1, attractive but important. Smart women will not only be good to men, but also to themselves, so that they will always be at their best. A man is proud of his woman. Remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. As long as you think she is beautiful, she is beautiful. It is very important to respect this. Your partner should respect you. In public and in front of family and friends, you won't feel ashamed. What's the problem? Wait until it's private. If she respects you, she will behave appropriately on most occasions. 3. There is no control. Don't be with people who force you to give up your favorite. A good partner will recognize the differences between men and women's preferences and make you comfortable to be yourself. 4. She makes you better. A great woman or wife will make her husband better. Of course, she doesn't need to say it. If one day you feel that the way you treat your family has improved and your financial ability has improved, think about the driving force of these changes, which may be love. 5. Independence No man wants to be a woman's nanny. If you just lean on his shoulder when you are sad, he will be willing; But if you can't do anything without him, it will make him want to run away. How to make your lover love you more? 2. Always gentle as water. No man can escape from a woman's gentle arms. But don't just be gentle. When he is well, you must tell him what you have recently, or what you need recently, and ask at this moment. In this way, men will never refuse. Tell him you want to eat ice cream ... but you should also remember to go to his study to pour him a cup of hot tea and send him a bowl of noodles and a poached egg when he works overtime. This is more effective than any housework you do. There are some good dishes for him to learn. I'm not talking about ordinary food here. You don't have to make tomato and egg soup, but you must make braised pork that your husband likes. You don't need to cook delicacies, but you must cook some home-cooked dishes that your husband likes. In this way, when he goes out, he will say that this is not as good as my wife's, and he will want to come back to you as soon as possible, that is, the way you learn recipes, and he will remember you. The passion for beauty is eternal. Ugliness has nothing to do with beauty, but you should accompany him as a beautiful woman. Remember that no matter how old you are, you should dress yourself in front of the mirror, and you should know the rules of dressing and his style of dressing. You should pay more attention to your pajamas and underwear, because the coat is for others, and pajamas and underwear are for your husband! How to make your lover love you more? 3 1. I don't believe in asking a series of questions all the time, asking where he is, who he is with, or reading his mobile phone messages all the time. Men hate suspicious girlfriends, and these pressures will only make him feel more bored. However, if you find yourself cheated again and again and can't always trust him, then stay away from him! A man who can't be honest with you is definitely not the only thrill for you. Try to trust him! Long-term distrust will only make love fall into crisis. 2. Humor writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "A sense of humor is the harmony of men, so women with a sense of humor are especially rare." Because it is rare, men especially cherish lovely women with a little humor, and a sense of humor can bring different interests to your life. Of course, it may take some skill, even a little practice, but as long as you don't take it too seriously and try to play some stupid jokes with him, he will definitely feel your charming humor! 3. Honesty If he asks you what's wrong, tell him honestly and let him know your thoughts and needs, instead of hanging him aside and guessing what the answer is. Being honest with each other will affect each other. If you keep holding back on him, he will gradually lose confidence in you. Honesty can create perfect love, so speak up bravely! 4. Try to communicate and reduce blame. Don't always use your mother's tone to say that he is wrong and find fault with him. Nagging will only make your relationship worse and worse. Most importantly, he will never accept it. This is just a waste of your time and saliva. Maybe you can change your tone and words to let him know how you feel and find the tacit understanding between you.