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When it comes to senior three, the first thing we think of is busyness and nervousness. After studying hard for ten years, parents and children hope to study hard in the last year and get into their favorite universities.
When children are nervous, emotions will be contagious, and parents will be busy and nervous. Parents with high school babies must feel the same way.
I always feel that the college entrance examination is far away from my children, as if it were someone else's business. But time flies, in a blink of an eye, my child is also a senior three student, and the day of the college entrance examination is close at hand.
Looking back on every day I accompanied my children along the way, there were laughter, emotion and tears ... especially in the past two years, my life was trivial and busy, and I felt that I was in a hurry every day. Sometimes I really want to spend my time.
Since my child went to high school, I can't help her with her studies. The only thing that can help her is to do a good job in her logistics and let her devote herself to her study without worries.
In order to keep up with my children's nutrition, I have hardly bought breakfast outside in the past two years, and I have always tried my best to cook it for my children.
Wash and cook for her every day. After she is busy, sometimes she has to endure her unreasonable troubles because of the pressure of study.
In short, tired, but still willing to pay all the love for her, this may be the common feature of all mothers in the world!
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Every morning, my alarm clock sets two time periods. 5: 30 is the time for me to get up. I get up and prepare breakfast for my children. Sometimes I fry jiaozi, sometimes I cook porridge, and sometimes I cook eggs ... Every day is different. I specially prepared a breakfast incubator for her, and put it in the incubator when breakfast is ready, so that she can eat it while it is hot.
The second time period is 6.25, which is the time for me to wake up the children. Every day, I think she can sleep a little longer, even for a minute. Generally, she is told to sleep for a few more minutes and must get up at 6: 30 at the latest.
Children's washing time is only 15 minutes at most. We must lock the door at 6.45, otherwise, if we meet two red lights on the road, time will be tight. In the interval between her washing, I will help her prepare the fruits, snacks and boiled water that she will bring that day.
We haven't had breakfast at the dinner table since she went to high school. When sending her to school, sometimes she eats in the car and sometimes she is sent to school.
Under normal circumstances, we can all get to school at 6.55, which is the peak time for school. Battery cars, tricycles, cars ... are all blocked outside the school gate. Many times, the children may have gone to class when they get off the bus, and I am still stuck in the car pile …
Some turned around, some just came in from behind. I am in a dilemma and can only get stuck in the middle.
I once teased myself that the peaks I climbed in the past two years were the morning peak and the evening peak at the school gate.
I managed to squeeze out of the car, hurried home slowly and washed and cleaned up in the kitchen. I also have a pet dog at home. I want to take you for a walk to make it pee.
I must finish all this before 7: 40, or I will be late for work. I describe myself as if I were at war every morning. Everything I do is a trot, and every minute must be accurate. Otherwise, either the child is late or I am late.
A friend said that I am so busy every day that I want to give my puppy to others. Hey, I've been raising it for six years, and I can't give up. The puppy has been following us for the past two years and has little time to accompany us. I'm sorry about that.
Recently, children eat at school at noon, which also saves me a lot of things, otherwise they will be more busy in the morning.
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I have always had the habit of taking a nap, especially in the past two years. I wait for my children to sleep in after self-study every day, so I must take a nap at noon, otherwise I really can't stand it in the afternoon.
Go to the canteen to get food at noon, put it in your own thermos bucket, and then go to bed. We have more than an hour's rest at noon. I put a small collapsible bed in the office and take a nap for more than 40 minutes every day. Go to work in the afternoon, and then eat.
At night, I feel more comfortable. Occasionally, because of work needs, I will work overtime for a period of time, and the overtime time is very small, only four or five times a month at most.
On days when I don't work overtime, I will go home from work at 5 o'clock and cook my own dinner. At this time, I will prepare breakfast ingredients for the next day. When time permits, sometimes I will go to an hour of yoga class, and sometimes I will run for an hour and exercise at least four times a week, which is my requirement for myself.
Because the busier and more nervous we are, the more we should exercise. In addition, exercise can also reduce stress, and evaporating fatigue with sweat is also a good way to reduce stress.
In the evening, I will prepare some snacks in advance, and the children will come back to eat after self-study. At ten o'clock, I sent my children from home to school to pick them up. They teach themselves at 10.30. This is another rush hour, and the evening is better. They were either in a hurry or arrived home a few minutes late.
There is a quilt in the back seat of my car. Many times, I will go to school in advance at night. When the children study by themselves, the back seat becomes my temporary bed. If you don't sleep well at home, you will take a nap in the car for fear of oversleeping. I remember one time, I was probably too tired. I turned off the alarm clock when it rang. I slept until 10.45, and the children couldn't wait for me to pick her up for self-study. Then the doorman called and I woke up. From then on, I went to school early every night. If I am too sleepy, I will take a nap in the car.
Today, I came to school early again. At this time, I was sitting in the car correcting this article. There are still more than 30 minutes, and the children will teach themselves. When she got home, it was about 10.50. She can go to bed after eating snacks and washing, which is about 1 1.30. Wash her hair at night, she will be too busy to go to bed until 12.
I only sleep about five hours every night. I have lived like this for more than two years, and I seem to be used to it.
Is it bitter? Sometimes it's hard to imagine yourself spinning like a top every day. But every time I think about my children, she goes out early and comes back late every day. Dai Yue wears a star and lives a life without seeing the sky at both ends. She studies at least 16 hours every day at school, and there are no weekends in recent weeks. Compared with her, I have no right to complain!
This group of high school students is really hard!
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In the past two years, I have often felt inner contradictions. People say, "If you don't fight in senior three, you will regret it all your life." I don't want my child to regret it all his life, but I also want her to fight for it. But every time I see her become extremely negative and pessimistic because of great pressure, I feel sorry for her and don't want her to fight so hard.
Sometimes, I'd rather she didn't grow up, so I can accompany her day and night; But I clearly understand that she will eventually have her own sky and will eventually leave me for a distant place.
Worrying is never my character. Although I can't accompany her to the examination room, I will be her most loyal companion and listener at every stage of her life. I don't ask her to be the best one, but I hope she will always be the healthiest, brightest and happiest one.