This varies from person to person. If the other person (the man) has money, he can give more money. After all, you gave your daughter to your mother-in-law. Usually get engaged first. Engagement is to discuss and plan the wedding with the parents of the other party, then talk to the elders of the other party, and then go through the door, that is, let the son-in-law know the woman, let the elders of the woman know the guests, and then send a box. The so-called bride price is given, that is to say, you have to get the bride price money, which is basically the dowry fee and wedding banquet fee of the woman. If the wedding reception is held in the hotel, it will save a lot of things. ) Generally speaking, the woman marries far away from home, then the newlyweds go back to their parents' home together three days after marriage, and then the woman's brother goes to the man three days later and asks him to accompany Uncle Mo. . . It's a little cumbersome. As for the cost, now 10W says too much is not too little. It depends on the actual economic conditions of both sides. If you need to buy a house or decorate it. Just look at it. After all, it is not measured by money how old a daughter they raise to marry you as your wife. Customs vary from place to place. In short, the elders of both sides discuss it together.