When a man goes to his wife’s house to bid farewell to the New Year, it means that when the Chinese New Year is approaching, the man goes to his parents-in-law’s house to visit and give gifts. This is also to enhance the relationship between the two families.

Men must know the rules when visiting the house

1. Pay attention to clothing and appearance: clothing must be appropriate and appropriate, and appearance must be clean and tidy.

2. Don’t go empty-handed: When you go to the woman’s house to propose marriage, don’t forget to bring some small gifts. This is a kind of courtesy and respect for the elders. Although they may say you're welcome, they will be very happy in their hearts.

3. Smiling: Never have a frown on your face, show your sincerity and smile. This will add a lot of points to your score.

4. Show respect: Show respect to the woman’s requests or opinions as much as possible, and handle them in accordance with their regulations. Otherwise, if there is a disagreement, the atmosphere on the spot will be tense and it will be bad.

5. Arrive for your appointment on time: Never be late. If it is due to traffic jams or other force majeure factors, be sure to call immediately to inform you that you will arrive a little later.

Ten good ways to reduce the stress of married life. I hope that in the current high-pressure life, couples can create a warm situation by changing some habits:

1. Put your spouse Put it first

This is a vital principle and an important key to reducing stress. Do your best to ask yourself to put your spouse first.

2. Recreation together

Whether it is watching movies, walking, dining, traveling... traveling together is fun and promotes a close connection between two people.

3. Plan a common schedule

Couples cannot only have time to get together during meals. Your relationship should take precedence over other priorities or time slots. Sit down and plan some quality time for each other and learn to put some things on the back burner.

4. Learn to give in to each other

Don’t always insist on your own opinions, but learn to let go. Respect each other's views and methods, remind yourself what is most important, and keep things simple so that both parties can have more enjoyable exchanges.

5. ***Participate in caring and giving

Complete kitchen work together, ***Participate in social service work together, and care for those in need together. Both sides join the ranks to expand their horizons.

6. Communicate with respect

Misunderstandings are the cause of relationship tension. Maintain frequent interactions with your spouse and always act in a loving and kind manner.

7. Tell the truth

“When what you say is the truth, you don’t have to remember what you said last time.” People who tell the truth have a great influence on interpersonal relationships. There is less stress faced in the relationship.

8. Have more physical contact

Physical contact is one of the effective ways to relieve stress. Watching TV together, hugging, holding hands for a walk, holding each other's hand from time to time... these are all expressions of emotion and can reduce stress in married life.

9. Affirmation and Encouragement

Smart teachers all know that to stimulate students’ potential, let students develop their strengths and not always focus on their weaknesses. . Acknowledge your spouse's strengths and encourage them to use their gifts. Criticism only leads to increased stress.

10. Financially within your means

Money problems are often a source of stress in married life. Couples should deal with this issue openly and honestly and take preventive measures. When it comes to household financial expenditures, we sometimes find that some of the things we purchased unknowingly have increased the financial burden on the family. If there is a burden, there will be pressure.