Because during pregnancy, the whole person becomes extremely lazy and wants to do nothing but go to work. Now all of a sudden, I don't even have to go to work. I have to find something to do, enrich my life, and I won't be too anxious. I just catch up with the training of the general generation, register immediately, talk about the list during the day, recover at night, and practice the piano quickly. My life has become full and happy. I am looking forward to and nervous every day. When will the baby suddenly start? The mentality becomes very peaceful, let nature take its course, and the baby will always come when it is time to come. Before he arrives, I will do my own thing with peace of mind, so until the day when the pain begins, I am still talking about the bill.
The baby is punctual, and the due date begins. It took 34 hours from slight irregular labor pains to coming into this world. This is probably the most painful thing in life. Fortunately, it is painless to open the palace mouth to four fingers, which has become my only hope to persist. It is said that a woman can best see whether her husband loves you or not when she is most vulnerable. As it turns out, I chose the right husband. He's always with me. When I was in pain again and again, he supported me, took care of me in the delivery room, went through the formalities after giving birth, and stayed with me until I returned to the ward. After the child came back, he always took care of me, making milk powder, feeding, burping and changing diapers. I'm lying in bed feebly, and I'm really glad to see this.
In the second month, my mother took good care of me and my baby. She gets up early every day to make breakfast for me, and then helps me take care of the children. At that time, my axillary lymph nodes were swollen because of milk rising. As soon as my mother is free, she will apply it to me with a hot towel, and it will get better slowly. It is said that the moon meal is hard to swallow, and the meal my mother cooked for me is different, which not only ensures nutrition, but also makes me eat delicious. Throughout the month, as long as the baby pulls, urinates and cries, I call mom, and mom always appears at my side for the first time. In order to let me have a good rest at night, I am only responsible for breastfeeding, and my mother helps me with the rest of the baby holding and diaper changing. So, I am happy and have enough sleep to sit for the next month.
After the baby's full moon, I began to think about how to spend the remaining five months. After some ideological construction, I joined 007 and acted as the host at the opening ceremony. This ceremonial beginning made me feel the sense of participation and existence in this group, and also strengthened my goal of sticking to writing for seven years. (Actually, at the moment I joined, I thought it would be good to stick to the end of maternity leave. ) So far, the distance is 007-65438. In the past four months, I have written 34 articles with 36,000 words. From the beginning, I found it difficult to write 700 words. Now I can write more than 1000 words with ease (of course, the longer the article, the better, at least it shows that I have started to speak, my thinking is more and more agile, and my brain is no longer in a state of stagnation and rust. ), my writing is more and more inspired and relaxed.
In these four months, I took the initiative to apply for a two-month marriage. While volunteering for classes, I have exercised my club management ability and communication and coordination ability. During this period, I have established deep feelings with my comrades-in-arms, such as the monitor, Hai Ge, Li Jie, Hui, Jin Feng and Teacher Chen. Through the communication with them, I have seen different regions and different occupations, but they have the same self-discipline and love. When you first jump out of your comfort zone, you may feel lonely, because everyone around you is comfortable and comfortable, and only you are working hard. When you keep moving forward with firm faith, you will find that there are many companions on this road, who are as unwilling to seek more possibilities in life as you are. They are self-disciplined, positive, sunny and optimistic, and they are more in tune than those people around you who chase dramas and play games every day.
201965438+1October 8th, which is a memorable day. On this day, I met Mr. Teng Fengran from another class in 007. Through her, I got to know Zhang Dage and joined the Super Speaker Rigeng Group. Although I graduated from college, my oral expression ability is really flattering and my speech is illogical. Reading an article that everyone can read is also stuttering. However, in any industry, good eloquence and eloquence can often give you more opportunities.
I remember when I first joined the Himalayan recording interface, my mind was blank and I couldn't say a word. Even if you write a written manuscript, you should read it completely and never take your eyes off it. Therefore, I intend to write down my reading experience every day and read it as a speech. Even so, I can't read fluently, and the rhythm, sentence breaks and feelings are all at sixes and sevens. However, I learned a sentence in 007, finish first and then perfect, because it is not perfect yet, so I have to practice. Therefore, even if I don't read well, I only record each audio once. The articles I read aloud are all read while reading, just to record these flawed histories for future comparison and see how much progress has been made after one year.
Actually, I haven't waited for a year. On the third day of recording, I felt progress. At first, the muscles in the throat were tense and it was unnatural to read. On the third day, I can relax and read slowly. Until today, I practiced for 43 days. During the Spring Festival, it was too noisy at home, so I hid in the toilet and read a book alone, just to insist. At present, it is much better to read 67 pieces of American English audio, whether it is sentence-breaking or rhythm. These days, I tried to make a speech without writing a manuscript. From the first two minutes to the last eight minutes, I spoke more and more, with clear logic and smoother expression.
I remember the monitor of 007 told me that you should take the initiative to grow, so that you can have greater gains. So, I applied to be the monitor of class 16, a super speaker, and joined me with my husband. He graduated from a university majoring in vocal music, with a major in pronunciation. He likes broadcasting as much as I do. Here, my husband and I practice oral English together, which can not only increase topics between husband and wife, but also supervise and encourage each other. There are two little brothers in our class today, one is senior one and the other is only 10 years old. I'm glad to have such a young life to join us. In the next year, I will take my comrades in class 16 to practice and become a super speaker.
Over the past six months, I have shown my family the following: dear Andre, parenting, parents' language, intimacy, communication, not eating independently, nonviolent communication, speech style 1, 2, live for yourself once, and * *.
In fact, in reading, I don't advocate high-speed reading, just two books a week. It is important to understand the essence of books and apply them to life to improve my ability. I hope that in the days after work, I can still keep reading, talk to celebrities, feel different life and understand their wisdom in life.
From the beginning of maternity leave to the present, through long-term attraction, efforts have been made to establish a circle of friends and strive to achieve self-growth. Friends in the circle of friends have seen a true and positive image of WeChat career that loves life. Through continuous links with more people, more people are willing to trust me, pay for their beauty, and accumulate a group of loyal customers and friends, which not only gains more friendship, but also realizes good sideline income, so that I can live a good life.
In the past six months, I have been able to do so many things while taking care of the baby. I am grateful to my family for their strong support and silent efforts, and sacrificed my time to help me take care of my baby and help me deliver goods and get express delivery in cold weather. It is said that the years you enjoy are quiet and beautiful, and there must be someone behind you carrying a heavy load. My parents and my sister picked the burden for me. I thank them for their selfless dedication. In return, I will definitely take them to travel to Yunnan this year.
To sum up, I found that the harvest in the past six months is really not small. If you only feed your baby every day on the grounds of taking care of the children, you will be more anxious when you go to work tomorrow, because your brain is rusty and you can't cope with the next job. Through Do not forget your initiative mind's efforts, I have gained more positive, optimistic and strict self-discipline. This state, whether at home or at work, allows me to work at any time, calmly and purposefully. Thanks to my unremitting efforts, I have my present self. Continue to work hard, I will definitely do better and make greater progress.