just ask you to send a bunch of flowers on her birthday, but to accompany her on her birthday; Don't ask you to do anything for her, but make her feel safe.
2. A knowledgeable blind date
Girls generally like and appreciate boys who are more knowledgeable than themselves, which stems from the primitive worship of women. This will make them want to know you more and get close to you. So improve yourself, make efforts to become knowledgeable and constantly enrich yourself. Rich knowledge can also set off your erudite side, and also leave people with a feeling of loving learning, making progress and having ideals, which is also a necessary condition for Sunshine Boy.
3. A blind date with a sense of responsibility and family care.
Sense of responsibility is one of the basic qualities of mature men, and girls will pay more attention to it. A responsible man is often very connotative, well-educated, has a good tutor, and has a good personality and can be trusted. Have a sense of responsibility for the collective and work now, and will have a sense of responsibility for the family in the future.
4. A witty, humorous and enthusiastic blind date.
Girls like humorous people, which will make her feel relaxed mentally. For example, from time to time, there are some unexpected behaviors that make her mind flash sparks, and a few tricks can surprise her with gifts. Or you have a great activity plan to make her appreciate your cleverness. Whether it's a group activity or a separate activity of the two of you, she must think that you are really "talented" and will leave her with two unforgettable personal stories, so that she will always be immersed in your thoughts.
Reliable performance of blind date men
1, will send you home safely. Think about whether your's relationship can last after the date, and whether you are the one who can accompany her to the end. It is estimated that a safe person will definitely want to drive you or call you home. This is just a polite expression, but it shows that this person is also a person who can be faithful to life. This cannot be ruled out at any time.
2. See if the other party has made some preparations in advance at the appointed place and time. A person who really wants to get along with you will definitely go to the meeting first and keep everything in order. Such a person will feel at ease when you are with each other in the future, and can always plan ahead. You will definitely feel happier with each other.
How to see the character of a blind date man?
1, depending on the location chosen by the other party.
The location of the blind date doesn't need to be too high-end, but it can't be one of those cheap food stalls or something. Choosing a boy in this place is, in the final analysis, a deduction. You can choose such a casual place for such an important thing as meeting for the first time, so don't continue.
2, fidgeting when dating, eyes wandering.
Such a boy is either insincere or belongs to the kind of person who can't calm down. To put it bluntly, you are either not interested in you or a person who can't even control his own behavior. Girls should also think carefully.
3. Favorite sports
Men who like running, swimming and other solo sports like independence, which means that they are often alone. Men who like team sports such as football, basketball, baseball, etc. like to compete, whether on the sports field or in all aspects of life, and like to compete with people around them anytime and anywhere.
4. His way of communication
It is very important for two people to get along and communicate. If you are a talkative person who completely ignores the feelings of the audience, you are generally a person who usually has no chance to express his views loudly, and the reliability of his speech is generally not high. If it involves material conditions, it is generally not credible.
5. His driving habits
If he often drives in traffic jams, or follows the car in front of him and gloats at the driver in front of him, Dr. Leon James, a psychologist at the University of Hawaii and author of "Road Arguments and Angry Driving", said: "Obviously, he has impulsive problems." Although being competitive will make him stand out in his work, this guy is hard to get along with others. "
6. Hotel orders
Before two people formally start eating, ordering food can reflect a person's personality.
If you decide the menu without authorization when ordering, it shows that this person is a certain degree of male chauvinism and can be said to be a certain self. If he asks about your taste, but decides the menu because it is not good for your health, it means that he will take care of you but is very controlling.
How to tell a good man on a blind date?
1. People who smile when they speak. This type of man is kind-hearted, easy-going and good at communicating with others. Self-confident, good acting skills, not easy to fall into love difficulties.
2. People who speak loudly. This type of man has a strong self-esteem. He works hard for his career and love.
3. People who always keep calm. In the process of conversation and interaction, the other party has always remained calm, reflecting that he is more reliable and has certain cultural literacy.
4. People with exaggerated behaviors and postures. When speaking, the other person has many gestures and exaggerated behaviors. Such people are more approachable and sincere in heart.
Dialogue is a person who often closes his eyes. This type of man is smarter. He often closes his eyes because he can think, think twice and speak carefully. Generally speaking, they will be more honest, and they will do what they say. If they can't do it, they will not easily promise others. This trustworthy person.
6. Easy-going people. Speak slowly and gently. Such people are kind and approachable at heart. Falling in love with this kind of person is sometimes boring, but it is very long, and it is a flowing type.