In marriage, no one is afraid of pain. The terrible thing is to bear the pain and live up to it while giving. There is a skeleton in the cupboard. I don't know when it started. Getting married and having a new house has become the primary condition for every girl. I think: first, the sense of security given by the other party, and second, I don't want to live with my parents-in-law. In fact, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law always meet, always meet. Whether living together or not, if you want a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you should also remember these three ways of getting along.

First, mother-in-law should learn to laugh it off.

We often say to others that we are tolerant and generous, and we should do the same to ourselves. The world is a more real place, but if we want to be more real to the people close to us, then life is really tired! No matter how big the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, isn't it all for the better life of this big family? Since it is for one goal, why haggle over who gives in? Conflicts and frictions with people are inevitable, and there will also be quarrels with parents or daughters. You're family too. What contradictions can't be laughed off?

Second, the husband stepped forward to stop it.

The mother-in-law is more willing to listen to her son. We found that in many families, in fact, everything a mother-in-law does is basically according to her son's wishes. So at this time, it is necessary to convince my husband to believe these scientific things. Because the husband is a young man, he can accept what is conveyed by science more than his mother-in-law. At this time, let her husband convince her mother-in-law, so that she will not be a villain, and her mother-in-law and her husband will never turn against each other because of these words.

Third, try not to live together.

Some people say that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is only a combination based on marriage, not a blood acceptance. If she meets a strong mother-in-law, she doesn't realize that her son is married, and she still manages or even restricts her son's life as she did when she was single. I don't like my daughter-in-law's living habits, stick to my own ideas, and even ignore the privacy of young people. Getting along with each other day and night will inevitably lead to a series of contradictions. Once contradictions begin to appear, the possibility of reconciliation will be very small, and even contradictions will intensify. As a daughter-in-law, instead of facing such contradictions or enduring them all the time, it is better to keep a certain distance from her mother-in-law. On the contrary, the young couple can avoid conflicts by living alone. Therefore, living independently is not only to give yourself a complete space, but also to maintain the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Distance can produce aesthetic feeling and reduce many unnecessary contradictions.