You will meet who you are all your life.

People who really get along with you are equal to you, as are friendship and love.

In the emotional world, the more you give, the more you get. You have never met true love in your life, not because you are unlucky, but because you are too stingy in love. You don't have a sincere friend, not someone around you, but you are all thin and cold. Actually, you are too mean.

In dealing with people and things, smart people never complain about others, but reflect on themselves. You should believe that good popularity depends on yourself.

02

The poorer you are, the less popular you are.

As the saying goes:? If you are poor, don't make friends, but don't find relatives. ? When a person is poor, communication with others is at a disadvantage, and others will not value you or help you.

When I was a child, I lived in a ravine, 50 or 60 kilometers away from the county seat, and my annual income was less than 1000 yuan. It's more than six miles from home to the bus station in the village.

Throughout the year, there are no relatives and friends visiting at home, only neighbors come to my house occasionally. One April, I came back from school and saw my uncle at a glance. My uncle and my mother were chatting. By six o'clock in the afternoon, my uncle had no intention of going home.

In my impression, relatives visited and left in a hurry after lunch at most. They dislike my poor family, no good beds and no good dinner. They would rather stay at a familiar home near my home for one night than stay at my home.

I asked my uncle: Uncle, what do you want to do in my house this time? ?

His uncle said:? Haha, nothing, just going to the countryside in the next village and staying for one night. ?

My uncle works in the agricultural technology station in the village, and often goes to the farmland in the village to see the growth of seedlings and guide the villagers to prevent and control pests and diseases. I am surprised that he came to my house on purpose this time.

If you are poor, your relatives and friends will not like you. If you are an adult, your parents will dislike you, and your children will say you? No ability? .

If you are unpopular, ask yourself, are you too poor? Everyone lives a realistic life, preferring to squeeze around the rich rather than make friends with the poor.

03

The more you like to argue, the fewer friends you have.

Really popular people don't like to argue and are generous. Being a man, you can tolerate others and others will be friendly to you.

The afternoon before yesterday, my colleague Zhao Hua angrily questioned my colleague Lao Li. Why do you want to steal customers from me? ?

Lao Li said:? You are talking nonsense. I rob customers with you? You don't want to think about it. I have been in the company for more than ten years. Which customer I don't know? ?

Zhao Hua said? Don't play dumb. Last month, I talked with my client Liu Sheng about cooperation, and you signed the contract first. ?

In our unit, we can get a certain bonus according to the regulations by signing a contract with our customers. Zhao Hua's pursuit of Lao Li's theory is actually for the bonus.

Lao Li said:? Last month, you took more than two weeks off in a row. If I don't sign the contract with Liu Sheng in time, Liu Sheng will be left out in the cold, and maybe he won't cooperate with our company. If you are a reasonable person, you should learn to take care of the overall situation. ?

The voices of Zhao Hua and Lao Li attracted many colleagues to watch.

Seeing this, Lao Li quickly thought of a way: Tell you what, Zhao Hua, I'll give you all the bonuses of this contract. Everyone works in the same unit, so there is no need to be formal. ?

Everyone praised Lao Li's generosity, but also felt that Zhao Hua was too unreasonable. Of course, virtually, everyone is interested in alienating Zhao Hua and unwilling to associate with him.

As the saying goes:? You respect me one foot, I respect you one foot. ? If you don't respect others and can't tolerate others, you certainly don't have good popularity.

If you know how to respect others, don't care about their trivial matters, don't calculate others, and tolerate their mistakes, your popularity will be very good.

In fact, you spared others, didn't you? Let the tiger return to the mountain, and raise the tiger for disaster? It is because you give others a way out that others will appreciate you. As the saying goes:? It is human nature to make mistakes. ? Everyone makes mistakes. If you don't do something unnatural or illegal, you let others go, that is, you helped others and showed goodwill.

04

The better you are, the better your popularity will be.

If you want to meet a noble person, you must first become a noble person of others. You are willing to help others, maybe others won't appreciate you immediately, but you must keep your hobby in mind and help you when he has the ability.

People's hearts are all meat. If you are kind to others, others will not be indifferent. Smart people have been helping others all their lives, exchanging their kindness for others' kindness and amplifying the positive energy of kindness.

If you help someone, maybe others will soon forget you. If you help hundreds of people, some of them will remember you and try to give you back in the future.

In this world, there are not many people who return good for evil, but not many. You should believe that most people are still good people, grateful and polite.

If you want to meet a partner, you have to stand firm in a certain field. If you have a firm foothold in a certain field and have been struggling, someone will definitely take the initiative to seek your cooperation.

Best friends, often? Partner? . If there is an opportunity, everyone will get rich together; If you have difficulties, let's share them. If you accomplish nothing and don't make progress, no one will ask you for cooperation.

If you want to meet someone who really loves you, you must get better and better. When you are good enough, people who admire you will appear; It was the man who came to your door and met him in the dark.

Last year, my classmate Wu Huahua got married.

At the wedding, the host asked Wu Huahua: Why did you marry him? ?

Wu Huahua said: Because he likes studying recipes as much as I do. Isn't it a match made in heaven that we open a restaurant together? ?

Suddenly, everyone laughed. Although Wu Huahua's words are a little naughty, they are also reasonable. When two like-minded people are together, the future will get better and better. When two people join hands, the family will be happy.