From campus to wedding dress, they have been together for 9 years.

In 2004, Huang Lei and Sun Li ended their long-distance love run and entered the marriage hall.

18 After the marriage, the two loved each other as always. Some media asked them what is the secret of keeping fresh for many years?

Huang Lei said, "There are no secrets. I wake up every day and feel that I love her more. "

Sun Li also said, "He has never changed. He has always been a young man of literature and art. He used to regard his career as literature and art, and now he regards our life as literature and art. "

197 1 Huang Lei was born in an ordinary family in Wuchang, Jiangxi, and his father was an actor in Jiangxi Theatre. It's a pity that my father has been groping in the theater for many years, but he didn't mix up any tricks, so he pinned all his hopes on his son Huang Lei.

Fortunately, Huang Lei is a very talented child. At the age of 6, Huang Lei dressed up as a little girl and appeared in the first drama "Sweet Career".

Huang Lei's vivid performance on the stage showed his father the seeds of hope, so he encouraged Huang Lei to learn acting, but Huang Lei was a famous troublemaker at that time and never listened to his father's arrangement.

In senior three, Huang Lei suddenly wanted to be a director. His father was very happy to hear the news, but unfortunately he failed that year, so his father encouraged him to continue studying for the exam.

The following year, Huang Lei was admitted to the Performance Department of the Beijing Film Academy, and this time, the father who wanted to turn his son into a dragon finally got his wish.

In college, Huang Lei starred in Chen Kaige's song film "Walking and Singing". With no acting experience, he made his first film with trepidation under the guidance of Chen Kaige.

From 65438 to 0995, Huang Lei successfully obtained the graduate admission notice from Nortel. After graduating from 65438 to 0997, he began to stay in school as a teacher.

Just then, Huang Lei met a girl in the entrance examination of Nortel. The girl was fascinated by Huang Lei. He remembered Shen Congwen's words to Jiang Yang, "In Me Before You, I don't want to get married; After meeting you, I didn't consider others when I got married. "

This is Huang Lei's first feeling about Sun Li.

Freshman finally started school. Huang Lei found Sun Li's class for the first time and made a fierce pursuit of her, but Sun Li didn't want to fall in love at this moment.

However, Huang Lei is not a person who will give up easily. Even if Huang Lei is filming in the crew, he should contact Sun Li during the break. Every time he comes back from filming in other places, he will bring a small gift to Sun Li and write a letter every week to tell his love.

This kind of love offensive is very useful for Sun Li, who is ignorant and young. Not surprisingly, Sun Li agreed to Huang Lei's pursuit.

Although Sun Li agreed to Huang Lei's pursuit, Huang Lei still wanted to give Sun a complete confession process, so he asked Sun Li out for dinner at the weekend.

After dinner, they decided to go to the movies. This is a love movie. At the moment when the hero and heroine were about to kiss, Huang Lei whispered in Sun Li's ear, "Would you like to be my girlfriend?"

At first, Sun Li was surprised by Huang Lei's sudden approach. When Huang Lei said this, she saw the expectation in Huang Lei's eyes, so she said, "I do, of course I do!"

In this way, they formally confirmed their relationship. Sun Li 18 years old, Huang Lei is 24 years old.

When Sun Li is in class after falling in love, Huang Lei will wait for Sun Li under the dormitory every day, and then take her to the teaching building by bike.

When it's cold in winter, Huang Lei puts a cushion on her seat for fear that Sun Li will catch cold. In the face of Huang Lei such careful little affectations, Sun Li felt very warm.

At that time, both of them were very sought-after figures on campus, but Huang Lei saw Sun Li's kindness in everyone's eyes, and naturally there were blessings around him.

Later, Sun Li also said in public: "He (Huang Lei) has always been a very careful person, like this at school, and has always been like this after marriage."

Because of signing a contract with Fenghua Records Company, Huang Lei soon released his first album "Singing while Walking", which immediately caused great repercussions.

Because Huang Lei had long hair and a melancholy breath, when the record came out, it received rave reviews, and Huang Lei became a handsome boy on campus.

In the following year, Huang Lei pursued her victory and released her second record "I think I am the sea". Sun Li was also pulled by Huang Lei to be a guest MV.

Because of the popularity of the album, Huang Lei has gradually become a literary youth in people's eyes. With this temperament, Huang Lei ushered in the most important test in her love life with Sun Li.

1999, graduated from Sun Li University. After graduation, I signed a contract with the Tang people and embarked on the road of beauty in ancient costumes. Huang Lei also encountered a large-scale emotional entanglement in the drama April Day on Earth in the Republic of China, in which he played Xu Zhimo, with Zhou Xun, Rene Liu,.

It may be that the love-hate entanglement in everyone's play is too deep and intense, so the relationship between Huang Lei and Rene Liu outside the play has become a mystery. As soon as the two young artists meet, the topic can't be finished, so Huang Lei and Rene Liu have the best relationship in the cast.

He even said that Rene Liu knew him best. Gossip was not absent at this time, and everyone speculated about the relationship between Huang Lei and Rene Liu.

And Sun Li is filming in the crew at this time, and he has mixed feelings when he hears the gossip of people in the same crew and himself. She just wanted to fly to Huang Lei at once and ask him what was going on.

Later, when asked by Sun Li, Huang Lei only said that they were good friends, but they often talked in the cast. Sun Li's personality prevented her from doing anything crazy, so she didn't pursue it.

In 200 1 year, Huang Lei continued to shoot TV series such as Wait, Wait, Orange is Red, and then Huang Lei became really famous.

In 2003, Huang Lei wrote, directed and acted in the TV series "Past Events Like Smoke", with Rene Liu as the heroine and himself as the hero.

In the face of his own scandal, Huang Lei did not avoid suspicion, saying that "the image of the heroine should be like Rene Liu in my imagination, so I will not find someone else to play the heroine."

At that time, the media once again pushed Huang Lei and Rene Liu to the forefront of public opinion. At this time, Sun Li was also miserable, so he began to frequently ask about the relationship between Huang Lei and Rene Liu.

Finally, perhaps out of consideration for Sun Li, Huang Lei said to the outside world: "Rene Liu and I are not in love, but our feelings are quite special."

Rene Liu also said at the concert: "How can a good man like Huang Lei want to be a boyfriend?"

The response of the two finally ended the scandal that was not an affair.

In 2004, Huang Lei and Sun Li got married after a long-distance running. Because both sides were busy at that time, they didn't have time for the wedding. Huang Lei told Sun Li that they would make up for it later.

In 2006, Sun Li gave birth to many daughters for Huang Lei, and then she became a housewife wholeheartedly.

At that time, Sun Li was also a very sought-after actress in the Tang Dynasty, and her development momentum was very good. Leaders and senior officials also attached great importance to her, but for the sake of Huang Lei, she returned to her family without hesitation.

Huang Lei knows that being a full-time mother is not easier than working outside the home, so she will cook some dishes that Sun Li likes to eat after going home, and say a few thoughtful words to Sun Li after dinner.

Sun Li will also pour Huang a cup of hot tea when he is addicted to script writing. For Sun Li, this warmth to each other is the best reward for this marriage.

In those years, Huang Lei's acting career was smooth sailing, and all kinds of love with Sun Li made others envy him. At this time, Sun Li basically had no job, just followed Huang Lei to visit the Peach Blossom Garden.

Just when they were madly in love, an unexpected news once again attracted the public's attention, that is, when Alyssa Chia divorced her ex-husband, her ex-husband broke the ambiguous information about Alyssa Chia and Huang Lei.

The news shocked four people, but Huang Lei was not surprised. In the face of the media, there is only one sentence: "I only met her (Alyssa Chia) when filming, and we never contacted each other after filming. Before such news came out, she and her husband were crazy. "

People here no longer believe in Huang Lei's so-called "literary youth".

However, Sun Li said, "He has never changed. He used to treat his career as literature and art, but now he treats our life as literature and art, and he is still him. "

Around 20 1 1, in order to solve the middle-aged crisis, Huang Lei began to transform into a family drama. After filming Men's Gang, Couples and I Love Men's Best Friend, Huang Lei's literary flavor disappeared, but some fireworks came out.

20 13 Hunan satellite TV reality show "where is dad going?" entered everyone's sight. 20 14 Huang Lei takes her daughter to participate in the second season of "Where is Dad?".

As soon as the program was broadcast, Huang Lei became the focus of discussion, because in the program, Huang Lei always patiently taught her daughter all kinds of questions.

Any child's task is always encouraged to complete it by himself. He said it would enhance her independence and initiative.

Through this program, Huang Lei also formally established the image of a "good father".

And Huang Lei is still considerate and gentle to Sun Li for ten years. In his spare time, Huang Lei will invite one or two friends to catch up and have tea at home. This kind of life, for many people, is not a "yearning life".

Whether there are guests at home or not, as long as Huang Lei is at home, cooking must be his job. It's not that Sun Li doesn't want to cook, but that Huang Lei doesn't want Sun Li to cook, so some people say they envy Sun Li for having such a good husband who doesn't have to cook at home.

Huang Lei explained, "People always envy Sun Li for being happy without cooking. In fact, I am the happiest person because she has paid too much for this family. "

Huang Lei is very considerate of Sun Li's hard work as a stay-at-home wife, so she is busy taking care of the children when she gets home. On the one hand, this can increase the distance between him and his children, on the other hand, it can also reduce Sun Li's burden. After all, marriage is a matter for two people.

20 14 is the 20th wedding anniversary of Huang Lei and Sun Li. They made up the wedding photos they didn't take when they got married. There are traces of years on the faces of both people in the photo, which makes the photo more precious.

Because this is not just a few photos, but two people's companies and years in the past 20 years are concentrated in this small square inch.

In Huang Lei's letter to Sun Li, he wrote: "We have been together for 20 years, and we live an ordinary life. Make up a complete story without ups and downs. If it is a play, it should not be wonderful, but I want to live a wonderful life with you. "

From 20 14 to 20 17, Sun Li gave birth to a daughter and a son for Huang Lei one after another. At this point, Huang Lei's children finally had a "good" word.

In recent years, Huang Lei participated in Hunan Satellite TV's life reality show "The Life I Want". In the first episode of the third season, Sun Li visited the mushroom house.

Knowing that his wife was coming to the mushroom house, Huang Lei began to look forward to it early in the morning. When Sun Li finally arrived, Huang Lei was so happy that he hugged Sun Li happily.

Sun Li saw that Huang Lei was so busy sweating for cooking for everyone that he couldn't eat any more after cooking. He said to him with distress, "Don't cook again when you go home."

But Huang Lei refused. When she was busy eating, she heard Sun Li say that the food was delicious and asked her to go home and cook it for her.

In this regard, He Jiong also said: "Sun Li has seen Huang Lei's cooking for more than 20 years, and now his eyes are still full of appreciation."

How can I fall in love with someone for decades? Once, the protagonist in a movie said, "I wake up every day and fall in love with a brand-new her, which is different from her yesterday."

Living a chaotic life with relish may be the first condition for Huang Lei and Sun Li to keep each other fresh on 18.