After being married for a long time, the novelty was erased by daily necessities, and the rigid and boring life of three meals a day also made people lose their former passion. 40-odd years old is the key stage of the old and the young, but sometimes you can give yourself some time and space, let the husband and wife get along alone, see the outside world, and find love when you are young. Second, you can give each other some small surprises every once in a while.
It's not that middle-aged people don't want surprises, but it's hard to ask for surprises, because they will feel that they are over half a year old and will make people laugh. But if you can take some time to surprise each other from time to time, life will be better. For example, you can prepare a candlelight dinner for each other, or send a bunch of roses, which won't cost much and can be felt when you care about each other. Third, pay more attention to some small details of life.
Love is often reflected in the details. I saw a video before, it was a couple who had been married for a long time. The man feels that life is not fun and wants a divorce, while the woman asks the man to give himself a period of time and ask him to give himself a hug before going out every day. Over time, the man regained the feeling of love and finally chose not to divorce. Ordinary people's marriages are the same, and they need these considerate details.
So, in fact, we are all over forty years old and should not talk about love. Without love, how can we talk about the harmony of husband and wife's life? We just make do.