It is reported that Heilongjiang 12-year-old boy died two hours after being beaten by his biological father. It can be said that it makes people very angry. What's the matter? Let's take a look together.
What happened. The boy's family is a reorganized family, and his mother is his stepmother. The reason why the father beat the child violently is because the stepmother found the boy stealing the mobile phone and then told the father. After the father knew it, he thought of the child stealing money before, so he should teach the child a lesson and not let him go out to do something harmful to society and become a scum above society. So he picked up the data cable of the mobile phone and the wire of the rice cooker and beat the child for two hours. In the process of teaching children, the pregnant stepmother also tried to stop it, but there was no result. After the beating, the child was found to be abnormal and sent to the hospital. The child was found dead. At present, the father of the child has been controlled by the police.
I believe many people will ask him why he laid such a heavy hand on his son.
I have a bad temper and can't control myself. In fact, for this matter, I just want to teach my child a lesson and let him know that he is wrong. But when I was teaching him, I was angry at the thought of his affairs because of my bad temper, so I thought about his affairs more and more, so I didn't control my strength and didn't have a general process in my heart. I just wanted to teach him a lesson, so I said he was so cruel this time. Actually, it wasn't intentional. It is very likely that I didn't control my strength and behavior when I was teaching each other a lesson, which led to the final tragedy.
In fact, in this matter, the child's stepmother is also jointly and severally liable. Although the child was caught stealing the mobile phone, can she not know what kind of person the father is? Knowing the child's father's temper and telling him about it, we can see that she still has some thoughts of watching the fun.
Never change after repeated instruction. What makes the father most angry is actually because of his persistent teaching. For a father, the child's conduct is not correct, and it is not the first time to commit such a thing. He has committed the same thing many times and refused to change his teaching, so the child's father chose to teach him a lesson immediately, let him know his mistake, and let him not do similar things and do immoral things in his later life.
But this is a well-meaning lesson, but it has become something that I regret for the rest of my life and lose my own son forever. How can a boy of 12 years old stand being beaten by adults for nearly 2 hours? When the child's father realized that he had laid a heavy hand on him, he found that the child was frightened. At this time, the husband and wife realized how serious they were doing and immediately sent their children to the hospital. However, because of the injury, the child died because he could not be rescued.
This incident can actually reflect that there are great problems in the education of many people today. In rural areas, many families still advocate stick education. If the child is a little disobedient, he will fight until he is forced to admit his mistake, or thinks that he has already played almost. This kind of education can be said to be harmful.
Sticky education will do indelible harm to children's psychology. According to the analysis of children's psychological counselors, hitting children often will cause irreparable and serious consequences for children. Children who are often beaten will have some bad mentality and psychological deviation. They will choose to lie because they want to avoid being beaten, and often a child's lying is easy for parents to see. When parents see through it, they will carry out what they think of education. As a result, a vicious circle can be imagined.
Moreover, many parents will feel regret after hitting their children, so they choose to touch the pain of their children. But because of this, the child may feel puzzled at first, but later, after meeting more times, he feels used to it, so he will gradually become moody because of the influence of his parents in his later life.