Daya likes to argue with blossoming in everything, but fortunately, her mother-in-law can bear it, and she has always supported blossoming without bullying with Daya, but in this way, Daya is even more angry. One thing, I especially admire Zhang Duoduo, whether Fang stole her clothes, or stole her lipstick, or even provoked her relationship with Li Dabao. In the face of Daya's intentional mischief, Duoduo never took it to heart.
When some women are bullied, even if they don't show it on their faces, they always hide this hatred in their hearts, so the seeds of hatred are slowly planted. Once there is trouble in the future, quarreling between aunts is only a matter of minutes. Duoduo is not only angry, but also generous. She regards Xiaoya as her sister and always thinks about her husband's family when something happens. It was because of her efforts that Daya finally accepted and recognized her.
Getting along with others is subtle. When you know how to think of others, you will understand their difficulties and your mood will become more open-minded. In this way, the relationship between them will become more harmonious. It is said that it is difficult for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to live in harmony since ancient times. Mainly, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are a family. When they are in trouble together, they will unanimously reject foreign daughter-in-law. Therefore, if you want to have a good relationship with your sister-in-law, either your mother-in-law has to be reasonable or your sister-in-law has to be a person who can handle it clearly.
Last Spring Festival, He Fang's sister-in-law, Zhao Yanzi, took three children back to her family for the Spring Festival. He Fang didn't look dissatisfied like other sisters-in-law. She is very distressed by this newly divorced woman, who is alone with three children. Perhaps because she is a woman and has children of her own, she can understand Stefanie Zhao's difficulties. Facing Zhao Yanzi, who was carrying a big bag and looked uneasy, He Fang said: This is your home. You can stay as long as you want. In a word, Zhao Yanzi was moved by her mother-in-law to praise He Fang for being sensible.
Some people may say that Zhao Yanzi has returned to her family. Why should she look at her sister-in-law's face? But in fact, this house was bought by He Fang before marriage, and the name belongs to her alone. He Fang has the right to speak completely. No wonder Zhao Yanzi has been watching her sister-in-law's face carefully since she came. Seeing her sister-in-law's smiling face, she dared to take a step. After all, she came to them this time.
There is a saying, "Why do women embarrass women?" Both people in the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are women, but because no one can understand who, the contradiction has been going on. Try to change the angle and turn the enemy into a comrade-in-arms. Maybe the relationship will be improved. Many people are struggling with how to improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the relationship between aunt and sister-in-law. In fact, when you try to put yourself in the other person's shoes, you may gradually understand their initial intentions.
He Fang understands Zhao Yan because she understands that she is not easy. After only five years of marriage, her husband left in a car accident, leaving her and three children. Because my husband hit someone with his car, the only house in the family also lost to the other family. Zhao Yanzi suddenly became a man with nothing. He Fang treats Stefanie Zhao with a warm heart, and behind this warm heart is actually understanding. She understands Stefanie Zhao's difficulties and her difficulties, so as a sister-in-law, she feels that she should help her, not abandon her, and should try to accept her, not drive her away.
Many people consider themselves first when facing problems. Selfishness is human nature, but people who are too selfish are actually not likable. Sometimes, let go of the knot properly and give others a chance to show it. Maybe you will find that some people are not what you think, and some relationships are not as difficult as the legend. If you want a good relationship, you must first learn to give, not always take. That's what people do. When your contribution is received by the other party, she will also give you feedback, and this is good interaction, which is a thousand times better than malicious slander.
What is affection? Personally, I think that a relationship that can understand each other and understand tolerance, especially when it is difficult, is called affection. Some people say that affection is indifferent, and it is useless to have more brothers and sisters. It's best to have some good friends. In fact, what is really indifferent is not family, but people's hearts. Some people also want to form gangs among their relatives, and they are particularly enthusiastic about those who get along well, but they love to take care of those poor relatives who have no money.
Once we have a hierarchy of kinship, the value of kinship in your eyes will be devalued. Some people say that a person's greatness lies in understanding the ordinary beginning of his parents. I want to say that a person's greatness lies in understanding the difficult start of family. It's not easy to understand, but it needs mutual tolerance and understanding. There is no relationship that does not need to be managed. Even family ties need our time and energy, and we also need mutual tolerance and understanding.