1. Choose location: You can choose to meet at home, restaurant, hotel or cafe.

2, pay attention to etiquette: parents of both sides should respect each other, be polite to others, and do not appear impolite behavior or words.

3. Talking about topics: You can talk about homeliness, the marriage of both children, wedding hotels, wedding dates and other topics, but don't directly mention sensitive topics such as bride price and dowry.

4. Pay attention to attitude: Both parents should maintain a positive attitude and don't have negative emotions or attitudes, so as not to affect their children's feelings. In short, it is an important link for parents to meet before engagement, which requires the joint efforts of both families to achieve a harmonious and happy atmosphere and lay a good foundation for their children's marriage.